Why do men hate women who sell nudes?
Hey everyone,
So I was on youtube watching a comedy called ‘Dating someone with an onlyfans’. (Didn’t make me laugh at all.)
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=nQ-xg5F4fbU
and I go to the comment section and all I see are crazy ass comments from men such as this beautiful gem.
“Uhhh i mean i can't argue with the statement that there are SOME men out there who might be able to be in that kind of relationship but most men, myself included, can't maintain a healthy relationship with a girl that's virtually whoring herself out on the web. In my PERSONAL opinion though, [B]I could never trust a woman making money by selling nude pictures/porn of herself, the entire idea is shallow and lacks virtue./B] I wouldn't want to be with any woman who is completely comfortable sending out nudes of herself for internet randoms to fap to. To me, it speaks to a lack of self-sovereignty and even a promiscuous nature. When you date a girl who enjoys getting sexual attention from a lot of other guys, 9 times out of 10 that relationship is doomed to fail because she WILL end up cheating, as it is simply in her nature. Though if you enter a relationship with a girl like that, it would have to be an open one or else it is 99% doomed to fail, because that's just the personality of that girl. Now some guys would be ok with that kind of open relationship, me however, i would not. If i was dating a girl the only one seeing her naked should be me and if she was sending nudes to other guys, money or no, I would dump her right there. From my perspective, a girl I am with should only want to be looked at sexually by me, having that desire for other men will inevitably lead to cheating, that's just how things are.”
^ I don’t understand men?! They complain if a girl is not sexual enough & will say ‘oh, i see why he cheated your not giving pussy.’ But and I quote “When you date a girl who enjoys getting sexual attention from a lot of other guys, 9 times out of 10 that relationship is doomed to fail because she WILL end up cheating, as it is simply in her nature. Though if you enter a relationship with a girl like that, it would have to be an open one or else it is 99% doomed to fail, because that's just the personality of that girl.” Bitch what?!!
That’s like saying if a man enjoys getting sexual attention from girls he’s more likely to cheat.
Then on top of that.
Men are willing to buy or DEFINITELY view “free” porn but if a girl sells porn or “e-whore” she’s a loose girl with no morals and you shouldn’t date her because you can never trust a girl like that. Like wtf is this? Then they call men who support “these types of girls” as simps.
From reading the other comments. It started to make me wonder about the future of the industry and if paid porn is dying? Physical sex, no. Definitely no time soon. But paid porn such as video and etc? I mean the industry survived many changes from physical locations only such as strip clubs or peep shows, to video tapes, then to the digital world. But the one consistent factor since the history of well whoring and it’s varies forms, is that men UNDERSTOOD to get a woman you need to spend money in some way or another. Whether that woman was in the industry or not.
I mean for now its good because we have the older generations who understand if you want a woman you have to spend coin. But the younger generation laugh at the idea of spending money on a woman in general and definitely on porn. They will literally say porn is free or just go watch the stolen content on the tube sites. Like how can you promote stolen content like that and still have the nerve to say these women have no morals or value. But yet here you are promoting thievery!!
What is your opinion on the future of the industry 20 years from now, when this generation becomes the dominant group of consumers? Do you think the porn industry will die? I’m sure sex toys, escorts and erotic writers will last. But things such as porn videos or strip clubs might just see a huge lost in profit.
What do you think?
P.S.
I wish I could move to another country, in places like South Korea or Nigeria. Men will not even date you if they don't have money because they believe you need money to date. Vs these broke, simp screaming American males.
Re: Why do men hate women who sell nudes?
I don’t know about OF customer base and spending because I don’t do it, but I can tell you that at this point at least 50% of my customers are 18-25 and they spend. Keep in mind this generation are used to living their lives on a device. The people who take the time to rail on sws on a video were never gonna pay no matter their age or station in life.
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I think it tends to be the ones still stuck in the mindset that women were intended to be under the dominion of men. On other places where I’ve posted about having worked as a stripper, it was hardly a rare occurrence where I’d encounter some bro out of the blue who felt a need to try to insult, berate, and discredit me because of it. The idea of us having autonomy over our bodies, sexuality, and lives just sends guys like that into a tailspin, and what you end up is ones who find that as a convenient outlet to express their attitudes towards women in general.
It doesn’t have to involve anything with any modicum of sex work, even. Maybe two months ago, a coworker posted a photo of the two women who work in the shop (actually, three, but one works on ‘the other side’ as we were replacing king pins on a Kenworth dump truck. It ended up getting shared to some group, and the comments section of that was laden with, “Why aren’t they in the kitchen?” quips and a bunch of shit about making sandwiches.
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Originally Posted by
queenelayliah
^ I don’t understand men?! They complain if a girl is not sexual enough & will say ‘oh, i see why he cheated your not giving pussy.’ But and I quote “When you date a girl who enjoys getting sexual attention from a lot of other guys, 9 times out of 10 that relationship is doomed to fail because she WILL end up cheating, as it is simply in her nature. Though if you enter a relationship with a girl like that, it would have to be an open one or else it is 99% doomed to fail, because that's just the personality of that girl.” Bitch what?!!
That’s like saying if a man enjoys getting sexual attention from girls he’s more likely to cheat.
Idk but I think there must be something in their genes, they just react on whatever they consider a threat against their exclusivity of their partner. (Not trying to justify!)
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Originally Posted by
queenelayliah
Men are willing to buy or DEFINITELY view “free” porn but if a girl sells porn or “e-whore” she’s a loose girl with no morals and you shouldn’t date her because you can never trust a girl like that. Like wtf is this? Then they call men who support “these types of girls” as simps.
In my experience, men are often less consistent.
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Sooooo. I guess this person has never consumed the final product of a sex worker ( porn or a lap dance or a massage ect. ) !
Because if you have EVER consumed this product you have no right to then whine and bitch about the ladies who make / profit from it.
:)
Re: Why do men hate women who sell nudes?
Insecurity and selfish desire to own what they cannot fully have.
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Male entitlement - they think female sexuality should be free and easily, readily available. Pornhub has tons of stolen porn, (also revenge porn, rape videos & porn videos of minors but that's a story for another day) because they make a game out of it. There are whole websites dedicated to leaking Onlyfans content and leaking nudes because it's literally just all a big game to them. Swapping women's nudes around no different than trading Pokemon cards. No one likes to feel like they were scammed, and since they are so entitled to sex they leak this content and feel superior because they scammed it out of us & they get our naked bodies for free.
Jealousy/Insecurity - They see us making good $$ and call it "female privilege" when they forget they are the ones who objectify us so much they created this market for us to thrive in. (Same with "pussy pass"; who do you think gave us that pass? And at what cost?) Nevermind the fact that sex work is the ONLY profession where a woman can consistently out-earn a man in the same position (with gender as the only variable), and they get paid more & get more opportunities in literally every other type of career. That's one faucet of power (money = power) they can't dominate us with, so they want to control it.
Stigma - Due to stigma and the fact law enforcement is less likely to help us, they see us as easy targets. Pathetic losers go after easy targets because it puffs their egos.
Misogyny - The biggest reason honestly, society hates women, doesn't matter what you do. Dress and act modestly, get a "respectable" career, they'll call you a shriveled up prude and tell you to go back to the kitchen & out of the office. Be a barefoot and pregnant SAHM with your spouse paying the bills, you're called a gold digger who uses him for money & gets to just laze around the house all day doing nothing. (Nevermind the fact that domestic duties & managing a family are full time jobs on their own, and are all usually dumped on the woman even though we're now expected to work & pay half of bills too while the man works, pays half of bills & comes home to sit and relax on the couch.) Be sexually liberated you're a slut or whore with a roast beef cunt that got stretched out from pounding too much. ANYTHING women like, anything female-dominated, they hate. If women like flavored lattes from Starbucks, men hate it BECAUSE women like it. (As if their bacon memes are any different.) This reason is also why everyone is so quick to blame the woman in any situation (she was asking for it, he broke up with her bc she let herself go or wouldn't put out, etc. Why do you think single mothers are shamed and seen as trashy, too? They're the parent that chose to stick around! Meanwhile single dads are praised!) Our society is patriarchal and male identified with a deep general hatred for women, anyone who says otherwise, that men & women are truly equal, is fooling themselves. So they're gonna hate, endanger & oppress us regardless. Sex work is just an easy jab due to the stigma. They even invent the term "simp" to jab at the men who think we just might deserve to be paid for our jobs & hard work & would rather pay for ethical, independent porn rather than get it all for free from Pornhub.
So lol, fuck 'em. You're the one making your money. Protect your information & content best you can, & watermark it so if it does get leaked, at least you're getting free advertisement. We can laugh at them knowing we're living our best lives and that many of us have partners that love and respect us regardless of the work we do. Also for your concern I have good, younger regulars in both the club and Onlyfans and I don't even go nude. Many older men do not know how to use computers or navigate Onlyfans so they are not our prime online customer base. My best regular is only 30. Pathetic men exist no matter the generation, just like cheapskates exist in every other industry. Just focus on the decent ones who are happy to pay our rates.
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It hurts their fragile male ego and false sense of entitlement. They don't like the idea that women can earn more than they can, take control of their bodies and use it to be successful.And they also don't want to pay for it, they feel like they're entitled to women for free. Not all men are like this by the way! The ones that are like this are not men who I associate with, they tend to look down on all types of adult workers (strippers, escorts, etc)
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I think it's:
1. it's something women can do but men generally can't do, so they feel resentment on how "easy" it is for women to make money off their bodies and how desired women are compared to men
2. they feel rejected if they can't a woman's sexuality for free or if she refuses, and a lot of guys take this very personally and viscerally so they lash out. a lot of men wrap their identities around women's approval and by this i mean not an actual woman or a human being but the "idea" of some larger-than-life "Woman". In other words, they're mental.
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Who cares what they think.
But yeah, the above, & jealousy