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Private Parties
A guy I know pretty well asked me to dance at a private party for him and some friends. I'm interested, but I've never done it before. What do people generally charge for private parties? Based on other threads, I know that security is important. What else should I know?
Thanks!
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Re:Private Parties
Hi Pixie,
i only do private parties now. You know about security, :)
I usually negotiate on the phone about the length of the party and money. I always tell them "money up front" what NOT to expect, and what to expect.
I have a well known friend there, he will be my safety. With out a well known friend, i take one, be it male or female. I always call a friend and let them know how long i will be, and to call me on my cell when my time should be up.
I take 2 or 3 outfits, and food stuff, toys a kiddie pool etc.
I do lap dances, nude but the guys must keep on shorts, and pants. I usually last 1 hour, at times longer to chat after. (May make for more parties in the future, if i stay and chat with them.)
I have good luck so far. I love the freedom of NOT being watched over in a club, and money up front. The guys get shit faced, it's over for this party if they also get out of hand.
ALWAYS negotiate everything up front what you will not and will do, making a list helped me at first, since you are in control of the private parties.
PS at private parties guys for some reason love to squirt food on me! Makes for a kinky clean time!
Good luck,
Pamela
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I charge $250 an hour plus tips for private parties. That gets full nude dancing and lap dances. (the clubs in my area are not nude). Most of the girls I know who do parties charge that amount and it goes up to $300 per girl for girl on girl shows.
I always take a bouncer with me, never do a party without some type of security. Like Pamela I alwyas tell them what they are getting up front so there are no surprises when I show up.
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Thanks for your advice. Private parties sound like the way to go.
Do the people at the parties normally tip you?
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The $250 is the base price just to walk in the door and that gets an hour if the tips are good. longer if the tips are great!
Wether or not you get tipped I think depends on what type of party you do. I've done bachelor parties for 10 to 20 guys and they will throw money while I'm dancing, and I've done a one on one party (just one guy) and he gave me a tip when the hour was up.
We also have ticket parties where I'm at. Someone will host a party and sell tickets to guys for about $100, this gets food and drink too. About 5 or more girls will show up and do dances for a set price. I've only done one of these but the potential for high dollars is good. The girls working the party get a cut off of the ticket price and I only paid $25 to the hostess. I think wether or not something like this would work would depend on the area you're in. I've talked to some girls in states that have nude dancing and they were completely confused about why anyone would want or do a private party. Since there is no nudity in Va we definately have a market for this.
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Cool I'm curious to know first off are you doing private parties on your own, or are you going through an agency?
Another question: Ok, I was also wondering, where do you get your security from? Do you hire him, or is he just some big guy you know and trust?
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I don't go through an agency, most of the time I get the parties from guys coming into the club asking about them or another girl I work with will ask me to do one with her. I always go with my gut on this, if I get a weird vibe from a guy I won't discuss it. A few girls I work with have printed up their own bussiness cards for doing parties. Our club rule is that we are not allowed to discuss them in the club so we alsways contact them outside of work.
My security has always been a bouncer I have worked with and feel comfortable and TRUST! He takes care of the money upfront so its one less thing I have to worry about. My husband who has been in the business for years bounces for alot of girls I work with. He never bounces my parties, we both agreed that it needs to be profesional. If a guy crosses that line he will probalby look at me as his wife he's defending and not a dancer, which could lead to problems. That's not to say he has lax security it jusy doesn't need to get personal.
I would recomend finding someone who is experienced in security, preferrably in the SC enviroment. If not maybe try to find a bouncer from a regular club that you know. Don't get an SO to do it and never have them drink so that they can stay sharp.
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Good point, Thanx Susan-Va!