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Dec 28th, club contest...NERVOUS!
HELP,
tomorrow night i am going to a techno club for a PJ party. You can wear just about anything. The people will be there from 'Blind Date' doing interviews for an up coming show. I don't really want to be on the show, but i want to win a contest! I am nervous! Just knowing they will be there.
PLEASE give me some words of inspiartion...as this is not the norm for me. I will not be dancing.
Starts at 9:00pm untill 2:00am i think. I have the most stupid red nightie picked out. It was all i could find. Thinking about not going...i just need that shove out the door. I will take a camera (if i go lol.)
Any advice is much neede right now...sorry had to modify a few times...can't even spell right now!!!
Thanks Pamela
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Re: Dec 28th, club contest...NERVOUS!
OHHHH.... a fashion question... my turn! my turn!
You have blond hair and light skin, right? You need either red or black, depending on what image you want to make. I'd go with the black.
PJ party, huh? Two options...
FIRST, a really nice pair of satin jammies.
OR... a baby-doll type outfit -- a little more revealing, but if the crew from Blind Date is there, you want SOME modesty (but not much!)
I've attached a pic to this post (and one to the next post) suggested outfits. Both are available at Vicki's (when you shop Victoria's Secret as much as I do, you get to call her "Vicki"). BTW, Vicki's is having their semi-annual sale right now!!!
This Baby Doll is currently on sale for $25. (No, I do NOT work for VS.... I'm just a shop-a-holic.)
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These jammies are currently on sale for (I'm not making this up) $19.
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Girl go for it!!! I 'll be rooting on for you. Best Luck to you and your choice of any outfit you pick out. I'm sure it'll be something sexy and cute ;).
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Kisses to you all! I only have a red baby doll, kinda like the first pic. The neckline is plunging a bit more. Slits up the side. And i am wearing nude all the way up pantyhose for a legy look. Should i wear my red pumps? Or my 5' clear stripper shoes? I have a black robe to go over the baby doll, it's short too, and ties. Should i buy a cheap red choker too? Or keep it simple?
I ammsooo nervous...You all are being so nice!!! And helpful.
Pamela, Had to modify again....yes, i am very light with very blonde hair that hangs past my rear. Should i let it wild or put it up?
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I don't think a choker would look right with that style of nightie... but some other red accessory, maybe a bow in your hair or something? Or if you have a red-stoned necklace (ruby or garnet or something) that could work.. I just think a choker would look weird.
Hair down. I think. Or if you put it up, do a loose ponytail or a braid, nothing very structured or fussy.
Personally, I cannot wear stripper shoes all night at a non-strip club. I don't know why I have no problem wearing them for a double shift at work, but if I try to wear the 7" spike heels for more than a few hours when I'm out on the town my feet hurt. So obviously if it was me, I'd wear the pumps.. but if you could wear either comfortably.... Hm, I dunno. I'm gonna pass on offering shoe advice, mostly because I really hate most red shoes and since I cannot see the whole outfit all together I don't know which would work better.
Good luck! You'll look wonderful no matter what you end up in.
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I say YES to the choker, do anything and everything to stand out especially if there is a contest involved, understated will be equal to to unnoticed in my books! Although Pamela you are stunning, it doesnt hurt to polish the silverwear when company comes know what Im saying?
I also would wear the heels, (if you can) put a puff of maribou on the toe snip it off a boa if you have a loose one handy? or put a glam pair of earrings on each of the toe tops of your shoes. BODY glitter! in a crystal not gold or silver a clear opalish kind, in fact at walmart in the craft dept they have this spray on glitter for fabric...(it washes off non toxic) it far outshines the crap gel they sell everywhere. Just spray it on let it dry and get dressed!
About that beautiful mane of yours? You could do anything with it and still be a goddess! Put it up like it WAS in a fancy updo but has loosened and slipped a bit, some long ringlet tendrils cascading around your face and shoulders spells SEXY!
Wear any pajama....its the babe in the peejays we are talking here huh? So if you are wearing something simple then glam yourself to the nth degree.
Thats just my take on it...especially if there is a contest....especially!
You are really really a pretty woman....so you have no worries anyway!
GO GIRL!
p/s take a teddy bear and dress her up to to match you - this will put a little bit of girly into the mix, a stunning WOMAN with the sweetness of a girl....this will KILL! Damn - take pics - I wanna see!!!!
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No need to worry sweetie! You are going to knock them dead!!!! You are so beautiful, they are going to be eating out of your hands..... :)
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Gosh, just walked in the door, and love ALL the advice. And the teddy bear, i am going out to buy one to match me tomorrow! I am pretty much set! I am going to leave the hair long and straight, with a few curls around the face for the fresh outa bed look (i hope it loks that way, anyway.) I heard there is going to be over a thousand people there, and lots turned away because of space perhaps. I am getting there very early so i don't have to stand in a long line.
The camera is charged...but i am not. The site is click on calender, it should be up now.
Love the advice, always open for more tips!
Luv.......Pamela
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You are so lucky to be going to such a cool party! I lived in Austin Tx. and really miss the many and fantastic costume parties, some of them huge. One thing I can tell you, having won over 2,000$ with one Halloween costume in various contests--until I was arrested and had it confiscated by a Florida Jesus-freak super cop at FantasyFest--you can't get too excited about winning, because you'll have a lot less fun. You can't win every contest no matter how good you look, especially if there is a supporting faction for a previous favorite. The costume I had was so good it has received a standing ovation just for walking in the club more than once, but I have lost to a white kid with black paint on his face and a football jersey on.
You'll have a lot more fun if you just don't get worked up about winning. Let that beautiful personality we have all seen in your posts shine, and you will be the winner, contest or no.
Wear the pumps. Wear the short black robe. Wear the choker, or maybe a silky red ribbon tied at the neck. The red nighty you have sounds great, but you might want to try on that first pictured black baby doll to see how it looks, if you have time left (I just now saw this post). I'm kind of partial to stockings over pantyhose, but some guys love the latter endlessly.
If you wear your hair up at all, definitely leave the curls around your face, and most definitely let it all free at some point in the night, (a woman once won my heart by doing just and only that one night), not too late...
Now you say you are not going to dance. Well, if you can do it without getting carried away, I think you should do just that, in a subtle way. Nothing catches a man's eye at an event more than a beautiful woman, but a beautiful woman naturally swaying to the music. They are bound to have dancing there, and I'm sure you will have no lack of offers, so you can let it flow. Try not to piss off all the other women there by hogging all the attention thrown at you, you know how they can get when that happens.
We are with you in our hearts...
Djoser
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that's realy good advice. i knowyou'll do fine. you're a knockout! it's all within you and that shines out. you'll make anything look hot. you always have good advice and kind words for us. i would like to offer the same to you. i'm wishing you lotsa fun. i just know you're gonna win!
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Thanks Djoser, Maia 13, TiNi, Morgan, Leigh Landon, Orchid, Hershey, Susan, Candigirl....all of you gave great advice, and the umph i need to walk in the door.
I am pretty set, I DO NOT want to try and get on blind date, oh gosh...i don't care for the show! Lol.
But i would like to maybe meet a cash prize! Or something. All different contests going on. Now my GF says she may not even go inside if it's that packed. My Guy friend is cool with the deal. He has killer silk PJ's from fredericks, black. Me i am going red after all. The best i had. With ADVICE fro you all.
Luv, Pamela 8)
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Pamela...you are so silly girl! You could wear a potato sack and kick butt! Now remember.....have a good attitude AND LOTS OF FUN!!!!!!!! Good luck!
MissB
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Big :-* to you MissBehavin!!!!!
As the clock ticks away so does our weather. It is going to be a rather chilly one here in Florida tonite. ATTITUDE...that's what i always say right? Well i need to put that attitude together tonite. Ok I'm ready! I got it... Thanks hun. Pamla
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Today is the day Pam!!! GOOD LUCK HAVE FUN LOOK GOOD KNOCKEM" DEAD !!!
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Well..... How did it go? :)
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I just wrote a topic about the night....crazy night!!! Need lots of sleep. But can't Lol. Work tonite! :-/ Pamela