if another dancer is letting guys get away with things why do other dancers seem so eager to tell on them,why can't they mind there own buisness?
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if another dancer is letting guys get away with things why do other dancers seem so eager to tell on them,why can't they mind there own buisness?
Because scum like that give us all a bad name!
More than giving everyone a bad name, it makes everyone else's job harder. If I'm getting a dance from you and you let me [fill in activity here], I'm going to assume that's a standard activity at the club and start to do it with the next dancer. If she obeys the rules and says I can't, I'll probably stop getting dances from her and come dance with you and other girls that let me [whatever]. So you breaking the rules hurts her money if she follows them.
Once enough girls start breaking the rules, it may not be long before LE finds out and starts taking an interest in the club. If they see 15 girls in an LD area, and specifically see 6 of then violating the law (and in some states, any "sexual" contact - your breast or my genitals, clothed or not - is a violation of a strictly interpreted law), they're going to arrest 15 dancers and let the courts sort out the difference.
Hasn't this been covered at length several times before?
agreed!
We had a girl like that at our club...we ran her little ass right out of there! That is one thing I can't stand!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
>:(
For the simple fact that rules are in place for a reason. If she wants to have contact that's fine...it's her body, her mind.
Then she should go work at a contact club. Why she doesn't? Because there she has to compete with other girls that are going even further. She's not raising the bar anymore.
If I see it I tell the dj/owner...whomever. She's making everyone's job harder...what about the girl that's dancing to support her kid/s...should she have to compete with that? What about the girl dancing next to her? She looses her customer I guarantee!
We're all equipped with different looks, personality, and talents. It's really sad when you can't even rely upon those.
i take it you are a whinning tattle tale?!? can't you keep your customer interested in you? or his eyes wondering around at a more interesting dancer? girls like you make it hard for real,expierenced dancers like me.if you don't like what you see keep it to yourself! or in your case keep your customer interested in you!Quote:
Originally Posted by Kelli link=board=25;threadid=7173;start=msg81422#msg8142 2 date=1078549930
Darkness....why are you so hell-bent on going beyond the call of duty?
I agree about girls minding their own business, but if the club has certain rules, and girls are breaking them, then that makes it harder for everyone else. It's not about losing customers to another girl. it's about keeping the integrity of the environment so you don't have to keep outdiong yourself.
If girls are always trying to outdo each other with offering more than the other dancers, don't you see what will happen?
If you're so interesting to your customers, why would you need to break the rules (or more realistically, the club norms, which sometimes do exceed the rules) in order to keep them? Not good enough to compete on a level playing field?Quote:
Originally Posted by darkness link=board=25;threadid=7173;start=msg81615#msg8161 5 date=1078613499
I don't know about Kelli; as for me, I never whine and you can call me whatever names you want (hey, after being on SCL for years...) but you better believe I've let someone know if some dancer started ignoring the rules and the law. There are too many really fine women that I like and respect working at the club for me to want them to be busted or shut down because of someone who should be working the corner lamppost.
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Originally Posted by Pan Dah link=board=25;threadid=7173;start=msg81623#msg8162 3 date=1078614680
That's what I was going to ask. If you're such a great dancer and conversationalist, why the extras? And, why are you working at a club that has "rules against any bodily contact"? Couldn't cut it at a club that offers full-contact, high mileage?
Geesh... :banghead:...please tell me that you aren't so dense that you couldn't figure this out for yourself.
I don't want some creepy old perv touching me.. PERIOD. Girls that do that are just making our jobs harder.. and besides, no amount of money is worth some old perv getting his jollies with me.... I personally like the rules in our club, we had two girls who were doing things that were against them, and it just created a lot of drama and a bunch of tension.. one got fired and one is currently on her way out! YAY! Extra girls have no respect from me.
Actually, I'm no tattletale. I don't like girls going the extra 5 miles for the reasons Pan Dah already stated. If I see you getting fingerbanged, I'll call you out to your face. Now what?Quote:
Originally Posted by darkness link=board=25;threadid=7173;start=msg81615#msg8161 5 date=1078613499
That's right Sapphire.
Also I would want a club to get raided because of someone's stupidity. It's not fair to the other dancers.
Oh please darkness. I know a BUNCH of experienced dancers who do not have to do extras to keep a customer interested.
I have only been dancing a year and a half, and I can KEEP my customers and dont have to offer extras. Why do you feel the need to go the extra mile?
Its not about tattle telling, but when there are rules, they are there for a reason. You breaking them and going against them makes it hard for ANYONE else to make money. You damn right people are gonna open there mouths.
Right on, Lexi.Quote:
Originally Posted by Lexi link=board=25;threadid=7173;start=msg81697#msg8169 7 date=1078626628
No one else wants to take the fall for your dirty-deeds inside the club.
And you can't define "experienced dancer" or "more interesting dancer" by the "extra" services you provide. Because that definitely doesn't make you experienced in dancing. Everyone knows what I'm getting at, so there's no need to come right out and say it.
Ok girls, I think we're getting trolled by some Aces High punk again.
I remember that pic darkness uses for 'her' avatar being posted on the AH forums a while back, from a poster who thought it was just SUCH a cool pic....
Ah! I thought I recognized that avatar. They honestly have nothing better to do? How incredibly sad for them.Quote:
Originally Posted by Bridgette link=board=25;threadid=7173;start=msg81701#msg8170 1 date=1078626912
:troll:
If I am doing a dance for a customer and there's another girl dancing for a guy on the couch beside us who is obviously breaking the rules, my customer will EXPECT me to do the same. Most guys will just assume they should be getting what that guy is getting from his dancer. When it doesn't happen, the guy will in turn buy dances with the girl who is willing to go that extra mile. That's only one of the many reasons we don't want girls like that in the clubs we work in.
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Originally Posted by Lexi link=board=25;threadid=7173;start=msg81697#msg8169 7 date=1078626628
Go Lexi!!!!
I agree... I have kept a large amount of my customers WITHOUT any extras. I am not a tattletale either, I mind my own business, but it infuriates me when there's a girl doing something extra and making it an unsafe environment for everyone else.
Darkness: Just an example for you: For every guy who gets an extra from just ONE dancer, he then expects it from everyone else within the club... he tells a friend, that friend tells a friend, and pretty soon you've got undercover officers in the club-this happened to the club I worked at in L.A. when girls were doing extras.. we were all out of a job for over a month- we were all questioned, and we were all made to feel as if we were on trial for something only a couple of girls were doing... it was a bloody mess and a nightmare!
Bottom line: Most of us have bigger fish to fry (responsibilities etc) than to even think about putting ourselves at risk..
Agreed. I have thought this entity was a troll since she claimed to make $1,000 every night she worked. In her own words she's all about being slutty and getting a huge bunch of regulars. Reading through all her posts is kind of creepy.Quote:
Originally Posted by Bridgette link=board=25;threadid=7173;start=msg81701#msg8170 1 date=1078626912
Yeah, I noticed her/his/its past posts also. They also originally had another name, which I can't remember. But the posts I most remember were the ones related to dancers' ages. Stupid little posts like "If you're over 35 you should retire" etc...Quote:
Originally Posted by vanilla_dog link=board=25;threadid=7173;start=msg81822#msg8182 2 date=1078653221
It's pretty damn sad when people have nothing better to do.
:shrug:
Just a note, as this dicussion is pretty much done.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gynger link=board=25;threadid=7173;start=msg81646#msg8164 6 date=1078617231
Could you include creepy young pervs in the list of guys you don't want touching you? ??? Guess I'm just having a tough week.
>>>Sad<<<
;D
I'm eager to tell because some jackass will come in buy a dance, try to touch my cookie (or whatever) and when I stop the dance, he says, "Well, (insert name here) lets me"
Oh, hell no!
Hi darkness,
Please get over yourself.
Love, JDS
Yeah, I was going to give my input to this thread yesterday, but common sense got the better of me. I figured something wasn't right when I saw that avatar, because I've seen it somewhere else too.
IP address check please!! :whistleblower:
Sad.. you are right.. Pervs can be young too! Sorry... just have had a lot of old guys lately!Quote:
Originally Posted by sadbuttrue link=board=25;threadid=7173;start=msg81838#msg8183 8 date=1078659505
Oh yeah, and the comment about the "if you are over 35... " that comment was made to me back in january when I first joined this forum, and I believe its on the thread that I posted titled: Coming back to dancing after a long hiatus.... I remember that comment specifically, because I was infuriated that some one would say such a thing... (that good ole irish temper!) :censored: