Tipping During Lap Dances????
I'm a new dancer and I was wondering what was the etiquette for lap dancing. This question is for cutomers or fellow dancers. As a dancer, if you let the customer touch your breasts do you make them pay you money for the dance, since that can be construed as an extra??? Do you ask the customer for it??? As a customer, do you usually tip the dancers? I am in the dark about the whole situation.
Re: Tipping During Lap Dances????
It all depends on the club and on the dancer. If the club or the dancer does not allow touching, then I don't touch. If the club tolerates contact and the dancer doesn't, ditto. If the club and the dancer tolerates contact, it's best to wait for the dancer to initiate. If the club does not tolerate contact and the dancer does, well let's pretend that she doesn't, for your own sake ;D. As for tipping, that also depends on the club and on the dancer.
Re: Tipping During Lap Dances????
I don't usually ask for a dance tip, however I am most happy when one one is offered. It makes me feel like the customer acknowleges that I gave a good dance, more than just the minimum nudity, and that I include passion in my lap daces as well. If the customer has asked me to sit and talk, and doesn't buy a dance I will say something like "I know that you didn't get a dance today, but would you be willing to tip me something for my time?" At the worst he will say no, and the conversation is over and I begin working again. Usually I will get tipped anywhere from $5-100 for my time, so it isn't a complete loss. Only very rarely will the guy say no after I have spent a decent chunk of time with him (20 minutes or more). And usually that is the nice guy who doesn't know how strip clubs work, or is niave.
Re: Tipping During Lap Dances????
Ok well I know I am in the minority here,,,,,, it is very very rare that I dont tip for a dance,,, and in that rare case it was prob either I picked a girl that really wasnt into it or just not my type at all. Almost always I seem to be able to pick a great match and find a very nice girl. And most of the time they are so pleasantly surprised by how much I tip them. I had this one girl who didnt say anything ,,, I think she thought I had made an error by giving her a $50. instead of a $20. LOL oh well guess I picked the wrong one that time. As far as the question about touching breasts,,,, I have never touched breasts (oh yeah maybe in Montreal that one time),,, but here in New England there is no touching or contact at least where I go.
As far as when I travel ,,, I guess I am so used to no contact ,,, that just them sitting on me and touching me is soo much of an extra already I never feel the need to push it.
Re: Tipping During Lap Dances????
Tip...PLEASE....LOL.
It tells the dancer that you enjoyed her company and the dance. It also conveys that you are up to speed on the fact that it is work, that the club gets a portion of the dance price...and that you are a "gentleman" type. You'll be in the minority, but you'll also continue to get the better dances by tipping a little in the future when returning too.