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be honest am i to fat to dance
i gained so much weight being in the house over the past months, i know i need to get back in the gym if i truly desire to get hired or lose weight. anywho i’m looking for honest opinions only i can take Constructive criticism i am really pretty and can dress it up should i wait to lose more weight or do you think a club will hire me in california socal area am i fat or more on the thick side can y’all tell me what i look like in someone else eyes i tried not suck or flex my body thank you
Re: be honest am i to fat to dance
High waisted underwear has become trendy in the past couple years, so I’d take advantage of that. There is room for improvement, especially in midsection, but I think you have a generally good shape. An urban club would suit you best. Idk the area, but they have a bazillion clubs so there should be something for you. Once in the door, and interacting with customers, figure out your goals from there.
Just my opinion.
Re: be honest am i to fat to dance
The worst thing they could say is no and you can come back when you're feeling more fit to try again. I'd totally hit the clubs that have mostly curvy girls and see how it goes and move clubs after you feel more body confident.
After I gained weight due to the pandemic I showed up for work regardless. Bills need to be paid lol.
Re: be honest am i to fat to dance
You can make up for the extra weight by really glamming up your appearance when you go to auditions. Long extensions/wig, lashes, nails done, flattering outfit. That bikini bottom is too small and makes you look bigger-I agree with the suggestion of high waisted bottoms. A bodysuit could work too! A higher pair of heels will also make you look slimmer on stage.
Re: be honest am i to fat to dance
There are girls at my club that are your size or bigger and make great money. I honestly believe there's a clientele for everyone. You'll lose weight dancing if you don't drink and overindulge after work.
Re: be honest am i to fat to dance
I would say just start dancing at the big booty clubs.
All the skinny bitch/ old white guy clubs I know of are either horribly dirty or have slow periods.
Wear one pieces or high waisted panties until you get leaner.
Re: be honest am i to fat to dance
There will be clubs that love you just the way you are. There is a huge market for girls of all sizes, shapes, and personalities. Sadly there are way too many strip club hiring managers who don't understand that men love variety. I've worked with curvy girls who make bank, and the smart clubs know to hire all kinds. Weight should be the very last thing to be worried about if you want to be in the industry. You are beautiful just the way you are.
Give all the clubs in your area a go. Don't worry about being rejected. It doesn't matter. You keep going, because there are men who would want to spend serious money on you. If push comes to shove, you should give webcamming a try if you're comfortable with that. The internet would love you too.
Re: be honest am i to fat to dance
If i posed myself the same way, I'd look like a literal gremlin / troll, lol! You look like you have nice skin and nice boobs...just find an outfit with a more flattering cut for your body type, and carry yourself like a queen!
Re: be honest am i to fat to dance
I worked at a club where they had women of all different sizes. There was a gal whose makeup, hair, and outfit were on-point. She was gorgeous, carried herself well, and men loved her. She was always making money and she knew how to dance well, too. You're smaller than she is. Make sure you find an outfit that fits well and is flattering, and that hair, makeup, etc. are on-point too. I worked in southern CA too. The clubs here used to be strict about hiring rock-hard bodies that were toned to perfection, but nowadays I notice that more clubs are embracing different body types. Working a lot always toned me up fast, along with sticking to drinking lemon water throughout my shifts and not eating large meals at the end of the night.