Then go to a bar that has just stage dancing and let the rest of us make our money.Quote:
Originally Posted by big_daddy link=board=9;threadid=4113;start=msg49409#msg49409 date=1068760760
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Then go to a bar that has just stage dancing and let the rest of us make our money.Quote:
Originally Posted by big_daddy link=board=9;threadid=4113;start=msg49409#msg49409 date=1068760760
Usually I try to kill them with kindness, depending on their response. If they say they're waiting for someone at a medium size club, sometimes I do offer to find her. And lots of times I've found that later I'll get a dance (or VIP) from the guy later because he remembered me.
If a guy just says "no, thanks" (which I can appreciate) I'll say "well i just want to make sure you're having a good time!" and smile.
Smarmy guys get a verbal beheading from me. I am aware that not every guy will want a dance with me. I realize that they may be dead-set on a blonde, someone with bigger (or smaller!) boobs than mine, darker skin, bigger butt, whatever. But if a guy is mean to me about saying no, I will swiftly insult him almost to the point of tears. Maybe that's mean, but I can give as good as I can get.
As a customer who entertains my customers by taking them out, it is a time to cut out the professional bs and get some good dialoge going with my client..remember, we have to find a way to make money too...
I usually go in with my client and spend about 30 minutes getting into the atmosphere. Then dump about $200-$500 on entertainment.
Just be patient...
You can tell if they are talking business of bs. conduct yourself accordingly. Given the right circumstances and if it is slow, ask if you can listen. You might pick up something to help you keep the money you are working so hard to make.
If you are interested and interesting, you will get the dance.
If it is bs, that is just the way they are.
I love Briggette's advice. I've had that happen to me where a guy said he was about to leave, then stayed there several more hours. Turns out he only sees two girls. Maybe they're just trying to tell us no in a way they think is more polite, but I still think it's pretty damn annoying.
yea.. its really annoying when any customer says.. "yea.. i'm watching the show for right now.." or "oh.. i just got here.. i wanna warm up a little bit first.." or.. "not right now.."
is there anyway to get around that?
The key here is to not burn your bridges. He may not be ready for dances at the moment, but you can cultivate him for later in the night (or even next week) by having a good attitude.
"yea.. i'm watching the show for right now.."
"Oh, absolutely. That's half the fun of being in a strip club! Participate in the show a little bit... " *wink* "... tip the stage and when you're ready for the rest of what we have to offer, I'll be back."
"oh.. i just got here.. i wanna warm up a little bit first.."
"No worries, lots of people need to settle in first. You just got here after all, you need time to get a feel for the place, watch the stage a little bit, have a couple of beers... I'll come back in, say, half an hour and we'll see if you've settled in yet."
"not right now.."
I get blunt with these guys. "Is that an I-don't-want-a-dance-but-don't-want-to-be-mean-and-say-no or do you genuinely want me to dance for you later? Because if you would like, I will most certainly come back later but I don't want to waste your time if you aren't interested."
thanks for the tip Lilith!!
"You are TOO beautiful, I don't know what I would do with myself"
What am I to say to that!!
Once I asked, "Would you preferre me to be un-attractive?" and he replied, "Well, it would make it easier."
I just work in a topless club, how hard would it possibly be to sit through at least one dance!!
As a patron, when I go to a club, I do want to settle down for at least a beer or 2. I do tip, when warranted (i.e. for a good show, not some one who is just walking around and on her back doing the "leg movement thing." When a dancer comes around, please don't get offended, but I'll get a dance for which dance I want a dancer from! There are great dancers, dancers with potential, and dancers who just don't give a crap! But you all know that! Believe me, that dancer usually comes up to me and I'll support the cause then!
Hmm, delicious vixen, yum yum. What kinds of things do you insult them with?Quote:
Originally Posted by NinaDaisy link=board=9;threadid=4113;start=msg64456#msg64456 date=1074509503
Oh, shoot. I just realized she posted, like, a MONTH ago.Quote:
Originally Posted by exotica17 link=board=9;threadid=4113;start=msg79792#msg79792 date=1078215365
To" we are talking business"
say "So am i, i am talking business with you right now sweetie."
Let the "watchers" go,, they simply cant let go of the money. "Cheap-ees"
There is always a kind, smart comeback to everything they may say. Just try a big smile and something witty.