I've been to maybe 3 strip clubs in my life and I am 24 years old. I've never had a lap dance before. Strip clubs were fun when I used to go to them, but with a girlfriend now, I don't really have the desire to go, she pleases me in everyway, however, she is a cool enough gf that she wouldn't care if I went, as long as I give her a heads up, but strangely, because she oks it, I don't have the desire to go at all.
Anyhow, my question for all you guys is, how many of you are married or are in relationships, and are you open and honest with your wives and girlfriends about going to strip clubs and about how much you spend, and, how often you go? Also, curious, I'd like to know the reasons you go to them, is it because you don't enjoy your relationships, gf/wife not hot enough, and to what extent do your activities at strip clubs include? See see, no touch? Or some touching? Do you consider this cheating, do your wives/gfs? Would your wives/gfs if they knew? And if you lie or withold this strip club activity info from your wives/gfs, how do you justify it? I'm just very curious about this subject, lucky for me, this has never been a problem because while I like strip clubs, I don't feel the need to go often, and if I did, my gf is totally cool with it. However, my friend is in this predicament, his gf doesn't want him to go, but he's always been into strip clubs. Your feeback would be appreciated.
--John E.
