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Hottest LD- sale secrets?
Hey girls,
Maybe i had a bad night last night, i was picked for a bachelor party, and after i came back on stage nobody bought a lad dance. It happens to me all the time- not too many people buy lap dances. Maybe i am doing something wrong? I asked a manager If there is something i was doing wrong or not, and my manager said that i am not really friendly and personal with the customers. Do i have to slave for them or what? :o
How friendly do i have to be? What is the best way to communicate with guy while i am dancing? Our club is not hustling club, so u have to just be onstage and then guys pick the girl they want to get LP with. As you see not much time to chat during 3 min song before i move to the other stage.
It didn't bother me before, because i would make as much money as the girls who get lap dances, but now i am starting get worried about it. ???
So, if you could please share your little tips of how to talk to guys ( i mean what is the best thing to say while you dance), and what works for you, maybe i could try a little harder. [boobies]
Thank you girls, and good luck!
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Hi Orchid,
You can't talk to customers when your not on stage? That's so weird. At my club you can't even hear eachother talk onstage.
But just flirt, say "hi, I'm orchid, what's your name? ... your kinda cute, whoever, can I dance for you later?" or "thank you, sweetie, I'm orchid when you're ready for a dance you come and find me, okay?"
But mostly, use your body language and your dancing style to let them know that you are the funnest girl in there.
Lena
Lena
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Thank you Lena.
i noticed that i don't ever introduce myself to anybody while dancing, so i will just try that trick next time;)
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Yes. Give them bait. Eye contact helps when you are speaking to them. Feathery touches, undivided attention.
Have something that sets you apart from everyone else. In other words, find out how to bring forth that mysterious thing in you that makes guys think "Hmmmm....there is something about her".
Juliette de Sade
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Thank you Juliette! i will try that too next weekend, and let you know if it works;) I am sure it will.
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Yes yes, eye contact! More so, learn to be *extremely* communicative with your eyes. So, um... what Juliette said.
Whatever you do, try to give your movements and speech the insouciant quality that comes from desiring someone... as if everything you do on the surface is just barely covering the roiling fount of desire you are underneath. Body language is extremely important. Learn the cues that say "I'm interested in you". Get a book on body language if you have to. You just have to not do it where it is obvious and cheesy.
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Thank you Veronica. I will keep trying I even told a guy that i missed him and blah blah, eye contact and stuff, as u see i can't do it for so long. They forget about me and pick another girl, which just sucks.:( What else? what kind of move would be the best in this situation?
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Keep practicing, especially when you can't talk to people much as a sales tactic. My Grandma told me to practice in the mirror and I swear I can make people stand up and walk to the stage to come tip me on the strength of my eyes. You can say or do whatever you want (almost, you catch my drift) but if you can work the eyes the feeling of intimacy is established.
Another tactic that was mentioned is, well, being human! For instance, my shoe was slipping so I knelt before this guy and adjusted it, giggled, looked at him, and told him that that smile of his just about made me fall right into his arms, tee hee (or some closely cutesy thing). He laughed and the tips got bigger throughout my stage show. And YES he got a dance. But you have to be sincere about it... get into character.
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You are awesome Veronika!!! :D Thank you!
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i dont think you should tell a guy you missed him unless he is a longtime regular. they wont buy it
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yeah velvet, i do weird stuff like that, and also i wanna tell them that i hate him too;)
he was a guy who bought a dance couple of times, but not at this time :S
THX :)
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Watch Basic Instinct and take notes. Look at her eyes, her movements.
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While onstage, if it's early and there are only a couple guys sitting by the stage...I will focus my attention on one, flirt and towards the end of my set whisper in their ear, "I would love to do a LD for you." I am not asking them, but I am putting the suggestion in their head. 9 times out of 10 they buy a dance before I even get off of stage. ::)
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Thanks Vicki! i tried that too though...they answer "Yeah, right!" which means 'no way' like i am a monster or something. i guess guys are just cheap jerks...:( Well, i will keep trying, that is my living....
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a couple of things I think are important:
Make a suggestive move as you ask for the dance. Smile big. Put your hand somewhere on his body. Wink....whatever you want.
Don't say "wanna dance?" since it's too easy to say no. Something along the lines of "I'm going to show you a good time in the back now" will probably be more successful.
It's easier to sell a second dance to a guy you already have back there than to a brand new guy, so work with what you have. Engage him in conversation. Make him feel special so he'll stay and come back for more later.
The most important thing is confidence. Guys will sense if you don't have it (which is why the eye contact is so important). They want a girl who believes in herself, and they will buy into it. They want the girl that will make them feel good, and I'm not just talking in the physical sense. That is what makes a regular, and those are like gold!
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Thank you Emily:) I will try it tonight;)
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I'll second Vicki-V's notion of "suggesting the idea" of buying a lap dance later.
I know when I walk in to a SC about how many dances I'm going to get and when I'm going to get them (I kind of have a routine). It's tough (or impossible) to sell me a private dance when I'm not ready for one yet. But once I am ready, I'll look around for whoever caught my eye earlier or made a good impression on me (this is where planting the idea comes in to play). From this "list" of dancers I usually just go with whoever stops by again or whomever I can find first.
One thing I've noticed that "sells" me on a private dance is if she lingers for just a moment after she's collected her tip for the table/lap dance. Any little flirty moves done then give the impression that she "wants" to be there, and isn't just working for her tip since she's already got it. Perhaps a soft sigh before you leave as if to suggest "oh darn, I have to leave you and go back to work now." (I know, ::) LOL) Just don't follow it by asking for a private dance or it negates the effect.
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Orchid -- I work in Vegas which is more open than a lot of places. I don't know if you would be allowed to do the things that we do out here, but if you are I would suggest that you try a few of these.: 1 Grab his head and smother his face in your boobs 2 Take his dollar bill and put it in his pants and grab it out with your teeth 3 If there is a woman at the tip rail take her dollar bill and stick it in her shirt and grab it out with your teeth 4 While lying down on stage put your leg or legs on his shoulders for a moment exposing your most private body part right in his direct veiw (that works especially well in a full nude club)
If you aren't allowed to do those things, when a guy puts a dollar on stage, kneel down and run your fingers through his hair and move in close to him and say What's you name? My name is ___ Nice to meet you ___. When you get off of stage walk over to him and say Hi ___ Thankyou for the tip on stage. Are you ready for some serious fun now?
When on stage do you dance in a very sensual manner running your hands over your breasts etc.? This really helps. Guys may admire the athletic ability of a professional dancer or a dancer who can do some super cool pole tricks, but remember it is a Strip Club and not a Broadway Production. Observe the stage shows of the dancers who sell a lot of laps dances. That is the best way to learn.
Good luck. It's a tough business to succeed in, but you are doing the right thing by asking for advice. We've all been there. :)
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Hey Vegas dancer:)
When i have read your post i was like wow! In our club all this things are allowed, I do ALL of this tricks:), pole work, all this sensual touching, asking their names, and tell "nice to meet you" Guys did buy couple of dances from me last night, i really started to pay attention to each person at the stage, I made every guy happy by asking how they are doing, names, or " are you having a great time? Ohh me too!" , and they kept following me from stage to stage:)
Thank you girls. You opened my eyes. This week end i made a lot of money only because i put all of your advices together and tried everything out. It DID work!:)
Now i can say that i can afford a new pair of some hot boots and some nice outfits to impress them even more:)
Once again, THANK YOU ALL
Love
Orchid
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i'm gonna have to try some of these ideas out!!! thanks ladies ;)
xoxo,
heidi
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thanx guys for the info. I have been in the biz for a little while and have always wondered how girls keep guys in the Champagne room for hours and get hundreds of dollars (we're talkin @$700-900) just from one guy...are they doing nasty stuff?
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This is a line that a gal tried on me and made herself an instant favorite of mine. Shame that I only saw her twice.
Dancer: (in bubbly voice) "Hello, how are you tonight?"
Doc C: Oh, I'm fine.
Dancer: I think you'd be even better if you had a lap dance."
[love]
That was all she needed to say. While her dances were terrific, I find it funny that the part I remember most is how she made the sale.
One suggestion that I will make as far as picking your "prey" from the stage, think of customers doing general stage tipping as people sampling the flavors in an ice cream shop. When they find one that they like, they might want an extra scoop.
Should you get a guy who gives you a tip larger than the standard dollar (even if its just two dollars), that MIGHT be a sign that he wants some extra attention later. As you take his tip, make a comment along the lines of "you should get a private dance if you're going to be so generous".
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Along the lines of what Dr.Catfish said about receiving a larger tip than normal, if a guy gives a good stage tip like $5 or more, one of my flirty lines is I'll credit this to your lapdance fund or something like "this is a down payment to the lapdance fund redeemable upon request". Guy'll usually laugh and say "come see me when you get offstage" or beat em to it and ask them. They appreciate the different approach to receiving a tip other than the standard thank you, which by the way is never wrong, but something cutesy can help. Make sure to work it with the right guy.
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If a guy asks we how much a dance is I will laugh and say sympathetically "Well, it depends. Mexicans get em for $ 10 because they can't really afford more." *giggle* Once the guy said "Hell I aint no mexican" and handed me a $100 bill and told me to dance until it was gone. I danced 5 songs then added a bonus song. He added a bonus tip of $20.