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OT: what are your thoughts on escorting services?
I have no idea whats involved in being an escort but it seems to be a good paying job that i could probably do every now and then
im trying to test the waters a little.. and i got way to many people telling me escorts = sex/prostitutes..
has anyone here ever tried this?
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Escort pretty much= sex/prostitute. I mean people are expecting sex when they call an escort up. It is best to be a "higher end" esort. I personally don't think there is anything wrong with it as long as you are comfortable with it. If you are going to pursue it, make sure you know the laws and your rights. Know the technique for collecting money that will minimize your risks to prosecution and learn how to screen properly. Police will lie to you to bust you. They can do anything except penetrate you or orgasm to get a conviction, etc squeeze your breasts. The "entrapment" defense is basically a myth. Be prepared for men to critique your looks and "services" openly and publically. A good source of info to check out would be www.bigdoggie.net
If you are going to do it, its also a good idea to talk to escorts. In some cities, escorts have their own network and boards regarding bad client lists/ no shows. Bigdoggie is not the only board though. There are local escort boards as well. People on those boards may have more knowledge of what's going on in the escort world. Hope you find out what you need.
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I think that, with RARE exception, escorts are prostitutes, and the escort services are in the business of selling sex. They all have those disclaimers saying that they are only providing 'companionship', blah blah blah, but make no mistake, that is BS. They only put that disclaimer for legal reasons, but they are very much into prostitution.
I have heard of the OCCASIONAL escort service that is supposed to be clean, but I have my doubts.
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I think being an escort automatically mean the clients would expect sex or they would feel "ripped off" and it wouldn't be pleasant to deal with a resentful guy like that after the session. Even if you are accompanying a client to a business event or for dinner, sex would be expected at the end of it. If there are no sexual services to be offered, that should be made clear from the start but I don't think many clients would be willing to pay for a woman's company if they don't get sex. I've heard of girls doing FBSM. (full body sensual massage , meaning rub and tug) without participating fully in sex.
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thats what i figured.. thanks for the input gals ;)
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an escort=a high priced call girl. it is a BOOMING field with big $ to be made-trust me I know a guy who runs a service and he has said it is booming
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Escorts are fine in you're from out of town, have money to burn and need to have "companionship" with all the usual implications. I wouldn't here in my hometown (or outside, it's a small island and the grapevine is LONG). Imagine having an escort and someone from work or a relative see me with her, what will I say? "Oh, she's a friend I met the other day". Yeah, right!
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I feel differently..
I have had men come into the club and give me great amounts of money, then ask me to go out to dinner with them. Me and a girlfriend of mine have done this once or twice, and received around 400 each for the hour to eat dinner. I wouldn't do this often, as I could see men expecting more afterwards.. I like to keep the business in the club so other girls can bank off customers as well (AFTER i have, of course) <grin>
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I would much rather see girls doing extreme mileage as an escort, taking all of the bust risks themselves and profiting through their own efforts, rather than seeing the same girl doing extreme mileage in a club, spreading the bust risk to her fellow dancers and "stealing" profits from her fellow dancers. Escorting is honest work!
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I have posted some time back that i looked into an agency. And the girls went out to meet the guy for $100 per hour. The lady who ran the business is very nice, to speak with anyway. And the girls dressed very provacative. Her fee is within normal ranges i thought. She said whatever you do, (as far as sex is concerned), that is your money. Yea, but i found out through another girl who works there, the girls TIP the owner for sexual companionship. And tip her well. The other girls are the ones who fill you in on this "part of the interview" the owner left out.
And i hear, if you do not throw a tip her way, she lets you go. I don't mind them, (escorts), i wasj ust curious as to how this small business down my street worked. I would LOVE to do it maybe a few nights a week, on my own, but i just can't have sex. TOO damn scary.
Pamela :)
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I do some escort work on the side. The money is very good. One night working as an escort can be more than I get the entire week dancing. I keep the jobs completely separate, and absolutely no recruiting of escort business at the club.
As for what is expected. I set some limits for the encounter, but extreme mileage is the norm. You will do better if you leave them satisfied.
The biggest drawback is hotel staff likes to hassle you.
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Personally, yeah, I'd consider it. The circumstances would have to be VERY "right", if you know what I mean.
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well im not considering to do it to prostitute myself.. just to make money.. sex with strangers is NOT my thing
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"First they tell you.... you can't sleep alone in a strange place.
Then they tell you.... you can't sleep with somebody else.
Sooner or later, you sleep in your own space.
It's OK.... you wake up with yourself."
-- Billy Joel
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Quote:
.. sex with strangers is NOT my thing
How would you define sex? Intercourse only? Would it include oral sex? How about sensual massage? What if you both just masturbated? You should have a clear understanding of what YOUR personal boundaries are.
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sex ( P ) Pronunciation Key (sks)
n.
The property or quality by which organisms are classified as female or male on the basis of their reproductive organs and functions.
Either of the two divisions, designated female and male, of this classification.
Females or males considered as a group.
The condition or character of being female or male; the physiological, functional, and psychological differences that distinguish the female and the male. See Usage Note at gender.
The sexual urge or instinct as it manifests itself in behavior.
Sexual intercourse.
The genitals.
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If you are not comfortable offering sex for money, then escorting is not for you as that is what guys call services for, sex.
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LMTO! Silly girl, Shan...I wasn't asking you for a definition of sex...simply for you to define it for youself! ;)
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LOL.... some of you don't want to sleep with strangers for money, eh? How many of us have ever found ourselves sleeping with a stranger as a result of a few tequila shooters????
LOL.... just hadda ask.
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sex you know screwing.. oral sex.. blah blah blah..
susan not me hun.. I was a virgin till i got married.
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Susan: I totally agree with you. I have heard girls say, "I'm no whore and I would never sleep with a guy for any amount of money." Yet, these same girls are going out to the pub and letting guys get them drunk and later having sex with them. When they wake up in the morning if they counted the number of drinks, I'm sure they would see that they gave a full night of sex for less than $20.
Kaiya
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Susan you are my kind of girl ;) can I buy you a few tequila shooters....
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I think all the girls who do extras anyways are fools not to just be escorts instead. If I could somehow turn off my conscience I would love to charge $300-500 an hour. Sheesh just to think of how much money could be made its almost tempting!
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Out of curiousity...
How does one get into escorting? I have to admit, this has been an idea that I have played with in the past.
I have a slew of questions, so if anyone here knows anything about this line of work, please let me know all of it.
Thanks
athena
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I had a friend who was an escort...she had sex with the clients she liked. She had her own website she didn't work through an agency. She charged 200.00 an hour. Her policy was this: the client paid her for a certain amount of time they went to dinner, an opera, a charity function...ect..ect. THEN.......after the date was over and she no longer was getting paid for her time. If she liked the guy She would then say since I'm getting off work let's go have a drink or let's go to your hotel room. She never once was arrested even though she went on a date with a undercover cop! Yes my friend was (reading between the lines) a prostitute. I think she was smart on the way she did it at least:)