Hi girls! Do you think it's embarrassing to be a virgin at 24 and never kissed a woman? Just want to know your honest opinion.:-\
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Hi girls! Do you think it's embarrassing to be a virgin at 24 and never kissed a woman? Just want to know your honest opinion.:-\
It's ok, you're just a late bloomer.
Lots of men under the age of 30 are virgins. Focus on being what someone wants in a mate rather than whether or not you have had sex or not. Like good job with potential, smart & always learning new skills, good sense of humor, volunteer at an animal shelter or habitat for humanity. More well rounded person you are with good hygiene more likely you are to find someone who loves you. Join a co-ed sports team for fun, take a cooking class.
Staying at home & playing videos games with mostly other males ain't it.
I'm not a girl, but, I'll give you my opinion anyway. It depends why you are a virgin at 24.
(1) If you are a good looking guy and the only reason you are a virgin is because you are a 'hopelessly romantic' dude that is waiting for that 'most special lady', women will eat that up. You should consider raffling yourself to cougars.
(2) On the other hand, if you are an obese and ugly guy (no disrespect, just laying it out) that does not attract woman, then, yeah, that will be embarrassing. You need to work on yourself. Even an ugly guy can work out at the gym to get fit, fix his teeth, buy nicer clothes, etc.
(3) If you are a 24-year old virgin because you are scared of girls, that might go either way. Some women may be turned off by your lack of confidence, and other women may think its cute that you are so shy. You should consider hiring a professional lady to screw you until you overcome your fear of women.
(4) If you are a 24-year old virgin because you are a gaming nerd who plays video games all day and never socializes with the opposite gender, then, you need to find a female gamer. Only a female gamer will think you're cool enough to bonk.
My honest opinion is you should just consider going to an professional and losing your virginity. It seems like you are bothered by being an virgin. So, I believe that an professional can help you overcome some of that awkwardness and shyness you have towards women. Just my two cents.
In the modern world that's okay. Don't worry about that :)
Unless you're the hopelessly romantic guy that is saving himself for his soul-mate (I won't judge), I totally agree with DonaDiable.
Make it something real special - like a trip to Costa Rica or Amsterdam (depending on budget and preference). Both of these countries have legalized prostitution and beautiful professional women; and there is also a lot of other cool things to do. Plan to have sex with at least 5 women during your trip. Tell your dad, uncles, cousins, friends, etc. about your sexual pilgrimage and ask for donations. If you go to Costa Rica, some of the nicer hotels have prostitutes working there. Go to nice places, don't go to shady places. In Amsterdam, the prostitutes in the Red-Light District are very hot and inexpensive (like $50 back in 2017), but, you only get 15 minutes with them. You may need more time the first time. But, it will be enough time once you have experience. With the first girl, tell her it is your first time and negotiate a price to spend as much time as necessary.
I realize now that you are in Russia. Maybe you know some other awesome sex tourism destinations in that part of the world.
I think one of my brothers is a virgin. I don't ever remember him having a girlfriend or going on a date and he's past 30. He just work then comes home and sleeps. A real homebody and a tightwad. LoL
He sounds like my uncle. My uncle never appeared to date anyone, but, he had close friends. And, when he got his own place, there was always a close friend living with him.
My uncle is gay and he has still not come out of the closet at over 65. We expected him to come out of the closet after my grandmother died (a devout Catholic), but, he had spent the better half of his life in the closet by then, and everyone pretty much knew anyway, so, there was no big announcement from him after she died.
I'm not saying your brother is gay, but, there is a possibility that he is. And, there is nothing wrong with being gay. Sometimes, I envy them, because, I'm sure they get laid more than me. My wife thinks 3-4 times per weeks is good, but, my libido demands twice that amount.
I’m not a girl. My advice is simple. Enjoy your life and enjoy your current situation (as a virgin). Life is too short to be concerned if others might not understand yours. I wish you the best!
Agreed with Jack that the "why" is an important factor. There are lots of reasons why someone might still be a virgin at that age. I think i waited until i was over 20 (i had already been dancing nude for over two years by that point). However, i think the main reason i waited so long is because i turned out to be asexual. I thought i was bisexual since i was equally interested (disinterested) in men and women, and i thought i was waiting to have sex because of my personal values and anxieties around sex. But it turned out that it was because i don't desire people sexually.
The odds are low that that's your situation, but I'm just using it as an example to elucidate a point!
NOPE. NO virgins allowed in this vagina. I don't want a stage 5 clinger. This is supposed to be a special moment you can remember. I had one tell me he was a virgin afterwards and I was so annoyed. I have very high energy sex compared to slow/passionate and it's not what you should experience for your first time.
Did the OP ran off? LOL
There's nothing wrong with being a virgin at any age. I think that's refreshing because we've become so overly sexual. Being overly sexual has become so celebrated!
I'm always taken back by how so many people these days are sexually active at such a young age.
You could be asexual. I'm asexual and love it so much that I'm now celibate. #celibacy #asexual #celibatehoe
Girl, please. The Op was asking opinions about his virginity. I gave my opinion as the op sounded like he was hard up to lose his virginity. Many of sex workers I knew worked with virgins.
I never felt virginity was special nor sacred not even my own. I wasn't raised to think virginity was special. In fact, most people in my family lose their virginity between 14 to 17.I said it numerous times on here that I lost my virginity for 1200 at 17. That's how I wanted to lose mine. That's why I can say what said. It's not deep.
The 24-year old virgin walks into a strip club/brothel (Nevada?) and there is a angel dancer on his right shoulder and a devil dancer on his left shoulder.
Angel Dancer: This is not the place to lose your virginity! Your first time should be very special with a girl that loves and appreciates you. She will have a special place in your heart. It should be magical experience that you will cherish for all your life.
Devil Dancer: That's all horse shit! You're just too damn intimidated by girls and their veejays and its high time you learn to be a man and ride da punani. Pick one of these extras girl you think looks hot, hand her over a some Benjamins, and get on with it!
Not politically correct joke
An Indian goes to the whore house
He knocks on the door, the lady who answered says “What do you want, Chief?” He says “Me want to get laid”. She proceeds to ask him if he has money, he says he does, she then asks him if he has experience, he tells the lady he does not. So, she informs the Indian he cannot enter the whore house with out experience, but just down the road there’s a pink house with a big tree behind it, the tree has a knot hole in it. She tells the Indian to go practice for a week and come back. A week later the Indian is knocking on the front door of the whore house. He informs the lady he has money and plenty of experience. She collects the money and sends the Indian down the hall to the first door on the right. After 10 minutes everyone can hear the lady screaming in panic from that room. The bouncer runs to the door and kicks it in. He’s surprised to see the Indian jamming a broomstick into the lady, violently. “ What’re you doing, Chief?!” The bouncer yells.
“Me checking for bees”
I was a virgin until I was late 20s and I am a woman. For the life of me I will never understand why people think this is a big deal. Pop culture? Peer pressure? Personally I don't care but I am one of those weird fringe personalities.
I agree with a poster above who said if you want to have sex, pay for it. Don't waste your first time on some random person, get a professional and get your mind blown and do it right.
His profile says he is in medical school. It might be a good idea to concentrate on finishing his education first.
^Exactly. For his parents come kick his ass for letting some strange vagina ruin their 'investment' lol!!!!