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Get it all the time- for soo long now, that I am on edge when I go to the store or somewhere public like that and I'm by myself. Even in sweats with my hair in a pony and my glasses on- it's like the truelu ugly and jealous people can sense something threatening about you- not that you even want their tobacco spittin' man, but they just HATE!! I've had the hooks stand in my way knowing I'm trying to get by, girls talking and gigling as I walk by, people just be cold when I'm trying to be friendly in a social setting. I just don't care anymore, I have 4 kids that are healthy and thriving (and it really means something to me that they come home- you know? It sounds weird- but with so many teenage runaways, the fact that mine come home every day, just hits me. Maybe you moms of older kids get what I'm saying), I have a man who loves me (it took love-shell-shocked me a while to realize and accept that), and when I want to- I can stop TRAFFIC with how I look, and child, you better believe I do it! When I dress up and go out with my friends, I don't care if there's haters in the crowd, cause when I'm done devastating the clubs, I go crawl into bed with my man and the first thing he always does is put his arms around me and asks if I had fun. No matter how tired he is, he listens to me run down the night. WHen I go out with him, he always has a little smile on his face cause guys are looking at him with a mix of envy and confusion (he is very conservative, suit and tie wearing- I am very flamboyant, colorful and not shy with my body. It does look a little at odds some times! ;D)
I ain't got time to waste time!
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Good god mermaid, where do you live? Beautiful people are supposed to have it easy! Everyone's supposed to be nice to them! I've had jealous girls stare me down but nothing like any of that!!!
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I'm in Seattle.. Land of the conservative, home of the snotty, and keeper of the haters!
That was just the tip of the iceburg- the more I think about it, the more things I can come up with, like one time I was working in a Fred Meyer store, and it was my day off and my buddy and I stopped in to pick up my check, and it was dead in the middle of summer, so we were wearing little tops and I was wearing shorts and she was wearing a skirt. I was talking with some of my work friends and wasn't really paying attention to what was going on around me. I did notice one of the ladies that I knew was talking to a customer, but wasn't trying interrupt or be rude and listen in- the lady I knew finished the conversation and came over and asked if I heard that, which of course I didn't. The bitch was complaining that they allowed me to come in the store dressed like that, and that she told her husband and son to go wait in the car and came to demand that they make me leave the store! Now, at the end of their conversation, as they were moving away from each other, I did start to walk over to my friend and heard the other bitch say, "Well, I'll leave you to take out the trash", but since I didn't know what they were talking about, I didn't take offense. My friend backed me up, of course, and told her that there was no way she por anyone in the store would ask me to leave- there was nothing offensive, immoral or illegal about the way we were dressed, and that she was more than welcome to leave if that was how she felt. Now, I wasn't dressed like Britney Spears on STAGE, I was dressed for the weather- maybe my belly was showing, my shorts came below my butt. This prude had on jeans, a t-shirt, and a jean jacket, and was probably pissed because her MAN was looking at my huge boobs!! (she was kinda flat- not that that is a bad thing, but you can tell she never tried to use what she had to excite or entice the poor man!) Anyways, as soon as I heard that, I ran outside to find them and FLASH her husband (I forgot there was a kid) but I couldn't find them.
Many times in clubs, if my friends and I happen to lucky and grab a table- it never fails that a group of not-too-pretty girls that just have that angry look about them, plant directly in front of us, kinda like a lesser t.v. show getting the time spot after Friends- you know, hoping to pick up their viewers? Only these broads act like they want to block us so anyone looking our way will see them, and LIKE them, as if there attitudes don't come through and make them horribly ugly.
Anymore- it's just drama that I am aware of, but don't waste time dealing with- like Isaid, I have what I want and need, I don't need to worry about jealous women anymore, they bore me [yawn]!
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Holiday, don't take it to heart. You know you are not ugly. People like that do so just to disturb your composure. Just smile back and say something like, "Oh , I suppose you're leading man material!" Then laugh. There are all types in this world. Sometimes we have to confront them.
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i've got that before, too. i turned to them and said "is being as stupid as you are like being really high all the time?" and they stormed off.
and i, too, get the statue women and the girls that walk by and giggle/point/glare and give dirty looks and i always think my underwear are hanging out, my make up is smeared, i have a booger hanging out of my nose, etc.
just last week i was at the grocery store checkout and i over heard a group of cashier girls talking about me and when i glanced over my shoulder at them they were just glaring at me, like a group of 5 girls just giving me the evil eye. it felt pretty crappy.
it happens to me so much that i seriously have developed anxiety problems about leaving my house alone to do normal errands. when it happens that often, it's hard to just ignore it.
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I just looked at your pic's, and I seriously don't think they could have been talking about you. As for the girl, we all get those look's, and it probly didn't even have any thing to do with those guys. I too have had this happen before only to remember later that I'd actually met the people years before and was a super bitch to them then. Not for no good reason, they were idiots, I mean, come on.
You are a piece of art, and any one who thinks different must be a complete moron.
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I have experienced that in smaller communities also - to the point where I've literally been a total outsider in the entire town, but all the while the guys were trying to bed me. If I gave one guy the time of day, I was suddenly a slut, whore, you name it. If I didn't, I was a stuck up city-bitch dike. The people in those areas just don't know how to deal with confident hotties! They like to make a point of letting you know they are hating on you, because their narrow minds can't come up with a better way to deal with that feeling of intimidation they get around you. It is all their own insecurity and closed-mindedness. Just ignore it, walk on by and let them waste their energy. I have gotten to the point I will even walk by smiling because I know how stupid they are and all the time and energy they're spending on me. I have noticed that smiling amid their BS enfuriates them, and I love it even more! ;D
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I know exactly where you are coming from Bridgette, I was in a town like that where I had one boyfriend for 2 years and was still a slut.
Holiday, you are very pretty and people are just rude. A girl I work with got called fat the other night and she is a VERY toned size 3. People, men and women, are just dicks. Men if they cant have you but want you and women who are insecure and jealous. Generally I don't say anything back to these people but if it really gets to me I will say something where I know it will hurt worse than anything they have to say to me. The difference is is that if you wanted you could have their man at the snap of your fingers, and if it comes to it, then let 'em know it.
I am not generally a bitch, but there are a few buttons, that when pushed, drive me over the edge.
And by the way, the statues, dont move, run into them or something, next time they do it they will think twice, cuz the world doesn't have to move for them.
Ambilyn
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Love this topic. On wednesday, day before thanksgiving, you know we're all supposed to be nice and thankful and what not. So I don't mind that in the drive through at McDonald's they ask me to pull to the side b/c my orders takes an extra long time. Well, fifteen minutes pass and I go in to get it myself without attitude and three of the most ghetto fabulously designer knocked off total ensemble wearing, loudest women, not girls, in the entire world all stare at me like what the fuck the entire time I'm in there. As I'm walking out of the door I catch the last their comments about wanna be pretty bitches and not liking the way I flip my hair but it was the racial thing that got me back in there.
I went and put my food back in my truck took off my coat and left my purse and cell and went back in that McDonald's and created the biggest scene in all my life and gave them a lecture about jealousy, racial prejudice, insecurity, sluttyness and how who or what, as they so rudely inquired, I am in nobody's business but my own, then just so they wouldn't think I was trying to be too high class and use words too large for them to understand in closing I called em all a bunch of funky hoes and told em to suck my dick. Then a la Holiday-asked everybody else in McDonald's if they had a comment to share with me either since I was addressing people's personal perceptions of me.
I was so damn mad. I deal with this kind of girly dislike all the time. It comes from being a nice looking girl with her head screwed on right. People try to bring you down with harsh words and what not to mask their own insecurities. I usually ignore because I've been dealing with it since other people began noticing my looks, but this incident hit a nerve and I was already having a bad day. Looking back I can't believe I acted in such a manner but I'm damn glad I did. I bet those three are gonna think twice for the simple fact that they didn't expect me to react but they deliberately spoke loudly enough for me to hear. And the shocked expressions and speechlessness let me know nobody had ever stood up to these people before. What hurt me the most though was that they were grown women and I'm only 21yrs old. I'm too young for me too even be important to them. Anyway, fuckem.