What do you guys think of regulars who go to the club by themselves.
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What do you guys think of regulars who go to the club by themselves.
I can only comment on this from the customers perspective. When I go to a club, it is usually to see a certain dancer or dancers and I prefer to go by myself as I end up having a much better time. And I know my favorite dancer prefers me to come in by myself. That is because she knows that if I am with other people, they are more likely to want to leave earlier. When I am by myself, she manages to keep me in the bar longer, hence sucking more money out of me! Plus when my friends are with me, I noticed she is more passive and feels like she is "intruding" on me with my friends there. Also, she wont dance for my friends for some reason. So there ya go from a customers perspective.
I definitely like it better when customers come in by themselves. Sometimes I really do feel like I am intruding when I approach a group of guys. I just feel it is easier to approach a guy who is by himself, and in my experience, they are the ones who almost always get dances. ;D
I love regulars that come to the club by themselves. I'm wondering why you're asking - do you think guys are perceived differently in a club when they come in alone instead of in a group?
Why do you care what strippers think of regulars that come in by themselves? Think of it as a customer walking into a store, do you care what the sales people think?Quote:
What do you guys think of regulars who go to the club by themselves.
Suckered-
If you truly dislike dancers as much as you seem to, may I ask why you came to start posting here? I realize that a dancer did lie to you and attempt to take advantage of your kindness, as you said, by lying to you. However, please do not assume that is how all dancers are. The majority of us do not attempt to lead guys on with the notion that there will be any sort of relationship outside of the club. Don't let the actions of a single dancer embitter you to the rest of us.
Luv Amber
Many customers begin "clubbing" in groups. Especially for younger customers it can be weird going in alone. Kev, don't worry, you're not a weirdo for going into a club alone...most customers do - infact, regulars are the (as Tre put it) "life blood" of the clubs.
I agree that it's nicer to be one-on-one with the customer. It's like this; if you were at a single's bar, would you prefer to approach a pretty girl who's sitting alone at the bar or would you rather try to approach a pretty girl who is laughing and talking in the middle of a big group of her girlfriends? People, in all contexts, are less intimidating when you can talk to them person-to-person, instead of ten-on-one.
I've been going to clubs for about eight years now. I don't go every week (I guess you could call me a semi-regular) and I'd say that roughly 90 percent of my trips are by myself. Dancers feel more welcome to approach me when I'm alone, because they know that they have more power that way. (Being polite, considerate, and buying a dance or two from them doesn't hurt either).
If I get any complaints, its that I'm TOO polite and too shy. But why be mean? I came to have a good time and to meet some nice gals, not to give the dancers undeserved static.
Okay, maybe I'll sneak one more post in here:
Going "solo" is also a way to guarantee that your buddy sitting next to you isn't your favourite girl's "regular" as well.
At least not at the same time you're there anyways.
Meaning, most "regulars" want to feel that something (read: someone) is theirs, so to speak.
Phrased better: Someone that is there for them, and only them.
(Of course, most of us know the truth of the matter; but the illusion is the draw).
Love em. I spend time with them. And hope to please them with a nice sexy show. Requests are encouraged by me. If i can do it, i will. Pamela
To me it's no big deal. I go by myself all time, since I'm single and uncommitted. A relative of mine convinced me to go to strip clubs and now he rarely goes and I've gone plenty of times. It's much more enjoyable than drinking my arse off in a regular bar since I'm able to interact with nice cute girls even if that means that I must tip. Oh, and it helps my liver since I drink way less ;D
I must agree ;D that 'solo' customers are much less intimidating and approachable than customers who are with mates (be that one or more mates).
Solo customers are always first on my hit list of people to approach. I will then approach a group of 2 or 3 guys/customers then the larger groups then couples.
Couples tend to want to talk with you (esp. the female if she's curious about the whole thing) more than buy a dance or even tip you on stage I've found.
Solo is definately the best way to go but only if you are confident in doing so... otherwise go with a mate at first.
Yeah, wish my mate (read "relative") went more often with me but I won't force him to. I'll enjoy my strip club adventures just the same ;D