Re: How do I become successful enough to get invited to parties?
I would focus less on the parties . :)
I'd do two things.
1. Get into a club and start making some money. That will honestly give you a good sense of if dealing with men in a transactional type situation is a good fit for you.
2. Try lower scale sugaring like others mentioned . Be at the right places looking nice and see what happens ( country clubs such as public courses , car shows , art shows ect. ) ! If you are a nice looking single woman at these events there is about a 97%-99% chance you'll at least have some conversations giving you a sense of the people you meet. Then you can go from there.
Honestly you seem party obsessed ! Ha.
You can get into larger type parties in Vegas for example just by showing up and being good looking.
^ BUT what will it do ? As a dancer who works that city I would NEVER go to these places unless they were paying me!
By going and not being the club I would be losing money.
BUT If you want that you could probably go now and just start the IG thread you want !
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^ oneeeee milliiiiiooonnnn percent in agreement with what others have said about discretion.
People you meet in person will probably NOT want photos all over !
^^^
These are men with upscale jobs to get to on Monday morning !
I would tell them you don't even have FB or IG when getting started because it eases their minds AND makes it less likely they will poke around online looking for your info.
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Honestly you can sugar anywhere. If you don't have upscale bars or event in your area then simply drive over to them. :)
Back in my single days I would even take my dog and walk him in the best neighboorhoods. Why not right ? Ha !
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I don't live in Vegas or Miami, maybe I do live in the middle of nowhere, so what places should I consider relocating to? Besides Vegas and Miami.
Re: How do I become successful enough to get invited to parties?
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Leucippat
This use of the word "easy" isn't accurate. You have to be exceptionally pretty, well above average
Again, intentionally being obtuse. Being exceptionally pretty is mandatory for the attention you are seeking, yes.
HOWEVER, if you start at a decent baseline, the correct hair/makeup/clothing can kick you up a couple notches to where you're good enough.
And that said, I'm sorry but if you think dolling yourself up is "hard" you must not have much experience doing anything actually difficult.
Go make regular friends and be fun that way. Trust me, you don't want to be friends with the kind of people who only like you because you're hanging out with some douchebag one-hit-wonder rapper, and those are the people you'll get chasing social media clout.
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But I'm not the only one who wants this, it was someone else who told me dancers know all the hottest happenings, so there must be at least one other person who thinks this life is a good one.
So if there are many people who like this life, but so few who achieve it, I have to believe dolling myself up properly isn't a casual feat. Otherwise these people who idolize exciting nightlife would just do that.
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Leucippat
But I'm not the only one who wants this, it was someone else who told me dancers know all the hottest happenings, so there must be at least one other person who thinks this life is a good one.
So if there are many people who like this life, but so few who achieve it, I have to believe dolling myself up properly isn't a casual feat. Otherwise these people who idolize exciting nightlife would just do that.
It seems like for every solution or advice someone gives you, you have a reason to counter it. Do YOU believe YOU have what it takes? Whatever your answer is, you're right. If you don't believe you can do it, and you don't believe you are/can be hot enough, then there you have it. Most people in general do not achieve great success in their lifetimes, for a myriad of reasons.
Re: How do I become successful enough to get invited to parties?
^ From what we gather though you are not a current dancer !
That’s why I recommend to start .
It takes a lot of prep EVERY day you work.
It’s a hard job in ways .
I wouldn’t assume it’s easy money by a long shot.
As a dancer I’ve been invited to go in things like limo ride with well known bands ect.!
I chose to stay IN the club because the $$$ offered was unclear.
I always work the guy holding money OUT v.s. the “ you’ll be covered “ later guy. This is my preference.
I don’t have time to just burn.
Basically I think what a lot of us are recommending is just to protect your time and if you do public outings make sure you are getting paid up front.
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trustfundkiller
It seems like for every solution or advice someone gives you, you have a reason to counter it. Do YOU believe YOU have what it takes? Whatever your answer is, you're right. If you don't believe you can do it, and you don't believe you are/can be hot enough, then there you have it. Most people in general do not achieve great success in their lifetimes, for a myriad of reasons.
I don't know yet, I haven't tried it. I hope I can do it and I'll take everyone's advice here for my playbook when it's time to play.
Re: How do I become successful enough to get invited to parties?
Unless you are in some very important persons inner circle you will not be connected to any person you deem to be cool. If you are fucking them for free even there will be an NDA. If you are at an actual social gathering, there will be one person insisting on a NDA. Any whift of you showing intimate pictures or anything embarrassing you will hear from so many grown men speaking scary legal bullshit.
People who are in posted pictures have a hopefully beneficial financial agreement. A rich dude may allow a picture because it is his buddies club and he may have invested. So also echoing that you should try to be some sort of content creator, you’ll end up going to better parties probably.
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kamiliam
Unless you are in some very important persons inner circle you will not be connected to any person you deem to be cool. If you are fucking them for free even there will be an NDA. If you are at an actual social gathering, there will be one person insisting on a NDA. Any whift of you showing intimate pictures or anything embarrassing you will hear from so many grown men speaking scary legal bullshit.
People who are in posted pictures have a hopefully beneficial financial agreement. A rich dude may allow a picture because it is his buddies club and he may have invested. So also echoing that you should try to be some sort of content creator, you’ll end up going to better parties probably.
Like run an Instagram? That's part of my plan too.
Re: How do I become successful enough to get invited to parties?
You do realize that Instagram literally lets people curate what you see of their lives? A huge amount of it is completely fake or the circumstances surrounding it are omitted. These IG "models" who are posting lavish photos in exotic locations? They're being flown around by some millionaire who they are definitely sleeping with and probably having to indulge his extreme fetishes as well. Super dangerous way to accomplish looking 'cool'...
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bellabellaince
You do realize that Instagram literally lets people curate what you see of their lives? A huge amount of it is completely fake or the circumstances surrounding it are omitted. These IG "models" who are posting lavish photos in exotic locations? They're being flown around by some millionaire who they are definitely sleeping with and probably having to indulge his extreme fetishes as well. Super dangerous way to accomplish looking 'cool'...
Everyone says Instagram is curated. I know it is. That's Instagram 101. But one awesome night out of 365 is still better than 0 nights out of 365. The fact that these women get to do this even once makes it a life worth my pursuing.
Re: How do I become successful enough to get invited to parties?
This thread is corny lol. Sounds like a child's star studded dream of being discovered or some pretty woman fest