Dancing at a club other than your home club
I really really want to try this club other than my home club. I really love the club I am working at right now and I make good money but latley I have just been feeling really bored and restless. I work at a topless upscale club in a good location but I want to try this club that is fully nude and serves booze. It is the only kind in our state. The problem is I am really scared. Not of being nude the first place I ever danced was nude but I am scared of being the new girl in the place. I'm scared of a new enviroment. The thing at my home club that has been bothering me latley is to get one danm dance untill later in the night you have to sit and make small talk. I think I am ok in this department but I am just getting really fed up with it! I heard this club I want to try is just a constant hustle which I love. Not really any talking and the dances are only ten dollars. My boyfreind thinks I should just stay at my home club but what I would like to do is work one day at this new club and two days at my home club. Do you think this club is too good to be true with the no talking to guys that much think and good stedy dances? Oh and the place I want to go has a ton of blonds and I am a long haired brunette so I think I will probably do ok. I'm scared it will not be as good as I think it will be. Should I audition?
Re:Dancing at a club other than your home club
Hey
I can understand if you are nervous, but if thats all is it, just do it!!! You look very pretty, and I bet if the club is as they say it is, that you could do really well.
Just audition, and if you get hired, do as you said...try one day a week, and 2 at your home club. :)
You should make like NIKE and Just do it. (LOL) :headbanger:
Re:Dancing at a club other than your home club
nude + alcohol = money ! Unless you know of inter-club drama which could backfire on you, or an impending bust waiting at the other club, I'd definitely give it a try. Nobody ever got rich without taking a chance.
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Is it likely that your home club would even find out that you are working at the other club? It doesn't seem like it would hurt to try out the other club and not tell anyone at your home club. If you do follow Pan dah's advice (which is good advice) and try to find out whether your club dislikes its dancers working at other clubs, be discreet-ask someone you can trust, or ask in a way that they won't suspect that you are thinking about working somewhere else as well.
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I too would like to back up the fact that you need to find out if your club is possessive over you or not. I know for a fact that my club is.. if I ever wanted to work at another local club and they found out.. I would no longer be welcome to work where I work (hence fired).
Some clubs act possessive over you but really can't afford to be (like my old club) so they will welcome you back in time. My current club tho'... I am there and there only.
I can take time off and dance at another club in that time (interstate) however I can't dance at another club locally.
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Audition? Yes!
My hunch is that you're going to make a lot more $ dancing at the nude place. How about telling your current club you're going to take a break. (B/c you might need to experiment around with more than 1 night a week at the new place to see what nights works for you.)
I feel concerned though that your bf doesn't want you to dance at the nude place - is this b/c it is all nude? Will this put a strain on your relationship?
Anyway, if you try it and don't like it, you can go back to your old club - just tell them you are done with your 'break'.
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Working through those jitters is a sure way to bring some excitement into your dancing life. The rush of making everything fall into place is probably just what you need to get over feeling "bored and restless".
Good luck!
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Go for it! Yes there are clubs where you don't have to spend time talking to guys to get dances. They're the hustle clubs. You basically just walk around asking for dances all night. The guys who go to those clubs are used to the environment and know what to expect, and understand you're not there for chitchat. In fact, most guys who go to that type of club seem to not even want the chitchat...they're just there for the T&A and then they're out the door. I've just moved from a time and company club to a hustle club and I'm loving it! It's super easy and there's always money to be made - unlike time and company clubs where you might make a killing one night but crap the next because you have to find guys who 'like' you to spend a ton on you. Being the new girl is pretty unimportant. Don't even worry about it. Club regulars enjoy trying out new girls, and the other customers don't know you're new and don't care. As for the girls, you know what to do - keep to yourself and concentrate on the hustle.
Also, until your bf does your job for you or becomes your agent and gets you high paying bookings, etc, you make your own decisions concerning work.
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This is my first time traveling and dancing at new clubs. One thing I have learned on this trip is that it can be intimidating but after awhile I start to believe that the only reason these girls don't like me, maybe because I hustle and I'm not so much into chatting and making friends there. Then I'm accused of being stuck up or too good for the club. I'm really just into making money and the non hustlers just can't get that thru their thick skulls. I love money! Don't let being the new girl scare you from trying out new clubs. I also learned that overcoming my fear made me more money because I kept telling myself that I will not let the girls run me out of the club. My husband said that if they get mean to me just hit them where it hurts "in the pockets". Now I laugh all the way to the bank. I love my job and the experience is so exhilirating when I let them win the little battles and then I win the War! I hope this helps! Good luck and keep the thought of money on the brain and nothing will stop you from making it!
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Eve, that is good advice. The other girls can't really do anything to you that you don't let them. They can make remarks and talk shit, but they'll only get to you if you let them. If you're concentrating on making money, their stupidity falls on deaf ears.