ok, here's the deal....bear with me please...
i've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half (i think i mentioned this on another thread). my problem is his friends....rather, what they do. they are great guys, alot of fun...but they have habits that are questionable at the least. most have serious girlfriends that they live with. they cheat on them constantly...bring their "mistresses" to the apartments they share with their girlfriends, have bachelor parties that include prostitutes, which some of the guys sleep with...and i've witnessed my bf's friends flirting with girls at parties, taking them home & sleeping w/ them..but of course during the night they will call their girlfriend and tell them they love them, etc, and sound 100% convincing. my bf & his friends are a group of good looking, smooth talking Italian guys. His friends cheat rampantly on their girlfriends, i've seen it happen.
You know the old saying: "tell me who your friends are, and i'll tell you who you are."
my question is: should I assume my bf is doing the same beind MY back?? Cheating is something I will NOT deal with!! we have other problems in our relationship, of course, but it would take me alot of time and typing to explain.
i love him, but I just don't trust him 100%. I just have these gut feelings...voices telling me that he isn't completely faithful. am I being ridiculous by listening to my conscience, or should I follow these feelings and end this relationship??? PLEASE, help...any input/advice you may have, good or bad, will be greatly appreciated!!
thanks for listening to my bullsh*t.
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