Honestly I judge NO ONE, because I am not Mother Theresa myself. However I am engaged and I do *not* give extras- never have, hopefully never will want to. So while I don't judge the people who do give them, it makes it harder on those of us who don't- because it seems like the guys who've had them before "expect" them and are disappointed you won't do it!! Some of them will give you a real guilt trip or even accuse you of lying and say you just aren't attracted to them!!
