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Easy Money
We all know that lots of girls promise things they aren't gonna do, get the money up front, then after a couple of minutes call the bouncers over when the guy tries something.
Last Saturday was really bad for me~so bad I was almost contemplating this. I decided, though, that it would be worse in the long run. And as easy as the money is, I don't know if I'd do it.
Just wondering what your thoughts are on this approach :) Has anyone here done this (and will admit it)? Do you think it's fair enough? Share!
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Not a smart move..
are u saying promise an 'extra', get the money and dont deliver?
if so i think theres other ways to make money
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Yea, I'm saying girls either hint or blatantly promise extras in the Champagne room, get the money, then call the bouncer.
Like I said, it's not the thing for me ~not to mention these girls are risking getting in trouble...but that doesn't stop girls from actually doing extras, and it doesn't stop them from promising them.
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Panda,
no dont do it that way. Remember, a happy customer will come back. Dont promise extras but be really nice and sexy and they will usually return. You dont wanna do the "promising" thing and then calling a bouncer cause the next time he's there, he may go for anther girl, or he may go and tell hid buddies to watch out for you.
your persoality and sexy way of dncing may make him come back for more and you wont have to stoop to their levels.
Just my .02 cents =)
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The difference is whether the "More" is Implyed (by acting sexy/horny ect. ) or actually outright stated. If you ACT and flirt the customer may assume that more is available and when there isn't can assume that he read you wrong. If you SAY it and then don't deliver ....... there is only 1 person to blame and if security is involved you lose a customer.
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I would definitely advise against promising things that you are not going to follow through on. After a while word will get around that you are a scam and it will be even harder for you to make money. In the hustling part of the articles section on this site the author touches on this. In the long run guys will spend more money on girls who are honest and upfront.
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Never thought it. And never would try it. I don't have a death wish. Pamela
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Not a good move. You may piss the wrong guy off and bouncers cant protect you once you are in your car on the way home......Just a thought......Shawn
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This is the exact reason why guys have a real dislike for strippers, and aren't coming into the clubs as often as they used to. The money may be easy now, but your future earnings (ant the earnigns of dancers to be) will be affected greatly in a negitive way.
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That's pretty foul! Isn't that pretty much like stealing? That's like going to a store, paying for an item, and the store owner switching the item for something cheaper when you aren't looking.
I will think twice befoe I pay for any dance up front!
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I think what's more important than going home with a few more bucks , is going home with a clear conscience. Remember these customers *already paid* for something - its not like they get some money back guarantee, so in essence, yes it is like stealing.
Pamela also has a point - you never really know who you're dancing for. A girl from our sister club once told a guy she would go with him after work if he paid $500 up front. She slipped out that night, but he was there waiting outside the club next night at the beginning of her shift. It took the police to finally get rid of this man -
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Yeah, ripping guys off is a dangerous game to play. Don't do it. This is one of those things that gives dancers a bad name. I understand it can be tempting to pull this on an especially bad night, but you have to think about the long run, and one pissed-off guy could spread the word that you ripped him off, depriving you of many times the money in the future.
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Panda, NEVER cheat a customer. NEVER.
Would you like to be cheated?
As Paris said, that is why men are NOT coming to clubs as much now. At an UPSCALE club I work at off an on a VIP patron pulled a gun out on a girl and an innocent customr got shot tho death in the parking lot because a rippedoff customer got mad.
Guys don't have as much money now, companies aren't allowing their employess to write off strip club dances and since dance prices have gone to $20 or more guys just can't afford it.
Build up some regulars that like you, treat them nice, give them a free dance here and there if they spend money on you.
You're in Miami and friction dances are the norm there. Give GOOD dances and be friendly and nice and approach EVERYcustomer and your good will come.
Bad nights are par for the course now. You have to take the good with the bad. Try getting hired in several clubs and move around not just working the same club every night and see how that goes.
Never cheat a customer. How would you feel if someone ripped you off?
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This is obviously a case where somebody needs some long term foresight.
Let's suppose a desperate dancer did do this. Sure she's got some money for screwing over a customer, but in gaining that money she's risking all of the following:
- Her job
- The respect of her co-workers
- Continued buisness from customers
- Guys not coming to the club anymore
- Going to jail
- Her club being shut down
- Having to work under more restrictive rules
- Possible physical harm from the wronged party
I've had a few less than satisfactory dances in the past, but I've never been screwed over like that. Trust me, it's NOT worth it. And you should report anyone else doing it to management (assuming that they care). You AND your boss have a lot to lose too with a co-worker pulling that kind of nonsense.
My policy on getting burned, (whether it be at a nightclub, auto repair shop, Best Buy, etc.) is this. I'll let it happen, ONCE. And when it does happen I will not be back and will gleefully bad mouth that business to everyone I know.
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This is exactly why there are sites like ASPD around. So the guys can look out for each other. :D
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You could be talking to an undercover cop.
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It is very lame for a dancer to promise then not deliver, since in the long run it surely will affect her earnings potential. Clients will spread the word that so and so dancer rips off clients.
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Yes promising and not delivering is tantamount to stealing. However, certain dancers will do just about anything to earn more money TONIGHT even if it means burning their bridges tomorrow so to speak. This tactic, along with "bait and switch", miscounting private dances, after hours promises and similar tactics, definitely pisses off customers, causes the club to lose repeat business, and gives all dancers a "black eye".
In a small or medium sized city a dancer regularly pulling this kind of crap will quickly wind up canned at every club in town. But in large metropolitan areas where it's common for dancers to rotate from club to club booking a week at a time it's all too easy for girls to come into one club, pull their shit, and move on to a different club without a lot of negative consequences (and certainly no permanent ones).
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a little off topic but along the same lines. a girl at my club doesnt promise extras but she always ups the dance count way more then she really did and then calls the bouncer saying the guy wont pay her. it really pisses me off becuase i can only imagine the good customers we have lost. the sad thing is, is she is beautiful has a excellant body and has a sexy foriegn accent she doesnt have to rip people off. i kept noticing her getting "ripped off" then i caught on .. meanwhile i was off work for like 2 weeks and one of my good regulars got a dance from her and she upped his count by 3. ugggh ... i guess she counts on guys being drunk or had realized that she has a 50/50 chance they will just pay rather than argue. girls like her need to be fired . of course the owner loves her! little does he know!