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Pick one Escorting or Stripping
Which one??? Any Escorts in here please reply. I have just made 18 and real hyped to make lots of money.
I have thought about Escorting but I hear so many things about Escorts that they have sex for money. I know many do have sex for money. All the Escorts I know have sex with their clients, oh yea besides one girl she said no she doesn't have sex with clients, she said thats prosituting. I knew that but now it's not like she was going to tell me straight out that she is a prositute... Now isn't Escorts really just someone to go out to dinner with, lingirie modeling, etc. But no sex! I'm confused. Because someone told me that if I was to be an Escort and don't give the client sex then I wouldn't be in the business for long. So I just wanted to know whats real about Escorting. So if Escorts really do have sex 4 money. PLeaaaase REply..
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LEGEND- Yes Virginia, escorts are really prostitutes.
Does every escort have sex on every date? NO!
Sometimes they don't BUT that is almost always the
exception to the rule AND it almost always happens
at the "upper-end" of the scale meaning a few of the most beautiful,elegant,educated and sophisticated escorts are occasionally paid just to be "eye-candy"
or provide non-sexual companionship.
From your post it is OBVIOUS that you have no
business going anywhere NEAR this line of work.
You are obviously a "lamb" just waiting to get
slaughtered if you venture into this business now.
READ! the other threads on this bd. and you'll start
to get some idea WHY.
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Legend, please, please, listen to what "The_Kid" said, you have no business getting involved with that. 99% of the time, escorting=prostitution. Forget about the money, escorting is very dangerous. Do you really want to be alone with a total stranger in a motel room? What about your body? Having sex with multiple partners, all of whom have no doubt had sex with multiple partners is playing with fire. Sooner or later you will get burned.
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Sometimes they don't BUT that is almost always the
exception to the rule AND it almost always happens
at the "upper-end" of the scale meaning a few of the most beautiful,elegant,educated and sophisticated escorts are occasionally paid just to be "eye-candy"
or provide non-sexual companionship. And thats me. I'm a very pretty attractive lady and I can provide that service but nothing more. And Oh yea I live in california out here prosituting is Illegal.. So Escorts = Prositutes still?
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Which one Any Escorts in here please reply. I have just made 18 and real hyped to make lots of money.
I have thought about Escorting but I hear so many things about Escorts that they have sex for money. I know many do have sex for money. All the Escorts I know have sex with their clients, oh yea besides one girl she said no she doesn't have sex with clients, she said thats prosituting. I knew that but now it's not like she was going to tell me straight out that she is a prositute... Now isn't Escorts really just someone to go out to dinner with, lingirie modeling, etc. But no sex! I'm confused. Because someone told me that if I was to be an Escort and don't give the client sex then I wouldn't be in the business for long. So I just wanted to know whats real about Escorting. So if Escorts really do have sex 4 money. PLeaaaase REply..
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Sometimes they don't BUT that is almost always the
exception to the rule AND it almost always happens
at the "upper-end" of the scale meaning a few of the most beautiful,elegant,educated and sophisticated escorts are occasionally paid just to be "eye-candy"
or provide non-sexual companionship. And thats me. I'm a very pretty attractive lady and I can provide that service but nothing more. And Oh yea I live in california out here prosituting is Illegal.. So Escorts = Prositutes still?
Girl, are you fucking high or something?
Anyway, I'll be a sport and answer your question. Yes, it does. They may get the occasional no-sex job; but it's rare. I'm not morally opposed to escorting in any way, just doesn't interest me.
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Which one??? Any Escorts in here please reply. I have just made 18 and real hyped to make lots of money.
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Now isn't Escorts really just someone to go out to dinner with, lingirie modeling, etc. But no sex! I'm confused.
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So if Escorts really do have sex 4 money. PLeaaaase REply..
I am no escort but one of my exes was.
Here in my city, they have several "agencies" you can sign up with. The one she was signed up with had you go to the guy's house/apartment/whatever, and you had a signed contract to "dance". This dance usually included oral sex and maybe even full-on sex if a big tip was provided.
So YES you will most likely be having lots of sex if you are an escort. My ex NEVER "went out" with ANY of these guys, it was all based on sex.
And one more thing. If you *do* become an escort, don't LIE to the guy(s) you are dating about it LOL My ex did that to me, and, well, that's why she is an EX. I would have been happy to let her do her escort thing if she would have just been truthful with me, but she lied and that was that.
With that said I'm going to enjoy my Friday evening... hope you all have a great weekend.
E
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I would say stripping. Unfortunately, alot of people realise that escorting is a front for prostitution. You could give it a go with a "no sex" stance and see how long you last.... you might do well.. you never know!
One thing I have learnt working at my club is that sometimes guys are willing to pay to just have someone to party with.... it guarantees them to have someone to dance and drink with who will also treat them like a king.
My club offers an escort type of service - companionship ONLY ... no sex at all! They are very strict on the conditions of it. Since the club I work in is located in the nightclub area/district and is close to restaurants and the casino.... they offer it. Many people have paid $160 per hour (min. 3 hour booking hence $480) to have someone "go out" with them.
It is worth a go. Just build up repeat clientele and be aware that you might not always be booked every night because you do not offer sex.
Educate yourself about the laws, get a lawyer so you can compile a contract which you will get your clients to sign and date as well as come up with a good way to ensure your own security/safety (screening potential clients).
Otherwise, take the safer bet and stick to stripping.
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LEGEND- What were you thinking?
YOU are obviously naive and uninformed. You're only EIGHTEEN (18)!!!! years old for heaven's sake!. Escorting w/o sex does occur BUT it is RARE and you
are not going to find that kind of work. If a man can
afford to pay $500 to $1500 plus per hour for "arm
candy" or "companionship" he's NOT going to
spend it on a barely literate 18 yr. old.
NO! NO! Young lady. You stay focused on school and
set yourself up for a career.
If you go near this business you'll find yourself
sucking and fucking a bunch of fat, lonely old men!
Forget that "Pretty Woman" mythology. That was just
a MOVIE!- not real life! You'd have a better chance
of hitting the lottery than finding a kind and caring
"Sugar Daddy"! Right now you don't have a clue!
STAY AWAY from the escort business.
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It does seem like Legend has a very idealistic idea of what escorting is and an unrealistic idea of what she can offer men. She may be pretty, but at 18, she has very little to offer to an older, upscale client who wants non-sexual companionship. I'm not saying this to be antagonistic, but The Kid is right. Legend can barely string a sentence together. Trying to pull out a coherent thought out of her posts makes my head hurt....I just don't see the level of education and sophistication it would require to entertain older men. An older man would be embarrassed to be using an 18 year old as "arm candy"....it's not really a status thing to have a naive, little girl next to you.
I feel 18 is way too young to get in the adult entertainment business. I was 18 once. I thought I was ready for it, but I'm glad I didn't do it. I went to college....lived alone as a "poor college student". It humbled me. There's more to life than having lots of money, especially when you're being objectified in the process. You have to be sure of who you are before you get into this business, escorting or dancing. You cannot define yourself by what you have to offer men for money because you will start to feel so cheap and hate yourself. Going to college, getting a main-stream job, being a productive human being and learning about your worth beyond your physical attributes is such an important thing...not because it's what you're "supposed to do", but because you will be able to see yourself from a different perspective. I cringed when I saw the first line of your post.....that you (Legend) are 18, so you are ready to make lots of money. If you are starting your career thinking all you need is to be of the legal age of consent, you do not get it. This is probably preaching to deaf ears, because no 18 year old is going to listen to this, but who knows...
I've never seen a girl start out dancing at 18 and not have major issues with drugs and/or men. There is something about all that money that ruins someone that hasn't had a chance to really grow up enough to know how to handle it and it takes a real beating on your self-esteem if you aren't secure in what you have to offer a man besides your body.
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Ah, yes....
unfortunately I am the product of starting out at 18. Did I have issues with drugs? Yes. Very badly. I have only been off the yay for 10 months and to this day it's extremely difficult watching girls take bumps at their lockers.
Issues with men? Legend, you can look forward to deep-seated psychological goblins like:
Fear of abandonment
Feeling worthless
Guilt
Pathological lying
Fear of infidelity
Sociopathy
Just to list a few. Is the list longer than that?? Hell Yes!
Escorting is even worse. Imagine that. Stripping means you CAN have a strict no sex stance. You have to take a shitload of abuse regardless. Count it as an inevitability.
i'd hold off for a while. You begin mixing up your stripping persona as YOUr identity.
Careful, love
Juliette de Sade
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THANK YOU EMILY! THANK YOU! I live in N.Y. Way back
when I worked security part-time at Covenant House.
My heart would break when I saw some of the
beautiful kids that would come in there to try & escape
the Times Square "street scene". They were all
teenage runaway drop-outs. You don't want to
know some of the "sewage" some of those kids had to
wade through. It was a very eye-opening experience.
So when I see a post like Legend's I'm going to
respond and so should you! If we set just one naive
waif straight it's better than sitting back and just
shaking our heads. Peace Sister!
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Here's the deal. Look in the SF or LA phone books under escorts. Call the bigger ads and line up an appointment. You'll meet the agency owner at a restaurant,she'll go over the details and you can start work.
You will call the agency lets say around 8PM telling them you will take calls and if you match what the callers want will be given the customers # and you can call him and line up the session. Let's say the fee is $400 and the agency gets $100. Tell him when you will be at his hotel, stop and get a 12 pack of condoms and some kY jelly and head to the hotel. have on a short dress and heels.
When you get to the room you call the agency letting them know you made it, collect the $400, and both of you get naked but keep your heels on.
Put the condom on and give him head, then put his hard condom covered dick inside you and fuck him until he cums.
Wash up, call the agency telling them you are leaving and hang out until your next call. Do 3 of these a night and work every night and you might make over $20,000 per month.
Sound good? Escorting is big in CA.
If you like fucking and sucking all types of men, this jobs for you.
No one is going to pay you to wine and dine with them unless you are dessert.
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[laughup] Tina, you bitch, I fucking love you! Sorry about past misunderstandings, not used to someone more blunt than me.
I bet you even typed that with a straight face.
Yes Legend, that's how it'll be
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Also Legend, don't forget the KY when visiting with agency owner, cause you're sure to get fucked when she wants her cut.
[cheerup] :o
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TINA & NAOMI- Thank You Ladies.!!XXOOXX
LEGEND- IF you're still out there reading instead
of hitting the books as you should. RE-READ TINA's
post That is the REAL world of escorting.
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Well the way i see escorting....Tons more money if you are an escort. Strippers these days don't make near what an escort can.
But would i want to die from AIDS rich and young. NO.
If you don't sleep with them, 1) you will not get business as you get known in the industry, 2) you may get raped, this is an act of violence, and a man paying 100's of $$ wants what he pays for besides dinner.
Or you will break down and start sleeping with these guys.
I don't see this business as sexy, or having a happy ending for most.
PS funny thing we have a well known escort agency right across from one of the county's best known colleges. That is the co. i did my research with. I was fed a Bunch of BS.
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Equation:
Escorting Job + In Hawaii= Street walking on Kalalakhua and Kuhio while your pimp is waiting to take most of your money.
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Strange....so many different "jobs" but if they include selling any part of your body (hand job too) then it's all prostitution. No matter what you call it, escort, extras in clubs, callgirls hooking, street walking, it's all the same. many other names included i am sure.
Me personally, i can't see why someone would "want" to have sex with a stranger, maybe 3 or so a night for money.
Anyway....Escort biz. is booming around here. Adds, new companies, geez.
Pamela
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MAYBE another state could join Nevada and try
regulated legalization. Less STD's; minors almost
unheard of; safer for the women and their customers;
something else for "sin taxes".
NAH! Makes too much sense.
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Well I'm quite sure Legend is long gone - if I know my 18-year-olds, as soon as she read the first two posts telling her she shouldn't do this, she got all indignant, decided this site is full of old clueless farts, and took off to find a place where they'll tell her what she wants to hear. 'Yes sweetie, you can make TONS of money escorting, and no, sex is not involved, that would be illegal.' Just before they send her out to some perverted old dude who can't wait to break in the naive little newbie.
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she's here...posting in Body Business about makeup and skin care.
But I'm sure you're right, Bridgette. This topic has not gone the direction she had hoped, so she is ignoring it. Hey, that's how 18 year olds are and how I was when I was 18.....cherry-picked my reality.
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Unfortunatly, Legend, tina and naomi are right. However there are so many different escorts in cali you will find something that will fit your tastes. You can't knock it till you try it. A ton of girls I knew from highschool became escorts and they are making bank! Don't be discouraged if that may be something you would like to do. I don't think you have to pick one or the other, you can certainly do both. Just get more info on it and lace yourself with some game. Sed me a private message and I can help you out. I'm from cali too. Welcome to the game......
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KALUA- Are you serious??? Did you read, actually READ
the posts of that naive, uninformed, barely literate
EIGHTEEN year old??? And you want to help her get
into prostitution? I am truly surprised and disgusted.
I have no problem with escorting for ADULTS who
voluntarily and knowingly decide to spend/make $
in that business. I have a lot of problems with it
when it involves teenagers(read CHILDREN)!!
I think you should be ashamed of yourself but
if your post was serious then you are either totally
shameless or just as silly and naive as Legend.
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A couple of months ago I flew to Italy and read a very interesting book while I was on the plane. It's called The Diary Of A Manhattan Call Girl. It is a true story, no bs and very, very graphic. The book covers escort agencies, Johns and other girls in the biz.
The book is written by an escort and if what you read on here still hasn't convinced you that escorting is not the safest job in the world perhaps this book will.
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Whatever job one wants to do is fine, it's their life. (as long as it does not interfere with mine and the law.)
Giving someone the heads up about a very dangerous job well known for prostitution is good advice. When someone asks they will get opinions and advice, thats good.
I myself have looked into the world of escorting for about 2 weeks straight. Letting the owners/managers think i was going to become one.
I could not believe the way they word every detail so as to NOT get busted during the interview. I could have been an undercover. But each and everyone said the same thing, "if you and a customer really hit it off and you decide you want to sleep with him blah blah blah.
It's my money of course they tell me. The interview only protects their ass (of course) and when you hit the first 'date' it all changes, they want their cut of the $$$$ for sleeping with him too! Know why they can do this with alot of clients, because they are regulars, and alot of regulars will tell if you slept with them or not, and how much was paid! Regulars build up discounts and a "working relationship" with owners of escort agencies. Don't sleep with the customers, you don't get sent on calls, and maybe get "blacklisted" for your "personaliy."
These are notes i took from 2 very well known companies in the area.
Outcall only.
Pamela