Just a question to all that know, why do customers talk dirty to us and then tell us that we like it? Is is a turn on for them or are they trying to turn us on?
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Just a question to all that know, why do customers talk dirty to us and then tell us that we like it? Is is a turn on for them or are they trying to turn us on?
Because they are assholes.
Most of the time I can laugh it off, but I have a regular who has been saying ...He can't wait to eat me out.. EEEEEWWWWW!! It turns my stomach every time I hear it. I din't say anything to him for the longest time because he was spending a lot of $$ and it has been pretty slow..so I put up with it and laughed. Finally I think he got the hint cuz he asked me if it was ever going to happen because he didn't want to look foolish by always hoping for something that would never happen. So I told him no. Now he comes in a little less, but I don't care cuz It really made me sick to hear him talk about eating me out... I think a lot of the guys think it really turns us on to hear what they want to do to us...If they only knew...lol.. ::)
Oh I forgot something..... Do the guys like it when the dancer talks dirty to them..like during a dance? Just wondering. There are a few girls who do it at my club and they make a killing. :P I just feel so dumb when I do it..like they know its all fake and made up...
I think some guys CAN"T say anything remotely kinky to the real women in their life..maybe an uptight, frigid housewife..would slap him and he would NEVER get laid. Stripclubs/strippers are a sexual/release for men. They don't have to be the politcally correct business man or doting husband..they can be more wild and nasty than usual. They can't say shit like that to the women they work with or they would lose their job or the frigid bitches..SOO we get to experience all those wonderful..sexy phrases like "Come piss in my mouth..mmm..soo hot baby" or "You wan't me to f*ck your ass..and c*m in your mouth...mmmm baby you would love what i got" :bullwhip:..WOW..just thinkin about those..got me so hot :fever: :heartbeat: ..I have to go throw my man down and do him now...ooh baby.."let mamma show you somethin". :sarcastic:
OMG..did I write that...Bad Girl Bad :censored: :angel:
Holiday
I find it hilarious to see a girl go from guy to guy talking dirty trying to get a dance. IF we all wanted to hear someone talk dirty we would call 1 900 numbers.
A simple smile and a polite invite to the couches always goes much further with me.
That works for me Charles, i get paid to talk dirty. But in a strip club, i admit i will get a little nasty with the words too! hell it's not telling them i will do it, it's just to stir them up, a whisper in the ear, with a few naughty words about a position i lOVE while dancing. Seemed to work for me. But NO gutter mouth crap. I Save the nasty talk for the customer on the phone!
Pamela
I've only heard fairly dirty talk once in a club, and it was during a hot LD that I was really getting into. It worked then, but most of the time it wouldn't 'fit' or belong. The 'gutter talk' is best saved for the bedroom or a 1-900 number; in a club it would be more odd than sexy. However, some slightly-dirty talk, or innuendo, does work for me in a club. I guess I'll call it "sexy talk" instead of "dirty talk."
Dirty talk is great...when the guy doesn't have fish breath while he is saying it...bleh. I still cringe from that experience. :yuck:
I only allow dirty talk, either way, for the big spenders that are racking up dances...ya gotta keep bringing something to the table...Talking dirty, if done well and naturally, turns me on more than ANYTHING on earth. If the man has a deep sexy voice, even better. I have gotten very hot while dancing to guys who know what to say....
:yummy:
I also don't mind talking dirty to above big spenders.. but it should not be a hook line...Casual conversation about sex is tops until that wallet begins to drip 20's onto my hot dripping pus-----hahahahahahahaha!
You wish!! :fucker:
Oh c'mon tell us, or give us some hints! ;D Pretty please? :pray:Quote:
Originally Posted by Katrine link=board=8;threadid=6036;start=msg66271#msg66271 date=1074987616
Are you serious? Jesus! I'm asking literally, is it like THAT?????? That's just nuts!Quote:
Originally Posted by HolidayOnStage link=board=8;threadid=6036;start=msg65921#msg65921 date=1074911095
As for talking dirty, i don't. I don't say anything remotely dirty. I usually just talk about whatever. Ask what she likes and talk about whatever that is. I try to treat Dancers as if they were any other woman i was interested in (keep in mind, i know full well that it's an impossibility to take them home, but it's a good cardinal rule to keep oneself in line) Hell, i call Strippers "Ma'am" for christ's sake, at least until she tells me to call her something else. Even then i still do when it suits.
I wouldn't talk like that to any woman.... well, maybe while having sex... Time and place for everything, y'know?
And i sure as hell wouldn't say any of the shit HolidayOnStage gave as her examples, there just isn't a time or place for that. Jeeze!
I hate the gutter talk too. "Oh baby can I just put my finger in and see how wet you are?" NO NO NO!
"I could make you cum in under a minute" GREAT THANKS!!
Just don't do it.
Why talk dirty if us guys aren't supposed to go further than the dance and much less outside the club :confused:
Normally I just ignore what guys are saying when it comes to dirty talk. One guy comes in and sits at the stage and keeps saying how good he could eat me. I'm like yeah, whatever, can I have my money? He's harmless except for the mouth.
I've had guys ask me to talk dirty to them and I just can't do it. They ask if I say anything during sex and I just give them a smile and say "NO, my mouth is usually full during sex".
I'm going to have to side with guyswholikesdancers... the club ninnies thinking just OH HOW sexy it is to walk up to a stranger and describe certain things really put the P in PL.
On the flipside, when a dancer purrs up and starts the potty mouth thing at me, I can't help but laugh and roll my eyes... followed be "What am I? Just a piece of meat to you? What about MY feelings? or MY needs?! Hmmphh. Women!"
I actually have started carrying around a pic in my wallet for the more indecent proposals. If the C-word is in that first few sentences, I'll always reply, "Hmm.. That sounds great and all.. and I'm sure he'd really like it. But wont the feathers get in the way?"
(flipping open the pic)
OOHHH Polecat!!! That is too funny!! I can't believe you carry around that pic!!!!!!!! ;D
What a cutie! Do you think he'd get along with my pussy cat? Meow!Quote:
Originally Posted by phillydncr link=board=8;threadid=6036;start=msg67122#msg67122 date=1075142319
Now we have both a C##k and a P#ssy in the same thread. Is that a dangerous combination or what? LOL!
Polecat..you rock..that is great!
Can I steal it from you and take a photo of my cat around in my purse at the club...you have no idea how many times I get asked, "show me your pussy!"
OTOH sometimes strong language is called for..
Cute guyswholikedancers! I've always wondered about this issue but I've always been to emabrrased to talk dirty back to the guy. :P
I guess every guy has his own fantasy. Personally dirty talk turns me off, especially when I know it's just an act. I don't do it and I don't like my dancers to either.