how much do you talk about us.
I have noticed that the first time I go to a club I don't get much attention untill I get a dance or to. then even if it is another time I will have a LOT more dancers come up to me.
there was another time when I was got a dance where the gal allowed me to touch (this is an extra here) and she commented afterwords that I was very gentel. I went to the same club a week later and got a vip dance from a totally different gal. I asked her what her rules were and she said "sure you can touch, by all means"
so I was wondering, do you all gossip a lot about customers? for good or bad or both?
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Why would we want to tell the other girls if you're good? Hell no! We want that stack of cash for ourselves thank you very much!! *he he* ;)
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I may be the minority here, not sure. But i did not talk to the dancers about their clothes let alone a customer. I did have a few dancers in the past tell me that a certain guy was a cheap ass, not to bother with him.
These women (different occasions) never talked to me before, or did i talk with them, so i check out the guy/s in question.
Damn dancers lied, which is what i could expect from some. They tipped very good, i never said anything to the customer or the dancers however, i know where that would go. And i don't like drama, especially at work.
Pamela :)
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It's true, we only warn other girls about the cheap and nasty perverts. If the guy is good, then we would like to hoard him all to ourselves...
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yup... there's no reason for me to share my money with some one else ..therefore if you tip good i will bee our little secret ....shhhh [angel]
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Do you remember the character Humprey Bogart played in "Treasure of the Sierra Madre". When he went all paranoid about people stealing his gold. That is the way I see most dancers acting about good customers with other dancers.
Sorry but just imagining Pamela with a gleam in her eye and chuckling over finding another dancers gold stash. No offense P, but the image was hilarious.
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lol i see what you are saying ...funny is'nt it...but hey
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I ocassionally did this,if I was busy with another customer and I knew I wasnt going to be able to get to him,I would tell someone I liked,hey that guy is good,go over there,not a big deal because I was always busy and some of them,even the ones that danced with me often ,liked variety,made them appreciate me more.
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sometimes if a customer is really rude or obnoxious or not tipping at all... i will usually worn the other girls...
but as for my big $$ customers... i keep that to myself ;)
xoxo
heidi
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I consider the other dancers to be my co-workers, not competition. If I'm not getting the wallet to open like a bride on her wedding night, then someone else should, capiche?
I don't go topless, yet work in a topless club (it's the norm, not a requirement). It's rare that fellow turns me down solely on lack of nudity, but if it does occur then I recommend one of two dancers. Both gals are appealing in much the same way I am myself, so would be a logical choice for a customer who would spend money on me IF I removed my top.
When I get a guy into the VIP room, I do my level best to keep him there until the money is gone. If I know I did not accomplish this, then I point him out to someone else. He is obviously done dancing with me, yet that doesn't mean I can't give a nudge to another girl who might get that last $100 out of his pocket.
On the other side, I warn gals of problematic customers. One guy is a regular visitor, but never buys anything but $10 tablesides; in return for ten bucks, you deal with constant complaints that he wanted what we give in the real VIP dances. To make him that much more annoying, said complaints are delivered while doing his best to administer slobbery kisses and grope your tits. I warn the gals that he's not worth the time, especially since he only wants one tableside anyways.
This sort of thing has paid off for me from time to time. One fellow recently declined me, stating that he was already promised to another girl but that she had seemed to have forgotten about him. I promised to remind her of him and did just that, then came back to his table to explain that a customer had waylaid her and kept her occupied. He thanked me by buying a dance the next day and tipping the stage quite well.
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I don't talk alot about customers to other dancers - waste of time. Alot of girls will watch a guy get dances from another girl, then pounce on him as soon as the dance is over or even make suggestive faces at him while he's getting a dance from another girl. Guess they figure if he's spending on one, he's an easy target. These are usually the girls who sit around at the bar all night, waiting for someone to approach them or to start spending on someone else - bottom feeders. The majority of girls in a strip club are really not good sellers, so lots of them do the bottom-feeding thing.
If you're getting more attention after you've bought dances, it's because the bottom-feeders have noticed you spent money before.
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The only time I talk is when a guy is extremely creepy or when I am trying to warn someone. Girls are probably just noticing that you spend money, or after you had a few dances in a certain club you became more relaxed with the atmosphere which would make you seem more approachable...I've seen men with anxious faces the first time they visited our upscale club.
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Sometimes I'll talk to the other girls about a Mr.Stinky, Mr. Cheapass, Mr.Grabby, or Mr.Fartypants. Usually just if it's a funny story. I don't have much to say about normal and good customers, only because those stories aren't as interesting.
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Sometimes I'll talk to the other girls about a Mr.Stinky, Mr. Cheapass, Mr.Grabby, or Mr.Fartypants.
LOL - yeah sometimes I'll say something to other girls about these types of guys, if I'm not busy. To that list I would add Mr Halitosis. We girls don't like dealing with these types, so it is common to talk about them. Sometimes I might just make a mention to the bouncer as I'm coming out of the dance area about a Mr Stinky or Mr Halitosis. These are particularly annoying and always deserve a little badmouthing! Guys, PLEASE, make sure your are clean, deodorized, smegma-free, and have breath mints or gum handy.
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I could care less about whether or not dancers talk about their customers. I'm sure they don't, at least most of the time. It happens in all jobs or professions. I rarely talk about my job when I'm not working.