hello :)
I still don't understand how girls get+keep men coming into VIP if they don't promise (and/or follow through) that they'll cum????
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hello :)
I still don't understand how girls get+keep men coming into VIP if they don't promise (and/or follow through) that they'll cum????
Tell them if they'd like more privacy you can go back there. Hold back something on your floor dances so that you can actually deliver on a better dance once you are in VIP. There are guys that want to go to VIP to get away from the main floor and have you to themselves without wanting to blow their load in their pants.
Tell them that in VIP you can give them a better dance without everyone on the floor watching, that they will have you all to themselves, that you can focus just on them - you're selling the privacy and intimacy of VIP versus the commotion on the main floor, with your undivided attention to boot. Maybe a guy wants you to do a particular thing during your dance - you can say "I'll do that if we're in VIP." Mainly they are going back there to get something they can't get out on the main floor - what that something is coming from you is up to you.
not all guys go to the lounge expecting to cum, though. 90% of my VIP customers go for other reasons - talking, cuddling, massage, etc. One guy just likes to go up for 3 hours and sing songs and play with my hair. In fact, many of the guys who are more sexually driven when in the lounge, like to go up b/c of the *idea* of being up there with a stripper - if they just wanted to cum, they can get an escort for full sex for the same price.
I've never had to woo a customer with the promise of "a happy ending"upstairs. I just tell them that things are more intimate - there's no sexual activity ,(to which they always exclaim, "oh! of course!...." which I find utterly hilarious) and shouldn't plan on any kissing nonsense, either.
Sometimes when on the floor giving a dance, if the guy touches my thigh, I'll gently move his hand and say "we can't do that down here". So it gives him the idea that he can do it elsewhere - so he will ask "where else?" at which time I'll mention the VIP room. I make no qualms about it, tell him the price, my rules, and still make it tantalizing , by mentioning how nice it would be to spend some private time with him.
"Gawd, I'd LOVE to spend more time with you, but if we stay out here on the floor, I'm going to have to do some stage sets. If we go someplace quiet, I won't have to....."
"I just love listening to you talk. You are great..... No, I mean that..... Really... Can we go someplace quiet where we can talk some more?"
"You should see how I dance in the VIP room. I can't do it out here in front of everyone -- the damn club has these stupid "standards" and they're afraid of the cops if I dance that way. I'd love to show you, though."
"I'd LOVE to dance for you in the VIP room. Gawd, that would be SUCH a turn on. Really. Can we? Puh... leaze?"
Wow! Thanks, I will have to remember some of these lines!! ;)