So tired of this nosy co-worker
I have this stripper "friend" at work, basically we are friends in the locker room, she's friendly to everyone..
However lately she's been kinda up my ass on the floor. Like watching who i talk to and then swoop in on them once ive gotten them to do dances. She's always been kinda nosey.. but lately its gotten worse.
Shes the only one who always asks me how my shift "was" and then brags when shes done multiple vips..
Shes always, always at the club. Like always there.
I try to ignore it but lately i feel its kind of a drag and has been making my club less fun and just more stressful in general.
I know she had issues with other girls at her old club which is why she left there.
Anyways i know i should just ignore it but eh just wondering if anyone has any advice
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I think ignoring is best. I’d probably try to be as boring as possible so she doesn’t want to even talk to you anymore. People come and go, and she will probably be gone one day and never come back.
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" I think I see one of my regs .... have a good night "
( just always find a reason to run and ignore haha )
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Nosy people suck. Don't tell he any info and give her the cold shoulder.
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Kiki99
I have this stripper "friend" at work, basically we are friends in the locker room, she's friendly to everyone..
However lately she's been kinda up my ass on the floor. Like watching who i talk to and then swoop in on them once ive gotten them to do dances. She's always been kinda nosey.. but lately its gotten worse.
Shes the only one who always asks me how my shift "was" and then brags when shes done multiple vips..
Shes always, always at the club. Like always there.
I try to ignore it but lately i feel its kind of a drag and has been making my club less fun and just more stressful in general.
I know she had issues with other girls at her old club which is why she left there.
Anyways i know i should just ignore it but eh just wondering if anyone has any advice
She's a predator. She's not your locker room friend and she is NOT friends with the other girls. Start being cold to her so she leaves you the fuck alone. Don't ignore it or make her comfortable in any way. Be intentionally cold. Be busy in the locker room to shut down questions. Stop talking. Don't answer questions. Walk away. We have a freaky bitch like that who breaks into lockers, sets girls up to be robbed, spreads rumors between the dancers and works with certain staff members to rob, and psychologically abuse girls.
Stay away from that girl and don't be nice about it. If others see you getting along, they will believe whatever lies she tells about you later.
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I used to wear earbuds in the dressing room. Earbuds are your friends.
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Optimist
She's a predator. She's not your locker room friend and she is NOT friends with the other girls. Start being cold to her so she leaves you the fuck alone. Don't ignore it or make her comfortable in any way. Be intentionally cold. Be busy in the locker room to shut down questions. Stop talking. Don't answer questions. Walk away. We have a freaky bitch like that who breaks into lockers, sets girls up to be robbed, spreads rumors between the dancers and works with certain staff members to rob, and psychologically abuse girls.
Stay away from that girl and don't be nice about it. If others see you getting along, they will believe whatever lies she tells about you later.
Thank you for this.
She wouldn't steal from a locker but she's revealling herself to be more crazy. Last night she was involved in a big drama with some other girls. Lots of the staff dont like her.
But yeah she still followed me around the room again tonight despite doing a bunch of vips with regular. Shes just really greedy. And this competitive thing she does drives me insane.
I cant say for sure she does extras but im pretty certain. Like one guy who flat out asked me for them (i said no) went back with her straight away for a long time when she went up to him.
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Kiki99
Thank you for this.
She wouldn't steal from a locker but she's revealling herself to be more crazy. Last night she was involved in a big drama with some other girls. Lots of the staff dont like her.
But yeah she still followed me around the room again tonight despite doing a bunch of vips with regular. Shes just really greedy. And this competitive thing she does drives me insane.
I cant say for sure she does extras but im pretty certain. Like one guy who flat out asked me for them (i said no) went back with her straight away for a long time when she went up to him.
Unfriend this dingdong, quick....!
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I've had the same experience on occasion and have had to quickly remind myself as to why I'm there. Staying actively busy during work and giving a nice comment back to keep a wholesome outlook for the evening seems to work. When monetary issues come up during a shift it can feel a little uncomfortable and sometimes you may have to navigate through it to see where you stand.
~Lillypad~