Do you ever actually find any of the guys that come to the clubs in anyway attractive? What percentage would you actually consider dating?
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Do you ever actually find any of the guys that come to the clubs in anyway attractive? What percentage would you actually consider dating?
Oh good lord sometimes I have to remind myself I'm working! Of course I have a special situation now - I love Latin guys and I'm surrounded by them here in Puerto Rico, and the locals also love us American girls. But even before I came here, sometimes I'd dance for a guy that just really got my cookies melting... Sometimes I really have to practice my control! :P :P :P
actually.. none.. I try not to think of the men that goto my club in that way... saves me from alot of trouble
Hey...YES! Me being a woman i find LOTS of guys that come into the club attractive. I really go for the guy in the suit! He says money. I love a tie. And if he drives a porsche, the better. ;)
Pamela
1%
Very very few. I wish it was more because it would make lap dancing more enjoyable for me, even though it is a job. I worked last Friday night and there was a table of super cute young guys. It made my night because most of the guys I have danced for or seen in the clubs are in the 30-50 range. I'm only 18 so I had fun with them. And although people say the younger guys spend less money, they dropped quite a bit on me and were awesome when I was onstage. But yes, they were the rare exception, so I am going to agree with Heather and say 1% of the men are attractive. :-/
Well, I'm 40 and I don't look so bad, hon ;). It's not like it's 1% ;D.
:D I will have to eat my words Carlos.....It's not the age that matters. I think Pierce Brosnan is the hottest man alive, and he is much older than you! ;) And something to think about.....you are the same age as Brad Pitt. ;)
hey now, I'm only 39.Quote:
And something to think about.....you are the same age as Brad Pitt. ;)
Oh my, I'm flattered. I should go into modeling or acting ;D.Quote:
And something to think about.....you are the same age as Brad Pitt. ;)
I have just conditioned myself to not see ANY guy I meet in my club as datable, whether I find them attractive or not. If I see a group of guys who are attractive, I remember that I am at work and don't treat them any differently than the homely guy sitting by himself in the corner. My mind is set on doing my job, not getting a date for next weekend. So, percentage of guys that I find attractive...maybe 20%, give or take some. Percentage I would actually consider dating/pursuing a relationship with? 0%
1% !! :o
Wow, now I'm curious: Are some of you ladies just really picky, or are SC customers not a representative sample of all men (looks-wise), or is there something about being a customer in the club that lowers their attractiveness factor? Because damn, 1% seems low....I know you're all absolutely gorgeous and can afford to be picky when it comes to who you'd date, but I figured the attraction part would still be there for, well, more than 1%.
I'm trying to imagine a world where I only found 1% of women attractive...it doesn't seem like much fun.
-lestatdl1
To be completely honest in over four years of dancing, I've met 3 or 4 guys that I would actually want to see outside the club. Now I'm not saying that a lot of the guys aren't good looking, they are. But you wanted to know who I found attractive enough to date, and with those 4 guys it was more of an overwhelming chemistry between us.
For women we need to get to know a guy before we see him in a "sexy" light. Women are stimulated not visually so much, as by what comes out of a guys mouth. So by this, if Brad Pitt acts like a jerk, he suddenly becomes very unattractive, whether he is dancing naked and writhing or not. I have dated many men who I thought on first meeting that they weren't attractive, but after getting to know them a little better, they became very hot and sexy in my eyes.
When working, I don't get a chance to get to know a guy. The whole atmosphere is a fantasy, and I am pretending to be a nympho all night long. Most of my conversations with the customers last 5 minutes at best, and that is shouted over the blasting music. But rest assured, if most girls were to meet the very same guys away from the work environment, I would be willing to bet the percentage would be a lot higher.
I posted...I find a certain type VERY attractive...Yes. But would not go home with him. I never left the club with a guy, only talked outside with one way back in Lauderdale, because he just came from Sweden...And i had lots of people around, so...No..No dates with customers. Thats Kinda strange for me. I don't want to lose a customer if we break up. Thats what protects me from the dating scene at work. Other guys (with out the porsche), they are great, no one is completely a fav. to me. But the guy that spends money i will spend with him, inside.
:D
Personally, I would say I'm very picky. That's why it's 1%. I would say that it would be approximatly the same in a night club or anywhere else like that.
Yeah, I have a definite type when it comes to men, too. But sometimes someone that isn't attractive to you at first glance becomes really sexy after you have talked to him for a while.
At work I usually don't look at guys in that way, so when I do see someone I think is hot, I get a little flustered, but I'll talk to him anyway, and if I dance for a hottie, I really enjoy it - there was a table of real cuties one night not long ago that I had a blast dancing for; I had to take a little breather after that!
I think that overall you'll see about as many guys you'll find attractive at work as you will at a normal bar; so for me and Heather, that's not many. Of course, I have a thing for hot Jewish guys from the East Coast, so if I worked in Manhattan things would certainly be different, just like they are for Bridgette in PR!
Collette,,, East Coast huh? hmmm how about near Boston here,,,, not Jewish but I sure would love to see u dance here
Physically attractive? Maybe 10%. But I have pretty specific tastes and fetishes.
Attractive in personality? Probably about 20-25%, depending on the given night. And personality counts for more than looks.
Intellectually attractive? Generally about 2-5%, on a night when I'm lucky.
Attractive enough for me to have broken rules, made dates, or made a fool of myself? 0.09%, no question about it. That comes out to 1 in 10,000.
Kind of a moot point for me these days, as now my sun rises and sets on only one man. ;D
McCain
I find the more money I make, the more attractive I have become! ;)
Howdy - New Guy here.
Ive always considered myself as "okay looking", not stunning, but not horrible. For purposes of of pure information, I am 6'1'' long blond hair (clean, well kept, but not mulletish) 180 lbs, clean shaven. One place that a frequent rather frequently (bad pun intended) I do sometimes get what I think is an inordinate (but not innappropriate) amout of attention from a lot of the dancers. This piqued my curiosity one day, so I asked one who I was friendly with. Her response was in the vein of "well, you look so different from all the others in here" and she made a reference to the huge majority of the 40 and 50 year old men who were present.
The point? My veneer of 'attractiveness" was from the contrast I was to most of the present clientelle. If I had gone in when there were lots of 20 and 30 year old guys, Im pretty sure that I wouldnt have had as much attention.
So from my perspective, attractiveness is all relative.
I hope this made a modicum of sense. if not, hey I tried.
A psychically and healthy normal, good looking guy has no reason to go to the strip club. That’s why you girls haven’t seen them. There is lots of other place available. Way much better then a strip club. The strip club is dirty, and dark, the sound is too loud, the drink is expensive, and smokes everywhere. Honestly? It’s a boring place.
So who’s coming to the strip club? Old people with 30-35 years marriage, guy without wife or girlfriend, insecure people, losers, shy guy, 16-20 years youths who think its funny, and any others with $20-40 in the pockets. They’re coming in, sitting down; get a beer, watching the free porn.
Of course it’s just my opinion. I’m a good looking guy so don’t try to locate me in any strip club:-)
Oh, sure, I'm unattached and don't give a damn, that doesn't make me an ugly guy, nor it makes me a psycho. Oh, and I don't live inside a strip club nor my world revolves around one. Not all strip clubs are dirty, dark, etc. just like "Thomas" describes them. Hmm, I wonder why "he" goes to dirty, dark, etc. strip clubs. Oh well...
Geeze Thomas, I fit everyone of those categories, except of course the one about the 16-20 year olds :D Remember, you’re not going to be one of the "good looking people" forever. So don’t “burn your bridges” son.
Hasn’t your mother ever told you that attractiveness goes beyond good looks?
And hey, what the hell are you doing on this site if you feel that way about stripclubs?
:-[ Yep, he struck a nerve >:(
Ok I've found that the more attractive the guy is the more obnoxious he is (i.e. Thomas) ;D. I tend to steer clear of these few men. The more older and ok looking men are so much nicer and respectful, and the conversation is engaging.
Im finding more and more attractive guys at the club. The ones who are attractive are usually the corporate overachievers who don't have the time to invest in a relationship. Thomas I find your opinion of customers intriguing. So what's your opinion of us dancers?