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Private Parties
I have been in this one clubs 2 times, and I have had three different dancers if I would like their cell phone # to set up a private party. I have been to embassed to ask what this is, but I am guessing this is their way of saying I'm a hooker. Am I right or am I just to jaded.
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Re: Private Parties
I think the chances that they were hooking are pretty good. Most regular dancers don't solicit guys for private shows, they stick to making their money at the club. It is one thing for a guy to ask a dancer to perform at a bachelor party, but it is quite another for dancers to approach guys about doing private parties. Just my opinion.
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Re: Private Parties
Some clubs do provide dancers for off premises parties but it is ALWAYS arranged through the Club and the dancer is always escorted. If a dancer does this on her own its either hooking or (unfortunately more likely) a scam. With the economy down, the chances that this is a ploy to rip you off in some way becomes greater. Personaly I have more respect for a dancer that hooks on the side than one who steals. Be careful.
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Re: Private Parties
Thanks for the replies.
DJ_WuLf I was not going take them up on the offers. You may be very right about the scam possibility. As far as being sponsored by the club, I doubt it, but one of the girls offered to leave and do it during her shift but she would have to pay the manager an extra $50 to leave for an hour.
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Activities like this is the main reason I am considering stopping going to clubs. I can risk loosing my job over due to an arrest.
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Hey, I do bachelor parties and private shows but do not hook on the side, and I give my card to guys in the club. Of course, I do this if they've asked for it.
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OK, a LOT of girls, do out-call private parties which are perfectly legal and legit. Admittedly, there are ALSO girls who cross the line. Hooking is just ONE of the issues. I can't tell you how MANY girls I've known who got started dancing under age by dancing at private out-call parties (usually college frat parties). But for the most part, out-call dancing is perfectly legit and legal.
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Re: Private Parties
Colette: The big difference is how the offer was solicited. This guy obviously didn't ask. The real issue from the Clubs POV is liability. If arrangements were made with the Clubs knowledge (or even on thier premises as you are a representative of them when at work) the Club is responsible for your safety should something go wrong. Very few Clubs with anything to lose in a law suit will allow or condone this. I certainly didn't intend to make it sound like an independant dancer on her own time was anything other than legitimate entertainment.