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Hi!
I am 29yr old dancer. I look younger than my age but it bothers me that I will reach 30 soon.
How old is too old to be top dancer in the club?
If you have anti age secret share with me.
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Hi!
I am 29yr old dancer. I look younger than my age but it bothers me that I will reach 30 soon.
How old is too old to be top dancer in the club?
If you have anti age secret share with me.
Dont drink, Dont do drugs, eat right, and exercise.
for the most part, i think it's in the genes. i've looked younger than i am all my life. but it's also important to take good care of yourself and your skin. since i'm older, i've been paranoid about this myself. drink a lot of water, stay out of the sun, use a moisturizer, don't smoke. cigarette smoke can be very damaging to your skin even if you don't smoke yourself (although that's worse) but if you spend a lot of time in clubs or your home where other people do. (damn these cancer-sticks to everlasting hell - why did i ever start???). sun is the biggest skin damaging thing. use a sunless tanner instead of tanning either outside or in a booth/bed. stress is also bad. every day do some yoga, deep breathing, meditation... whatever works for you to deal with stress. alcohol is bad, drugs are bad. exercise is good, eating right is good. other then staying away from the bad things and doing all the good things, there's a lot of products nowadays that do wonders as well as things a dermatologist can do for you to deal with wrinkles, spider veins, scars, etc. a different hairstyle can do wonders too. i can instantly add a decade just by wearing a certain do... so i don't! haha.
Depends on the person. The most incredible knockout in my club is 34, and she rocks. I'm almost jealous of her, to be honest.
The one with the most seniority is guessed at being in her forties, but she looks like 32, and makes buku cash.
Oldest stripper I have ever worked with was in Florida - she was 52 at the time, with three grandkids, and looked amazing. She made good money too.
interestingly, at 24, I am one of the youngest at my club.
McCain
You are most certainly NOT too old to be a top dancer. I just turned 29, have been dancing for 7 years, and I do better consistently now than I ever did before I was 25. Furthermore, I make more money than most of the girls where ever I work - partly because most of them are young and inexperienced. Experience is gold - you learn how to deal with situations, and how to finesse men. Also, many older men tend to enjoy older stippers, as we generally have more things to talk about (from experience) and we don't make them feel like they're sick perverts for staring at naked girls half their age! And 90% of the time, it's the older men who spend the most money in strip clubs.
Also, alot of the younger guys tend to like me because of the older woman fantasy. I do look young, but a 21-year-old guy knows I'm older than him.
Finally, I have known plenty of women much older than 30 who were still dancing and still making damn good money. They keep themselves in shape, have developed a tremendous style, and really know how to handle men.
You shouldn't sweat turning 30 for a second! ;)
I'm 34, been dancing since 1986. I'm the best dancer in my club and top 5 in looks. I have no idea how I"ve done it since I smoke. I quit for a couple of years during which time I hardly ever drank alcohol and I"m pretty sure that preserved me a little further. I try not to drink much at work now but it's always easy to slip back into. Excercising definitely helps and I've found that meditation does too. Also, dancing to stuff you absolutely love. The happier you are, the more beautiful you are. ;)
medication?
Age doesn't matter. My home club has lots of girls in their 30's and early 40's. Look at the soap opera goddesses. They look damn good on Young and The Restless and they are in their 30's and 40's.
The target titty bar customer is 35-70 years old and many of them like a woman who is in good shape and older as she can carry on a mature conversation with them easier than a girl in her early 20's.
29 is young. I am older than you. The key is to not smoke or do drugs, only drink in moderation, and work out 3-4 days a week so that you don't turn flabby. Don't over tan as that causes your face to wrinkle.
Of course in a juice bar you will get lots of 18-21 year old guys but they aren't the kind of customers you want anyway. I work in one of the top 2 clubs in Houston and Houston has some of the fanciest and largest clubs in the country and LOTS of girls are 35-45 years old. They just look 5-10 years younger because they keep themselves up.
Cigarettes are NOT glamourous. They will fuck you up fast as you age. LEAVE THEM ALONE as well as the drugs.
Keep yourself up and you have lots more years of dancing ahead of you if you want them!
Im 23 and have been working in clubs for a few years now. In the two clubs I work at there are lots of late 20's and 30 somethings. I know now is the time to start taking care of myself and i try to (except for cigarettes). Hope I can dance another 10 years. ::)
It's not about how old you are, but if you can still do ya thing. I mean, more power to any woman who can be in this business for years and still be on top of her game. But when you get to walking around the club and you can see those wrinkles through the blk. lights..then hmm maybe you should reconsider retirement.
I think taking care of your body through the form of exercise and eating right, and of course not smoking and drinking will preserve your youth.
I am told I look better today then when I was thirty.
(Think photos are on page three of the gallery)
Work out and teach classes of Ashtanga yoga, Have a pole in the spare room and use it.
But older has given a degree of confidence that I didn’t have at thirty.
Earnings have sharply risen, as I have gotten older.
Le Q
well... i smoke, drink ,dont exersise like i should and im over thirty .i'm also in the top 10 in earnings in my club. i think alot of it just comes down to genes. everyone in my family both sides look at least five years younger than they are. if a girl still has it even if she were over 40 she still has it... i dont have any noticable wrinkles but if i did it wouldnt mean i'd have to "rethink my retirement" if i was still a top earner.
Jade 29 is still young. Go for it ;D
I personally have made more and more money the older i have gotten. i am 31 now and have been dancing for eons. I agree with LeQ when she said with age came confidence. The more i matured, the better i felt about myself and my sexuality, which in order to dance and dance well, you have to be very in tune with you sensual side. myself and another girl at my club that is a couple months older than i am are in the top 5 $$ earners. i just wish i could stay where i am now and not have to age more!!!!! :) it seems to me that the older men enjoy the more mature woman and they are almost always the ones that spend money on the VIP rooms and like my customers, spend money just for the conversation and spending time with me at a table..... :)
Hi, i will be 33 this march. I don't drink any alcohol, smoke, or do illegal drugs. (had to say that because i am on a prescribed med. for a few months.) I do not eat meat, and dancing is my main excersise. I treat myself to Vitamin C 1000mg and E and a multivitamin everyday. I still wear my hair to my thighs. Put blonder highlights around the front of my face now, and exfoliate my skin with sand and salt water. I rotate lots of water and gatorade for drinking. Gosh so much i do to try to keep it going for a few more years. I can give my secrets all night long. So many to list! I may resort to plastic surgery (eyes) one day. But i am content at 32 with dancing. I started while i was 21, and felt too young. Strange huh? Now i feel too old, but when i look in the mirror at the 20 something next to me at work, i don't look much older. I love it. Maybe at the big 40 i will quit. I just think you are never too old if you can dance and have a great time. (club hiring a 50 something, of course helps.)
Pamela ;)
Two of the finest (in every sense of the word)dancers I have known have been 37. They were both as hot as any other dancers I have worked with, and I have worked with well over a thousand. One has recently joined, and I hope you will be hearing more from her.
To stay young:
1) STAY OUT OF THE SUN, esp in Florida or tropical areas--Florida is full of women, still cute at 30, but wrinkled up already!
2) Avoid drinking excessively and/or hard drugs. A little weed now and then never hurt anyone that I could see.
3) Excercise and meditation will prolong your beautiful ass, literally.
"Also, dancing to stuff you absolutely love. The happier you are, the more beautiful you are."
I agree, Torch the Witch, although recently I have been engaged in some controversy over this, being accused of excessive whining, needing to quit the business, and having no consideration for the customers--and receiving a nice lecture on how to do my job from someone who is not to my knowledge an exotic dance DJ. Shame on me for finding it unacceptable and infuriating to force women to dance to music they fucking hate, and the customers don't like either.
"WAH", my ass!
Sorry, I couldn't resist. And I did get another job, though it took me three weeks.
Djoser
McCain- We have a 56y/o woman, too. Grandchildren & everything. She looks great and BANKS at our club. Every summer, she'll go back to her homeland Greece for four months and will come back looking a few years younger. (with "help", of course)Quote:
Oldest stripper I have ever worked with was in Florida - she was 52 at the time, with three grandkids, and looked amazing. She made good money too.
McCain
It's never an age issue, if you take good care of yourself - there is a market for every aged girl in this business, IMO.
Jade - the best girls in our club are mostly over 30...they make the most money and have the most regulars, as I see it. They also look great - I have one friend who is 34 and has the body of an 18 year old and she swears by liquid vitamins and yoga - she also drinks very rarely at work, and doesn't use drugs...she does, however , smoke - but it hasn't affected her skin all too drastically.
This thread is great!
I'm 29 (when did that happen?) and I'm about to go back to dancing in order to construct a retirement stash ;)
Just finished my Bachelor's while retired these last two years, made possible through the first years of dance. Not sure what's next, but with lots of ideas! I've decided to not pursue marriage or kids, so the next decade's my oyster, and I intend to exploit it!
I used to feel that I had to do sex-work, (survival mode). Now, I think dancing would be much more empowering in my thirties. Just have a few insecurities to kick.
For instance: my biggest fear is in others' perspectives that something is 'wrong' with me if I am working in a strip club... Old belief patterns. Also, I used to be a top earner, and it's quite humbling to be back at square one, sans stripper super-powers.
When I was a younger dancer, I was insecure for other reasons, and with fewer defenses. So, if I examine this nervousness due to age, I can see it simply as façade for an underlying insecurity with me, being myself--this is what I need to address. Age is actually my armor!
With this degree (a first major accomplishment), I realize that I no longer have to feel vulnerable to other's opinions of what I am doing with this life. I can choose to enjoy life without the stress of internalized stigma!
Fewer time-wasters this decade, lol.
I'm 41 and usually one of the top earners at my clubs. I go for dances not champagne rooms. I can do way more dances between stage sets. If I sat with a guy trying to go for the big bucks in the CR I'd be wasting time. I go around for dollars then get 1-3 dances between each stage set. I do not hustle. But IMO I look like the girl next door type and the rest of the girls in my club look like hood rats. I have no visible tattoos, long blonde hair and I always wear something sparkly and have a french manicure. The girls in these clubs around here are train wrecks. I am in better shape than them and I look about 27 years old. When I was near Philly I had competition but I was still in the top 3 or 4 at each club. I will quit dancing when I start getting those comments...you know "Aren't you too old to be dancing"? or "you look like someone's grandma".
Pfft. I have something these young dumb and thirsty for cum youngins don't: experience and a decent amount of wisdom. Youth is a commodity ANYONE can possess.
I work in the same general area as TT so my contempt is reserved for the youngins I encounter IRL. The ones on here seem to be ok. :)
unless you go audition at a club, they tell you they want you, then you go in the office and they go to make a copy of your drivers license, and they tell you NO, sorry, we can't hire you after all, you're too old. I was 39. They said they retire (fire) their girls at 36 usually. I was in shock. You just saw my body, my stage performance, said I was great, then turn me down because of the date on my license?????? Double Visions btw
How many of these threads do we have now? It's funny seeing all the old posters I forgot about who aren't around anymore. One of my faves.
How many of these threads do we have now? It's funny seeing all the old posters I forgot about who aren't around anymore. One of my faves.