Payment insight from an experienced Sugar Daddy
I can't reply to the threads discussing this, only out myself here. I've tried every online payment method known. There are only two I use. One is WalMart-WalMart. The other is PayPal, which gets a bad rap.
Never accept a PayPal marked for "product or service" as these are subject to reversal.
Always accept PayPal marked for "send to friend" as there's nothing I as the sender can do about it, after.
Venmo, CashApp, and all other such ilk require me to enable my bank account for online transactions. I simply won't do that. Any SD (or strip-club patron) who actually has money can PP it as "send to friend". A few years ago, the gals were all like, PP or nothing, now they hate PP? Prolly for accepting reversible "product or service" transactions.
I don't patronize strip clubs, just an allowance daddy, but I fail to see what difference that makes on payment, unless cash.
Just my $0.02.
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Thanks for sharing your insights.
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No offense, but this is just a stupid post. Are you looking for a new Sugar Baby? I mean come on? You really think these Women need advice on that. You're KILLING me, here.
You keep saying that you don't go to Strip Clubs, which means you DO go to Strip Clubs. Nobody protests that much, and why are you even on Stripperweb if you don't go to Strip Clubs. It's called STRIPPERweb. Isn't that why we're all here? Go to a Sugar Daddy forum, dude. I mean What The Fuck? You'll find what you want there.
And he says: :"Oh I don't go to Strip Clubs, Never, at all". How the fuck do you meet your Sugar Babies then? Or do you actually have any? And why do they have to still strip? Evidently you're a pretty shitty Sugar Daddy.
This entire thing is ridiculous.
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Sorry to everyone else, I've just lost my patience with this guy. He's off the wall.
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Raziel
No offense, but this is just a stupid post. Are you looking for a new Sugar Baby? I mean come on? You really think these Women need advice on that. You're KILLING me, here.
I came here looking for an answer to a question. I got plenty, and they all agreed. Now I'm defending myself against ridiculous allegations based on my lifestyle, which I did not expect to encounter here.
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Raziel
You keep saying that you don't go to Strip Clubs, which means you DO go to Strip Clubs.
Not for 20 years. Calling me a liar doesn't help anyone interested in this issue.
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Raziel
Nobody protests that much, and why are you even on Stripperweb if you don't go to Strip Clubs. It's called STRIPPERweb. Isn't that why we're all here? Go to a Sugar Daddy forum, dude. I mean What The Fuck? You'll find what you want there.
Because my questions involve a subset of sugar babies who are dancers, what are you, the bouncer? Do I need your approval to post here?
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Raziel
And he says: :"Oh I don't go to Strip Clubs, Never, at all". How the fuck do you meet your Sugar Babies then? Or do you actually have any?
In the past few days on Seeking, I've met (online, not in person) four dancers. Are you trying to dispute that strippers also sugar baby?
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And why do they have to still strip? Evidently you're a pretty shitty Sugar Daddy.
You have this antiquated notion about the sugar life which assumes the only "real" arrangements essentially buy the gal as the daddy's personal property so she has all her needs taken care of, if only she puts out. Way to believe the propaganda without any firsthand knowledge. This is not how it goes -- I know one SB leading such a lifestyle out of hundreds I've met.
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This entire thing is ridiculous.
You're the one being ridiculous with your ad-hominem attacks against me based on stigmatizing and othering those who sugar. Wow. Didn't expect that here.
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Sorry to everyone else, I've just lost my patience with this guy. He's off the wall.
You need to apologize to yourself. I could give a damn. But you have this stereotypical view of my lifestyle you can't seem to get over even though it's based on bullshit you probably read in a magazine article about "sugaring bad". While leading a similar lifestyle rampant with the same ignorant propaganda? Get over yourself, dude.
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Gentlemen please chill out before I delete the thread.
This is a site for dancers/cammers and others in the industry who identify as women; we blues are just here to add some experience and knowledge, not to fight. Trust me there have been many conversations about banning blues altogether and locking the site.
Raziel as the senior member here could you please set an example for the newer blues? We keep maybe one in 20 of them. It's harder to be a blue on here than it is to get into Harvard. He may be one of the good ones long term. .
Mellowmutt please don't be defensive - if you think Raziel is being hard on you wait until one of the dancers goes after you. Read some of the legendary takedowns here to see what can happen. Best attitude is one of positive bemusement. It takes a while for the dancers to trust you, as well it should. If you're here for the long term I'd advise you let things roll off your back until you get the lay of the land.
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Yeah, yeah, OK. A Mod steps in and I back off. I just don't hold back on guys, call it a personal failing.