About a month ago I was talking to this guy and we got into a good conversation about everything. He put 20 bucks on the table and I thought he would like to have a dance but instead he said it was for a converstion time and I didnt mind it.
After a few weeks later I saw him again and we chatted as usual and he told me that Im beautiful and blah blah and that I'm an intelligent dancer. Because most dancers that he talked to arent well education based on their conversation. He knows I go to school trying to be somebody.
After awhile he mention that he dont buy dances and he only would slip in some tips on stage and walk away (he wont stand there for me to dance for him on stage). He claims he does that because he have too much respect for me ??? I've seen him buy dances from other dancers and tipping dancers on stage. Im like wtf?!! I dont know what's the deal?
Im thinking maybe he didnt want to make me think he's a prevert or anything like that if he tips me on stage or if he buy dances from me. But I wouldn't cuz I've met several well eduated men with good jobs that buy dances or tip me on stages.
Last nite I saw him and we chatted. After he left I was thinking maybe I should play like a dumb girl cuz I dont want guys to be inimiated by my intelligent and not want to buy dances from me. I of couse dont want to do that but... have anyone gone through that ? Feeling like whether u should play dumb or intelligent with certain type of crowd?
Hershey
