I've posted a similar question on the blue site for clients' input on how you girls let a client know you want to date him. Now it's your turn. How do you let a client know you want to date him without saying so upfront? :-/
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I've posted a similar question on the blue site for clients' input on how you girls let a client know you want to date him. Now it's your turn. How do you let a client know you want to date him without saying so upfront? :-/
I don't. But some girls i have seen flirt more than usuall, and ask for no dances. Hang with the guy alot at the club, and gives her number. Thats the green light.
Very simple.
recipe for failure: dating customers. a serious no-no in my world.
Date a customer, and you will lose him as a customer.
But on the other hand, if he's a good looking, educated, funny, nice and young professional who you find attractive... then you might be lucky enough to find a good guy. Regular customers don't last long, but "friendships" do.Quote:
Date a customer, and you will lose him as a customer.
Huh....never been there. I agree that you lose him as a customer if you actually date him, but you've got to be very careful..... ya know?
If he's actually what he says he is, and this is on the up-and-up, then I'd use one of two different approaches. First, you could be very direct and ask him to call you on your cell phone sometime. Seriously. I'd do it.
If you don't like to be direct, then do you have a "sister" at the club? (You know -- another dancer you trust TOTALLY?) Get her to tell him that you really like him -- that it's not a come-on but that you'd really like to see him.
Well if you think he might be "The guy" then sure why not good men are few and far inbetween.. And besides theres more costomers out there right? just be careful... men can be good at fooling.
My rule of thumb for dating dancers that I like with 20 years of experience is get to know them first. Take the time in the club and when it slow or you’ve made a round when you go to the dressing room get to know each other when you talk with him spend time with them he’ll get the hint if he’s interested. But just like in out of the club find out if he’s available. Is this something your interested long-term sounds like it? Get to know them first before you get to romantic. One of the draw backs of meeting in the club is the women don’t know if they are being used for looks After all seeing a women in a Adult Entertainment Theater effects on of the most power drives the sex drive. The guy may not even be aware that he’s is lust with you it can be easily confused. So remember the rules of decency can fall away easily especially if they are intoxicated. If you spend allot of free time he will get the hint but watch out, if he show’s little concern for you being there to make money he probably is a selfish and dancers have to watch out because they are more vulnerable. Good Luck