Re: I did it! Â Now what?
Hi Rose,
There's so much advice I couldn't even begin to write it all. So I'll just say be confident and know your boundareis. Confidence can make you or break you, and an awkward but very confident newbie will charm most customers.
Re: I did it! Â Now what?
Lena, Thank you for replying! That's great advice, I just hope I can make it through the night without falling on my butt! I am so excited... when I went into the club on Saturday and saw the girls, I thought "well, I can do this!" most of my worries about how I look or my little flaws went right out the window. These are just normal women (gorgeous nonetheless, but still normal), there is no "perfect woman" because we are all different and beautiful in our own way. Knowing this makes me feel great :)
Keep posting what ever anyone thinks of! I appreciate anything you ladies can give!
Brightest Blessings!
Rose
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i realy dont have any advice just wanted to say good luck..,....dance around in the mirror a bit while youre still at home ....dunno how long is been sine you've dance .....if its that long you might wanna walk around in your stilletoes.... ;D ::)...good luck ;)
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Congrats Rose!!
My advice: Don't set high expectations for your first night. If you don't make a lot of $$, it's O.K., it's your first night. If you make a mistake, it's O.K., it's your first night. My first time I did this stupid move that I thought looked good. I just laugh about it now. That is why it is good to practice in front of a mirror. If you can video tape yourself that's even better.
When I started I wanted it to be a dead night. Less people to be nervous in front of. Just because it is dead doesn't mean you can't make money. You might find one guy to spend lots of money on you all night. Then again you might not. You never know and must take the bad with the good.
Good luck and let us know how it went!
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Thanks Kobi!
I am not expecting to make much tonight, but I have an excuse ;) 1. It's monday, and 2. It's my 1st night :) !!!! I am a "social butterfly" when it comes to going out, so I should be okay. When I was there Saturday, I noticed a lot of girls hanging out together in a group and every once in a while one would go over to some guy and do the "wannadance?" routine. I already learned (from this site!!!) that I shouldn't do that.... so I am already a few steps ahead!!!!
Keep Posting please!!!!!
Blessings of the Goddess!
Rose
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Swanky Wiccan Rose.
Hi! How is work?
Since it is Monday, my suggestion would be to kick back just a little from time to time just to observe what's going on around you. If you are familiar with the space you are in, it is easier to establish a comfort zone. When you are comfortable, you make money. Or at least you are MORE likely to.
Realize there are no guarantees, and learn to do for yourself. Beware of girls who try to be your best friend too fast. Don't act like you are the nicest girl in the world. Trust me on this one.
Best of luck
Juliette
((((Blessed be, chickie)))))
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And Bright Blessings to you, Juliette!
Since I am NOT the nicest girl in the world, this will be noooo problem! LOL
MoonShine!
Rose
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Oh xmarx, absolutely!
Outfits getting loaned and never returned, or returned damaged. Pressure to share high dollar customers. Pressure to sink to their level and get into drugs. Misery loves company.
If you look like you are tough and have have your shit together you are less likely to get messed with.
later, dos XX
Juliette
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yea that hanging out in the corner with a buch of females "yapping"(is that even a word) is a no no.....