Re: Help for a New Customer
Well, FIRST you find a seat, and THEN you buy a drink.
1. Before going to the club, get plenty of cash, leave the ATM and credit cards behind.
2. Walk into club, pay the cover charge. Pay it with a 20 so you get plenty of singles back.
3. Find seat like you would in any restaurant/bar.
4. Order drink. Tip the waitress. Pay with a 20 so you get plenty of singles back.
5. Go to stage when you see a dancer there that you like.
A. If the dance sets start with a song where the dancer keeps her top on, start putting your $1 bills on the rail anyway. Most guys like to wait to go to stage until the dancer has her top off. She'll appreciate you being there for the whole set.
B. If there's no customers at the stage, go up anyway. You don't look stupid. You're there to watch the girls. She'll appreciate the attention that much more, especially if other guys follow you.
6. Don't be afraid to stay at the stage for more than one girl. Or go to another stage to see another girl.
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Assuming you're in a club where you can do all this, after this point, the variables start to multiply.
Perhaps a dancer that you like on the stage will suggest a private dance. If you're interested, offer for her to come to your table after her set, and she can tell you what's involved. If you're not interested, say, "No thanks."
Perhaps you'll just go back to your table, and a dancer will offer to join you. If you want her to, tell her yes, and offer to buy her a drink. If you don't want her to, politely decline.
Perhaps that dancer, or the dancer at the stage, or just some other dancer will offer you a private dance. Since you're new at this, you can just say, "I'm new at this. What's the deal?" And they will tell you what is involved in a private dance and how much it costs. If you're interested, get one. If you're not, politely decline.
If you get a dance, let her do the work. Good manners on your part will make it more enjoyable.
There's lots of scams to be aware of and lots of tips that might help, but just keep it simple. Be polite, be careful, be considerate, be there to have fun, and you should do all right, if the club itself is an all right place.
Good luck, and have fun.
Re: Help for a New Customer
1. Bring lots and lots of money with you ;D
2. Come in, sit at the bar and get a drink. If it's slow the bartender will bullshit with you and tell you what's going on. Depending on what kind of club you're at, girls will either come by and ask if you want a dance, or come by and sit and talk to you for a little while. If you don't want a dance from her, don't waste her time. Don't say maybe later if you mean no.
3. When you're comfortable, go up to the stage and tip for a while. In smaller clubs it's nice if you sit through the whole rotation of girls and tip everyone. Have your money out, don't make the girl wait in the middle of her set while you dig in your wallet for a one.
4. Stay at the stage or get a table or whatever.
5. When you see a girl on stage that you like, tip her a five or a ten, she'll come talk to you when she gets off stage.
6. Get a dance. Keep your hands and your tongue to yourself (I'm sure you know that, but you'd be amazed how many people don't). After the dance, tip her (depending on where you are, tips are either common, mandatory, or uncommon).
7. Where are you? I bet wherever you are one of us is somewhere near you and could introduce you to our club :)
Lena
Re: Help for a New Customer
Also BigM, just like us, come in wearing a smile on your face! That would make me go to you in a minute. Pamela :)
Re: Help for a New Customer
Are you a cop ? You know how to walk in a bar and get a table or order a drink from the bar. You know girls will come to you and ask if you want a dance in most clubs. And you know how to leave a tip on stage just like the other customers are doing.
You are suspicious.
Re: Help for a New Customer
"You are suspicious" That's funny.
Tina,
A cop? No.
Of course I know how to go in a bar and order a drink. My guess is a stripclub is SLIGHTLY different from the bars I've visited.
"leave a tip on stage" --- how does that help me? Better yet, how does that help you to make money? What's an appropriate tip for someone dancing on stage? How would I know?
Just looking for some friendly "What to expect" tips so I know what to expect when I finally talk my buddy into going to one with me (Hey man.)
It would seem to me that you would be nicer to someone trying to give you business.
Thanks Pamela and Lena.
Re: Help for a New Customer
Your welcome BigM,
Smile, and just watch the crowd. You will pick the routine up fast, or make up your own. There are no hard set rules. Just have a good time, within legal limits, and you will do great!
Actually a good dancer will show you the ropes. We like to take control, you will learn your cut off point. Pamela ;)
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:)
One more thing....I've heard good and bad things about this....
Do I say anything about it being my first time? (Like the dancers aren't going to be able to tell anyway.) I can envision some bad outcomes from letting people in on that secret.
Are there any good things that could come of it?
Re: Help for a New Customer
It might help if we knew where exactly you plan on going or in what area you plan on visiting a strip club. I can provide plenty of newbie pointers, but it would help to know where you're at.
Re: Help for a New Customer
Hi BigM,
sure say hi! Tell the dancer if you wish this is your first time. Do set your limits on the money issue. Start slow. Say - pick a woman who sparks your interest and buy a dance. Watch others, see what they are getting in the way of dances, and if you like what you see ask for the same. Remember some of us are great hustlers, so be careful about the money situation until you become more familiar with dance clubs. I think all will go great for you! Pamela ;)