Re:Why do customers keep asking me for dates
Well I know this is a very frustrating thing I deal with all the time and when they keep bugging me I have to tell them what they want to hear. One good tip I was givin by a dancer in Vegas was she would tell them I dont know yet I need another dance to get me in the mood and then maybe I will be ready. lol Also another one that a customer suggested to me is to tell them that several guys have asked you and you are going to pick the best one! lol One more thing I would like to say is I am 35 and I tell the guys the truth, believe it or not it has not effected my money yet! I dont look it though.
Boogie
Re:Why do customers keep asking me for dates
I am new to this site and have enjoyed viewing all of your advice, because you know how lonely this business can get at times, and it is a emotionaly draining job with you know the questions every night usually the same! Anyways what I would like to know from you guys tonight is how do you handle the constant is that your real name question? It is getting to where I cringe after I tell them my name cause I know what is coming next! lol
Re:Why do customers keep asking me for dates
I give them a fake real name and then say to them that none of the staff knows my real name hence whenever they want to ask about/for me from the staff.. use my stage name.
It is true tho'.. not everyone at my club is aware that my dancing/stripper name is my real name... I also don't know alot of the other dancers' real names either.. so this is a very legit reason.
Re:Why do customers keep asking me for dates
becuase you work in a strip club...... get used to it.
Re:Why do customers keep asking me for dates
I always tell the guys that I prefer not to date guys that I meet in the club. Or just tell them that you just got out of a serious relationship. Then they forget that they even asked you that and they start talking about their ex's.
Re:Why do customers keep asking me for dates
Probably because they just don't have anything to lose by asking.
I'd rather be with someone who had the courage to ask me out on a date when I wasn't dancing naked for him & bunch of other guys, ya know??