Re: Have I been "played"?
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So was I a chump? Did I get played? I was just trying to be a good friend, I was in the position to do it, I was happy to know that if she could find a new life that I was happy to help.
Did you get played? Yep, you got played by a beautiful woman who you were in love with. Let’s take the word “stripper” out of the equation. She’s a woman, no different than any other woman; her profession has nothing to do with it.
Are you a chump? Nope, you love this lady and can afford to do what you did. You did it for the right reasons, so she wouldn’t have to return to a life she hated, that’s love my man.
The only mistake you made was walking away. If you love her, go after her. If she doesn’t return your love, chock it up to experience and move on.
Good Luck
Re: Have I been "played"?
If this is all true, you were LUCKY to get involved with her and STUPID to let her go and even MORE STUPID to give her that cheque and let her go again. I wouldn't have spent so much money on her even if I could, but since she apparently reciprocated at first you should've kept in touch and maybe then you would've not been played that way.
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I don't know, the money you spent on her and all. You must have had some feeling things were not right, the way things where going.
$1,000 a night? On one woman. Cutting her a hefty check?
Ya know, i think you may have played yourself here...If she was a gold digger, or using you i seriously think she would have stuck around knowing you are easy money. (good girl, for that).
My take on this situation. Keep the big bucks in your pocket. And you won't feel like you are being a chump. Shes gone. And if she is not...she will call for another meeting in time, oh and money. Stop the cycle before it really gets out of hand. Use your money on various ladies, and enjoy their company in the clubs too. Spread out your $1,000...You will have a much better time.
Pamela ;)
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So. Of course, I agreed to meet her for dinner, gave her a cheque for $10,000 with no strings attached
..did she atleast offer to pay for dinner after you gave her the money, or did you pay for that too?
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wow. 1000 bux a night - a dancer client relationship AND you cut her a cheque for 10,000?
I think you already know where you stand. You really didnt need to ask.
Yikes, I am sorry you lost your money...but I do kinda get the headspace that brought you to that point.
If she was real - and considered you a reality in her environment she would have never taken the money or asked for it.
Thing is if you didnt give it to her she would find someone who would, maybe she did, maybe there were more that did the same as you. hmmm...con artists and the abusers of emtions come in both genders. :-/
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I think you already know where you stand. You really didnt need to ask.
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YUP......played good it seems.....
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played
yup like a orchestra
sorry man been there as well it sucks
live learn move on
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Well then can you *LEND* me 10,000?
;)