I hope I don't offend. Am I the only one who has run into this? I speak french semi-fluently and enjoy speaking it with native speakers, but I have experienced and heard from some others that french men prefer you spend time and attention on them b/c they are so charming and they want to find out what is really in your heart, show you what real romance is. Blah Blah Great accents, good style, lots of money in their wallets, but no tips in the garter! We don't lapdance at my club, so I can't comment on whether they buy dances.
