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The Official FETISH Thread! (For Fetish/ BDSM cammodels and content creators)
And, there it is! We are many fetish models around and we don't have our own special corner! Ha!
Of course, I am kidding, everyone is invited! Either you are a dominant, a switch, a submissive, a vanilla that also does fetish, feel free to come in and speak your mind in here!
So, what say you? Feel free to use this thread to bring news, discuss, offer or ask for any kind of fetish/ bdsm related advice, discuss about the experience on the fetish section on cam/ content sites and so on!
Keep in mind that this forum is literally filled with information already, please use the "advanced search" function first and see what you can find, maybe you find the answer to your questions, or find an old gem piece of advice, lost trough the post and you want to share it. Bring it all in here!
So... welcome!
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Wooop wooop ! I am a switch but honestly I get to do 50% dom, 30% sub and 20% vanilla haha ! I am very excited for this thread! To give info & receive it ! Cause I swear I always learn something new dayly in fetish (evan tough I am in it of 8 years already haha) !
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Yesss! I am 70% domme/30% vanilla right now. I am just going to leave this here. I thought this video was really insightful. If anybody has sources to learn more about the psychology behind fetish/Femdom, please post them here!
https://youtu.be/jDJJtmUl2vQ
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I am all domme and I feel I have so much to learn, about all kind of kinks, fetishes, etc. As VioletDoll said, you can't exclusively make money from findom only. Findom clients are pretty rare and they all come with an extra fetish. They are more open to spend when you wear outfits they are weak for (certain type and colors of stockings, leather, latex, lace, satin, etc).
All I know is I need a Kindle reader, because I have a ton of ebooks in my amazon account (I go and see what's for free and I download it). I have to start reading them and learn more, because I reached a level where i feel stuck and kinda... behind.
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Yess I know. You see this with the influx of 'pandemic newbies' who only do Findom -> posting pretty pics of themselves with a payment link. You need knowledge about fetish and more important, the willingness to cater to this. I think this influx could be the reason its been a little slow last year. But those girls won't last long, and the ones who do want to learn and to grow out to be good Dommes. The guys will soon learn they won't get satisfied in their fetish by paying 'Insta Dommes'....
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Cutie101
I am all domme and I feel I have so much to learn, about all kind of kinks, fetishes, etc. As VioletDoll said, you can't exclusively make money from findom only. Findom clients are pretty rare and they all come with an extra fetish. They are more open to spend when you wear outfits they are weak for (certain type and colors of stockings, leather, latex, lace, satin, etc).
All I know is I need a Kindle reader, because I have a ton of ebooks in my amazon account (I go and see what's for free and I download it). I have to start reading them and learn more, because I reached a level where i feel stuck and kinda... behind.
Welp my top findom client’s extra fetish (besides CEI and drinking his own urine) must have been to be a whiny lil bitch. He had a constant love/hate relationship with findom- as they all seem to, it’s a self-destructive addiction- and it was like he had split personalities. We chatted pretty much daily outside of sessions so it was hard to ever know which part of him was talking-- his submissive or rational side. 5+ years of this b.s. and it’s finally over!! probably
We initially met on MFC but 90% of the time our sessions were through texting via chat apps so rarely cam, and I never had to send any content to get him weak. I’d get on cam fully clothed to play various $ games and to watch & direct him on how to eat his cum/drink his urine among other tasks.
Sometimes I wonder if he liked to deliberately mess with me outside of sessions because I was taking all his money and he resented me for it? We had arguments regularly due to me misunderstanding him and never being able to tell if he was in a “sub mood” or not— it was as if his exit strategy was to piss me off so bad that I would leave him first because he couldn’t leave me?? Well let’s just say our political differences in November are what caused the last argument!! Bye bitch. We've "broken up" many times though but I think it's for good this time
I haven't watched Violet's video yet so I'm not sure what she meant by "you can't exclusively make money from findom only" but I feel like what came along with mine was all the emotional labor and mindgames/fuckery that he put me through. He never wanted anything from me but my time and attention, which was exhausting
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^Wanted to add that none of the random findom guys on SM have ever asked to see anything either, and I never have to make them "weak". I always sit there fully clothed just showing my face and play games!! Just my experience
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One book I read when I first started off camming was Men In Love by Nancy Friday https://www.amazon.com/Men-Love-Nanc.../dp/0385333420. I was clueless to the world of fetish first starting out. This book really helped me to understand the psychology behind some fetishes.
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minibagel
^Wanted to add that none of the random findom guys on SM have ever asked to see anything either, and I never have to make them "weak". I always sit there fully clothed just showing my face and play games!! Just my experience
I had a young sub also into findom "games". Mostly I seem to attract the more older, and old school findom guys who are into "forced intox" and cruel findom trash talking tease & denial/ruined orgasm shows (and a lot of verbal findom). Most of them love it bitchy/bratty...some more mixed with sensual.
I now have a new sub, a young one, and seems like he himself doesnt know that well yet what he really is into. I really enjoy the more older clients. The below 30 ones, are besides not loaded enough with money yet in a lot of cases, but also to highly influenced it seems by this twitter/instadomme crap
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Originally Posted by
minibagel
^Wanted to add that none of the random findom guys on SM have ever asked to see anything either, and I never have to make them "weak". I always sit there fully clothed just showing my face and play games!! Just my experience
I have same experience.... in most findom cases...
When more mixed into other kind of fetish/roleplay scenario's where findom is not the #1 fetish i did had clients who were into fe bodyworship or succubus play which can involve nudity/sensual or cruel seduction. The intox old school findom ones usually dont request nudity or sensual , denial is more their turn on in most cases (but not always)
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IvyRose
I had a young sub also into findom "games". Mostly I seem to attract the more older, and old school findom guys who are into "forced intox" and cruel findom tradh talking tease & denial/ruined orgasm shows (and a lot of verbal findom talk).
I now have a new sub, a young one, and seems like he himself diesnt know that well yet what he really is into. I really enjoy the more older clients. The below 30 ones, are besides not loaded enough with money yet in a lot of cases but also to highly imfluenced it seems by this twitter/instadomme crap
My top findom guy I was talking about is 50, so about twice my age. I've also done forced intox with him, mostly with Ambien but maybe only once with alcohol. He also liked to have me log into his accounts and send myself $, stuff like that. He was never into ruined orgasm, but he told me eating his own cum/drinking urine made him feel devoted to me. Very submissive act
He was also REALLY into the verbal findom talk which is why it was so exhausting at times, the pay games were in the background but the language is what really got him feeling sub. Because of our texting sessions, I'd sometimes be out and about doing things and he'd feel sub and I'd have to stop what I was doing to seize the opportunity
I also prefer older guys as well, but a 28 y/o on SM maxed out his $500 daily limit with me 3x in one week so I guess I can't be too quick to judge with the under 30 ones!!
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I'm a Domme who specializes in foot fetish. I started out in 2008. Guys with a foot fetish can be really particular. A foot show isn't just about posing feet. I often times ask, right as an pvt or excl starts a couple questions: clean or dirty feet? If clean, is sweaty OK? If dirty, what odor do you prefer: gym funk, corn chip, vinegar? Yes, different odors for the stinky fetish really gets them off.
& talk: dirty foot fetish talk. Most seem to love, during feet JOI, talk about feet on face hand jobs, smearing your funk on their faces, wrapping your toes around their shafts. Most of my feet JOI involve lots of dirty foot fetish talk which really gets these guys going.
You gotta get inside the head of a guy with a foot fetish. They like all kinds of stuff. Talking in detail about how sheer stockings feel on your toes & knowing they'd love to see cum drip from your big toe down your wrinkled sole just does them in lololll.
I've talked to thousands of these guys & no foot fetishist is the same. Some like wrinkled soles while others like them smooth & flexed. Or the toe spreads & curls guys. Some sexy sensual toes spreads can make a guy bust fast lololll.
Some even like the "nastier" aspects of the fetish: eating your cuticle skin or would pay to ingest your ped egg flakes.
Feet right? We are talking about the things that help us balance & walk. They seem so trivial, but to a guy with this fetish they are a gold mine.
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Great Thread Idea, thanks, Cutie!
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Originally Posted by
minibagel
My top findom guy I was talking about is 50, so about twice my age. I've also done forced intox with him, mostly with Ambien but maybe only once with alcohol. He also liked to have me log into his accounts and send myself $, stuff like that. He was never into ruined orgasm, but he told me eating his own cum/drinking urine made him feel devoted to me. Very submissive act
He was also REALLY into the verbal findom talk which is why it was so exhausting at times, the pay games were in the background but the language is what really got him feeling sub. Because of our texting sessions, I'd sometimes be out and about doing things and he'd feel sub and I'd have to stop what I was doing to seize the opportunity
I also prefer older guys as well, but a 28 y/o on SM maxed out his $500 daily limit with me 3x in one week so I guess I can't be too quick to judge with the under 30 ones!!
Wow didnt expect him to have that age bec he was sounding so immature and whiny, therefor i exoected hom to be younger. But yeah, older people can still behalve like snotty whiney subs too!
Sounds like in your first post that he was carrying a lot of emotional bagage with him and pushing this onto you. I am happy for you that you dont have to deal with the exhaustion anymore caused by having to deal with him and his moodswings/back and forth sub and non submode.
Youll attrackt a better finsub with less emotional tugging!
Looks like he was also really into being able to be yoir sub 24/7 when he felt like diving into his fetish (and even when not and feeling vanilla). I think this level of D/s relationships can become very draining esp in a professional (paid) setting
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Loving this thread already. Taking notes!
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AuroraJade
Loving this thread already. Taking notes!
Me too :)
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i love ageplay for a fetish but its never allowed on the main sites like SM CB ect.
which sucks.
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I'm a professional sub!
Is anyone else using Fetlife to find new customers? I'm having some success, but tips always welcome!
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Brooke
I'm a professional sub!
Is anyone else using Fetlife to find new customers? I'm having some success, but tips always welcome!
I do sub stuff, fetlife was a mess of guys messaging me to meet up or long copy paste messages proving they never read my profile.
I have more luck posting in niche communities about things I liked within the niche and experiences I had.
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Brooke
I'm a professional sub!
Is anyone else using Fetlife to find new customers? I'm having some success, but tips always welcome!
FetLife was great back in 2012-13. I found & developed professional relationships with 2 foot fetish freaks who became stunt cocks for my Footjob vids.
Fast-forward to recently & it's a total joke. Nothing fruitful came of my interactions. I ditched it.
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I'm best known in the clip world for my pee fetish clips (been top sellers for over half a decade now), but in the past few years I've transitioned more to camming which was definitely where I hit my stride.
I find it funny: Though I've always have been fairly dominant & I'd say 75% of my cam shows are somehow domination/fetish based, so many fetishes that I have huge followings for on cam do not sell nearly as well on clip sites and vice versa. For example, I think I've done all of 4 pee related cam shows in my entire career and rarely am I asked for them, but pee fetish based clips sell incredibly well for me. On the other hand, I would say nearly half my income on cam & phone sites come from men with cuckold fetishes, but I have an insanely hard time selling cuckold clips. I've tried a variety of clip sites and formats, but they have never been top sellers for me or on any given clip site.
Anyone else have this issue?
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I go into fetish, will dress up on cam, sub, Dom, foot, shoe, stockings.
Does anyone have little figurines and or tips for Giantess please?
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I am looking for something too! Little toy cars and figurines. Had a customer ask about it. But love it, I think its a very creative fetish.
Looked at Playmobil figurines, they are super small which is good, but they are quite expensive and you need to buy the whole set. Not spending 35 Euros on that, Lol. Maybe the Dollar Store, or something equivalent to that in your country?
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Strawberryblonde
I go into fetish, will dress up on cam, sub, Dom, foot, shoe, stockings.
Does anyone have little figurines and or tips for Giantess please?
Any GTS I engage in is done without props. One creative way is to cast a spell & shrink them. Using cam dropping slower & lower as they shrink to your feet. Keeping the cam either on feet or on the floor looking up at you where you appear a hundred feet tall.
Talking about how small they are & how you could crush them easily is enjoyable for these fetishists.
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Hi,
So I personally identify as a submissive been identifying with that side of me since my since my “pre 18+ years.” However, when it comes to phone sex work, I’m a switch. I get off physically and mentally from domainting men & but lately I love it when women dominate me.
My PSO characters tend to fall back into two main categories.,
1) a submissive slut thats has few limits: loves obeying, being master/mistress fucktoy, domination, watersports and everything else under the sun.
2) My domme side is sensual but can be mean & teasing: very much into the cheating wife fetish, BBC, cuckolding, sissy training, key holder, small penis humiliation and wife humiliation.
I have an entire profile dedicated towards cuckolding and how im craving to be breed by a big cock hopefully a big black one in front of my pathetic limp dick husband. I have more regulars on that profile versus my submissive profiles.
Have any of you domme had any luck in selling erotica towards men where the main character is a male being dominated and controlled by a mistress? I really want to write and make a website and add the option to call me to discuss your feeling like a phone sex therpaist. But everyone keeps saying it’s mostly women who buy erotica. Any thoughts?