R U insulted if a customer doesn't get a hard-on?
..here's an interesting post I read on TUSCL... what do you girls think?
"There have been times during hot contact dances, when I'm with an ATF, but I don't have a hard on. I don't know why. When this happens, I'm embarassed, because it's kind of insulting to the dancer. Do dancers care either way?"
Re: R U insulted if a customer doesn't get a hard-
Not at all! I would prefer a guy not get a hard on at all... why? because if a guy has a hard on he has more of a chance of "cumming". I don't want my customers cumming ... that's just gross!!
Nothing wrong with having a soft-on when getting a private dance... there are many reasons (and not relating to the dancer or the private dance itself) that you might not be turned- on by the dance.
I personally don't expect each and every customer to "get wood" whenever I do a private dance for them... some do, some don't... doesn't bother me.
I just don't want them "cumming".
Re: R U insulted if a customer doesn't get a hard-
I don't care if a guy doesn't get hard. Doesn't offend me at all. Of course the wood is a definite sign of approval for my dancing, but I understand that some guys may not be able to get hard sometimes. No big deal.
Re: R U insulted if a customer doesn't get a hard-
I can't speak for laps, but when talking sexual to a guy at times, meaning asking him some questions about my body, he will say OMG, now i can't get up or move untill this goes away, he then points down. Ha. It's cute. Thank god we get turned on, but no big one to poke out. And nipples get hard for many reasons!
Pamela ;D
Re: R U insulted if a customer doesn't get a hard-
What a silly question - we're not trying to fuck him! I'd hate to think anyone suffered performance anxiety because he thought it was mandatory to get wood during a table dance. I don't care either way - if a guy gets hard, it's a normal reaction to having my naked self draped over him; if he doesn't, that's normal too - after all, we are in a public setting and I am a stranger.