uhhh...color me slow, but...
I've been dancing for four months. I've mastered the lapdance. I've aced the tricks. But last night, I went to a new club (topless only), where I could not touch my breast, butt, or crotch area, could not preform tricks therefore, and there was no lapdancing. Then it hit me...got dammit... I CAN'T DANCE!!! The stage hates me, and the pole is not my friend! I only made like $10. I was embarrased and angry.
I ususally dance at Black clubs where all they really want to see is you roll, clap or shake your ass, girl on girl sets, and anything different (like shooting milk out your boobies or water from your hoo-ha). But I felt like I was ready to branch out and get my name out there by going to a club with a mixed crowd. (which reminds me I have another question I'll post later.) I guess I wasn't very prepared.
Anywho, in a nutshell, I just wanted to know if anyone had any tips on stage perfromances and/or working a pole. I'd really appreciate it, thanks.
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There are tons of tips all over these boards, just search around a bit if you feel you need to.
Maybe you were just off that night. Why don't you stick with your club for a while and get your confidence back? Go to the mixed or white clubs and watch for a little while. Then practise at home in front of the mirror.
I feel out of place a lot when I am in a classroom full of smart people, even though I know that I am smart as well. I studder and second guess everything I say, every assignment I turn in, and the worst part is that I know how stupid that is and I just can't help it.
We all feel out of our element sometimes and need confidence boosters. Did you notice if any of the other girls were making a lot more than you?? Maybe this club just doesn't cater to the big spenders.
Who's to say you can't make a name for yourself in clubs that you enjoy working in with the rules that you are comfortable with.
I bet you are a great dancer. I hate to hear talented, courageous girls get down on themselves. I mean please..."the pole hates you"...? Yeah right. That clubs pole couldn't handle you!!!!
I want you to turn on some music right now, look in the mirror, dance around a bit, and say ten times
"I'm hot shit, who's your mama, you sexy bitch!!"
Ten times. I mean it!!! Go now.
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You've mastered the lap dance...I sure haven't. I act interested and sexy, but I always feel unbalanced and boring. I know the stage is just advertisement, but damn do I love it.
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watching the other dancers sometimes can help to get a feel of what the customers like too.
Good Luck.
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LOL!! Thanks Daisy. I only got up to saying that 5 times...then I got a little excited and broke the mirror. But it worked. lol, just kidding. But thank you.
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Originally Posted by MotherDaisy link=board=25;threadid=6765;start=msg75735#msg7573 5 date=1077264717
I want you to turn on some music right now, look in the mirror, dance around a bit, and say ten times
"I'm hot shit, who's your mama, you sexy bitch!!"
Ten times. I mean it!!! Go now.
LOL MotherDaisy.. I love that!
:laughing:
She's right, SkOOl. You probably just had an off night.. Keep at it hon. :optimist: