At where I work at, you're not allowed to touch the dancers' butt, pussy, or boobs during a couch dance. And yes, they do complain, but they love the way I straddle when I give a dance!! :-* ;)
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At where I work at, you're not allowed to touch the dancers' butt, pussy, or boobs during a couch dance. And yes, they do complain, but they love the way I straddle when I give a dance!! :-* ;)
Any touching by anyone unwanted is creepy, but as it is part of the job I'd have to say shoulders, hair, back maybe just maybe lower on the leg, like the calf area.
I freak out on this too, especially when my breasts are tender. It seems like they just grab without warning. For this reason I LOVE out of towners who never try to touch. Little brushes don't offend me. I make sure the hands never stay there for more than a second.
my opinion:
I think Katrine is right. But this doesn't really seem to be your case right now. To add to Kobi's words "because I said so" I also use "you're not allowed to touch me" (obviously won't work for you here) "because I don't want you to" and "because it goes beyond my personal boundaries"
My off limits areas are typically hair, face, neck, boobs, pussy, ass.