Re: help me/ sell lap dances
walk around...SMILE...make eye contact with every guy you pass...if someone makes eye contact back and doesnt look away...go introduce yourself...make small talk...ask if he would mind if you sat down with him...if he says yes, sit and talk for 2 songs...only 2 songs...no more...then ask if he would like a dance...if he says no...then talk for 1 more song...no more...then excuse yourself and say that you will check back later but you have to get to work...do that all night long...check back with guys but not too soon..wait atleast a half hour...say hello again...having fun? make up something like ...I've been so busy, I didnt mean to neglect you for so long...are you ready for a dance? And just repeat all night long...also, see about tipping the dj extra to avoid going on stage...if you dont feel comfortable it will show....if you cant...then whatever you do SMILE and act like you are having fun and the guys wont care
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i do that.. eye contact thing.... i am just sooo sore, i think thats why i suck on stage...
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I feel you girl...I dont go on stage... I HATE it...when I did use to go up there...I would go very very slow taking things off acting like im teasing them but really am wasting time....I walk around sexy making eye contact with each guy...I refuse to do pole tricks...I dont ever go up anymore...and I make money still....it could just be that it is bad in the club...what area are you in?
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I posted an answer in your other topic:
Re:help me/ sell lap dances
gotta be bold!!!!!!don't give the same BORING line " do you want a dance?" that is so boring! it will not get you anywhere,are you a sexual person? use it to your advantedge be persuassive,convince him that he will be missing out on a good time if he doesn't get a dance with you.[move=left,scroll,6,transparent,100%][/move]
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Dood, I've tripped on my heels, fallen off the pole, had all the power in the club go out while onstage, and a million assholes tell me crap while performing like..."ya gotta work harder for this shiny nickel I'm about to give you."
When we are in a bad mood, or have stage fright, it shows up in how we carry ourselves, and affects earnings. I would recommend go the the back for a few moments, have a drink, alcoholic or not no matter, have a smoke if applies, maybe change your outfit, adjust makeup, BREATHE deeply through your abdomen, not diaghram or mouth...TRY AGAIN! good luck......