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My First VIP
I never even know how to approach guys about VIP, so usually I don't..and I'm always nervous about what kind of hassle I'll have to deal with... but this weekend the bartender hooked me up with a customer. We went in and he wanted to suck on my nipples (this isn't so bad), finger me etc. He was respectful when i said no, even though he wanted to do these things...Even so, he wanted to jack off. He literally took it out of his pants and went at it...I didn't really know what to think so I only discouraged it a little (a tid bit of shock, perhaps?).
I don't really know my limits in VIP yet, I haven't really explored them...but I know that if I wanted to see dick, I would be getting paid a hell of a lot more!
So my question is (remember i live in Florida~miami to be exact...and things seem to be dirtier and more loose there than in other places) how do I get men in VIP, not come out feeling like a dirty whore, and keep them coming back in VIP? I want their money, not their cum~and it seems to be that the latter can come with the job description. It's not that my club is a bad club and the girls pull extras~it's new and it's supposed to be low mileage and there are a lot of girls there that (as far as lap dancing goes) don't even let men touch their breasts (me included...not for $20)...I guess I'm just wondering 1) what I can do to get men in VIP without promising they'll cum 2) what can I do in VIP to keep them entertained ~ do I have to feel like I'm dryhumping them 3) what can I do to get repeat customers without being dirty? I don't want to come out at the end of the night feeling like an extras-girl.
I don't know what your experiences are with VIP...I'd like it if maybe some Fla girls responded too...maybe you girls have more insight since you know the scene down there.
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Re: My First VIP
Panda, been there done that. I live in Florida. All it took for me upon entering A VIP for the first time was a guy trying to stick his fingers inside me....DONE. Sure i was a babe in the woods at the time, but since then learned alot! I don't do VIP's in my strip clubs i work. Only at a busy techno 3DX dance club.
I talk with the man first, and make damn sure he gets the idea of what i will do and not do for him before we go to the room. If he does not like MY rules, move on. Can't give much advice as far as stripping and being alone with a guy. Because the club i frequent with VIP's around, you have to be clothed in something. I sit on his lap, and talk sex! I like to sit facing the guy with my legs open with his inside of mine closed. I laugh, flirt, ask questions about my body ect. But that is my limit. I tell a guy up front what i will do, and it's not much. If he likes me and wants to talk in private he will give a 20 perhaps. I negotiate upfront. Money first, i will sit on your lap, and give you good fantasy's! He can kiss my check, neck..NO MOUTH TO MOUTH for me. And if he seems like he may cum i get off, or move to a different position. Some guys out there just pay for your time. I like that! They are very nice. They want a girlfriend within the club. But that has to be my limit, because i am a stage and pole dancer. I can't go beyond what i just typed in the club i was talking about. And at work (stripping) i don't like VIP's. Nor do i care for lap dancing! I don't like the direct contact and had to learn how to make money by dancing and working tables looking for customers to get nasty with me by the stage! :-/
Remember You are in control!!!! Not him. Pamela