Topic to consider when doing bachelor parties!
I worked for a bachelor pary for a day and quit. I knew there was alot of potential to make money. I quit because of the amount of drugs there are. Most of the dancers had drugs on them. They had drivers and bouncers to drive to shows. I just thought if one of the cops pulled us over or raided to the building it would go to on my record. So I quit the money wasn't worth it to me. I know that drugs are just are always in the business. I don't think it is worth taking the chance of getting a aressted and having it effect your whole life.
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well, shoot, have you ever seen inside some of the lockers in the club?
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It all depends on what type of girls you're going to do parties with. When I do a bachelor party, I always go with girls that don't drink, do drugs, or even do extras on the side. And we end up having a good time with the guys! [dazzled] [dazzled]
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I think it's really sad that so many dancers are caught up so deeply in the drug scene. Sad for them because of what they are doing to their bodies, and sad for everyone else who has to work witht these girls. i especially hate to see the girls who do drugs because they think it makes work easier. If they can't handle it, then they should quit. And I really wonder why they don't. Why would anyone do anything that they have to be so sedated to feel like they can cope? It just doesn't make sense to me.
It also doesn't make sense from a practical and money making standpoint to me. Although I've been clean and sober for almost two years now(yeah ;D), I did some stuff I shouldn't have in my day. I used to do a lot of coke, and a lot of ecstacy. But never at work. OMG. I can't imagine trying to work like that. I know how it feels to be high on that stuff and I just don't see how anyone can get anything productive done while on it. I don't know maybe it all affected me differently than other people, but I just don't see how anyone can go to work high and motivate themselves to make the money they want to make. Or stay focused long enough to develop any kind of hustling strategy for the night. That's just me though.
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This is why I mostly do parties by myself, with a driver I know isn't going to do anything stupid. The few girls I work with are professional, too, and aren't going to do drugs or offer extras at the parties I work.
That being said, it's usually the customers that are the ones wanting to party. If it's brought up I ask them to keep it out of my sight. I don't care what other people are up to, but if they are working with me I expect them to behave professionally.
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Work with girls you feel comfortable with --- If I'm working with a girl I haven't previously worked with I discuss before hand what moves I do, what touching I can handle, and how I want the night to go. Bachelor parties are very lucritive.
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Excellent advice. Communication is key. Make sure you know what you are getting yourself into.
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I met a girl who does extras at the parties she attends. That is not my deal at all. But at the time I seriously considered working with her anyway. I've since then came to the conclusion that it just isnt' worth it. What if the police come through there. They could give a rats a** about whether or not I'm doing extras or doing drugs! The fact of the matter is is that I'm there, so obviously I know what's going on. I would suggest either working alone, or working with girls you know and trust who are clean and professional.
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And that is another thing you need to think about is getting involved in a police raid. They could not give a shit whether you're doing extras or not, if you're there, you can get locked up as an accomlpice... :o >:(