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Guys in groups?
Okay, I am just wondering what everyone does when approaching a group of guys. I prefer to sit with a guy who is by himself but that doesn't always happen. After you have chatted with a group of guys for a bit and you want to sell some dances, do you single in on one guy and ask him or ask the whole group in general, "would anyone like me to dance for them?" The club in which I have recently started working has a lot more groups of guys than my old club, and I am wondering what is the best strategy for getting dances from a bunch of guys sitting together. Thanks in advance. :)
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If it's more than, say, 4 guys, and no other girls are sitting at the table, I come over and greet all of them. I usually zero in on the one who replies back most enthusiastically. If it's a bachelor party, I rarely sit with them - most of the time they get onlly one or two dances from all the girls; so I'll come over and ask who the "man of honor" is, and if he or anyone else is ready for a dance - but if it's a smaller group, I'll sit down and chat for a bit.
When you ask "would anyone like me to dance", it puts the ball in their court, and they don't want to seem overly eager in front of friends, so they fiddle around not wanting to be the first one and it just wastes time and makes things a bit awkward. This is just my take on things. I'm sure all girls approach this diffferently. :)
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I too will zero in on one guy... either the one who seems to like me the most or, in his absence, the one who seems to be in charge. I'll act almost as if I'm "with" him, sort of ignoring his freinds. Usually if he doesn't buy a dance one of his freinds will buy him one.
Lena
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I don't do lap dances but do my share of drumming up clients on the floor. I first scope out the table of guy/guys from a distance. No matter what is happening, i approach them. Say 'hi', and start walking around the table making eye contact with all of them off and on, leaning forward. I then ask what type of music they like, because i tell them i would like to pole fuck for them. I say to them, " what would you like to see me do on stage"? I will please all of you! I will crawl on the stage like an animal in heat, and pole grind until my clit is numb. I then invite them up close while i wait for another girl to get off the stage, then i have the Dj put on a song (hopefully we have the song, or close.) While waiting to jump on stage i chat about "self sex on stage", ( do my best to keep them interested,) and then i go to it. I pole fuck, and make eye contact with just them, lay on the floor very close to them lick my lips, spread my legs, rub my tits. The message i want to send is that i am getting off, either with the pole or on the floor for them. Others join in! That is what i hope for, more wanting their own personal 'nasty dance from me as well'!
It's all i have to work with being a no contact dancer. I will let them put money on me however. It works, and at times it does not. After so many lap dances i have hopes that the guys would want something different. As i am sure the other dancers do the same. And if the same group of guys come back to me again, i add a little something different! I usually have to change moves for the same clients.
Pamela
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Here's 2story involving groups
Good: I was working in an upscale club. There were a group of men about 7 of them sitting at the table drinking and talking some in suits. They were not even paying attention to the girl. So of course I had to but in(20 VIP or 150 and up Champagne I was going to made money.) But I got the run around "I'll get a lap dance later" So I went to the youngest looking one "the bait". We got the talking then I ask for a lap dance. No money....lol. So one of the guys in a suit gave him 40 dollars. So I was happy. I made 60 dollars in tips and 1 lapdance.
Bad I had many of them but the worst was I walk up to two guys, they were friends. I was talking to both of them. The seem nice. So they want a lapdance from me. Both at once I was happy. Bad idea. In the VIP room they are not allowed to touch me. Ok im dancing then I start getting touch all over. They were ripping off my clothes. It was crazy. The bouncer came of course and escorted them out. I didnt finish a whole minute of the lapdance, but I did get the money first.
So I guess it depends on what. I dont know....lol. ???
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I walk up to one of the guys in the group and sit on his lap while introducing myself to him and the rest of the group. I find out what the occassion is or if they are just hanging out. I go on to ask whose ready for a dance. Usually at least one guy will say I am. If not I say I'll check on you guys later, that way I have already introduced myself so when I go back to them they remember me and I most likely get a dance.
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If you would like the guys perspective, it is much tougher to turn down the dance if you are asked directly (at least for me and I have to be the easiest mark in the club. I have a hard time saying no).
When you ask the table we can just look at each other and look dumb.
Happy Holidays!
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i find guys in groups to be extremely intimidating....i gives them a reason to be assholes..i'd rather go for the lonely guy by him$elf
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It is better to be one on one with a guy rather than a friend of his trying to distracted him.