Re:A sure thing...IS worth it
A lot of the guys who want extras are willing to pay the price. They just don't want to go to the brothels because they say that the girls aren't very good looking. I don't care how much a guy is willing to spend for a hand job. I would not touch a strangers bare penis for any amount of money. I would not touch a complete strangers penis with a rubber either - becuase I'm not a hooker. When in a strip club the guys should expect to keep it covered with their pants at all times.
I have guys asking for extras on a regular basis. It is very annoying. I have just learned to be friendly and informative on the subject of prostitution and move on to the next customer a.s.a.p.. Guys like that are not worth the time or trouble.
I am so used to getting those questions that I am really good at not getting mad anymore. I still get extremely pissed when some moron asks me for "my real name".
Re: A sure thing...IS worth it
What about a strip club virgin guy like me who came home from Chicago where he had experienced the biggest performance of his life in, an up to then, 20 year career. My prudish wife, who doesn't mind getting naked for sex...when she wants to have it... but to strip for me is beneath her, went to see old room mate an another city, so I returned from my biggest triumph alone. Went to local club for first time, had past it many times, but this time took in 20 bucks so wife wouldnt miss it, 5 bucks for cover. As soon as I was in the door, these gorguous beauties were beside me asking if I wanted a private dance. I was such a newbie,I had to have it explained, think they just said something about some room. I gave up my 20 to the cutest girl and off we went. I was soo turned on, could hardly keep my pelvis still after I had given her the bucks and she led me behind the wall and pushed me onto the seat. When she leaned back My hands just couldnt stay away, but she caught me immediately and really gave me a hard time, I tried to calm down, but as she started again, my pelvis had to get into the act. She angrily said she was not a whore,etc. I stayed still for the rest but my eveing was all but ruined, at least in there. I left went home, called my best female friend and talked my self through it with her. I came sooo hard, but still had the same kind of feeling as if I had been slapped. Wish I had made it clearer I was new, think I did, but she was so insulted. I have gone back once in 5 years, let them rub on me on the floor, and tipped by saved the 20/s for drinks and a short conversation. But I don't I will go for the room again, esp. after she told me about the hidden camera's etc.
Re: A sure thing...IS worth it
Im not sure ^^^what your asking here lasttango...it sounds like you agree that its nice to have a place to go have some human contact with naked women who are comfortable being so. New or not I hope you didn't think you were getting laid for $20? I believe that SC's are a very rarified environment, where else do you get to go and hang out with girls in bikinis who are all available for conversation, dances, and drinking for a little cash? Sometimes you connect with a girl and thats the bonus.
Re: A sure thing...IS worth it
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Originally Posted by Emily
.and then to end it on his terms so he can go back to his every day life like nothing happened.
This is something that should get more attention. From this site it is clear that there are lots of guys out there looking for all sorts of things -- extras, outside of club time, etc. -- but there are at least some of us who want to just have a good time and then walk out and leave it behind at the club. The last thing we want is to have it slop into life outside.
Re: A sure thing...IS worth it
I am going to be a bit controversial here...
I think in every job you face rude customers or management with expectations that are in excess of what your job description is. I am sure that no doubt some of you have completed a job as per the scope agreed with the customer and then found that the customer wanted something else or was expecting a lot more.
In every job you will come across custies who are just the best people, who respect your work and actually pay well for it... but the old Pareto principle is that it is those 20% of customers which land up being 80% of the problems, which is why we remember them and forget most of the good ones.
To end, i think you just have to see this as a part of the job and rather than give the idiots the satisfaction of having got to you... concentrate on the good ones that make working worth while.
I dont think any amounts of education will ever change this mind set.... and most of us dont waste our time educating yobos (as we term them here) because all that results in is a fight and we come to clubs to unwind and be entertained.
In summary, learn to recognise them and then just feel sorry for them and move on.
Re: A sure thing...IS worth it
I can't believe people exist who are THAT cheap. Damn. You can spend twice that amount filling up your tank with gas.