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I would have no problem at all with my BF getting dances from other strippers at his bachelor party.......BUT......I would also like to pick the dancers for him myself. I'd make sure that he got the most beautiful girls with the best attitudes who know how to have fun and really entertain him and his boys. ;D
I'd also make sure he didn't wind up with the ones I know for certain are doing dirty deeds in the clubs. :o (dirty deeds=BJ, HJ, FS etc.)
I am insisting that he does! His bachelor party isn't until the fall, and I'm already planning the debauchery.
I don't even care if he gets "extras." :o :D
Oh man, here's a doozy!
My husband and I had our bachelor/bachelorette parties the same night. We went our separate ways and to different strip clubs. Both parties met up at a bar at the end of the night and everyone was smashed.
Turns out, at the club they went to, his buds bought a bachelor stage dance for him (two songs). One of the guys told the dancer to beat on him. Well the dipshit broad took it too far and proceeded to BEAT him for pretty much the entirety of both songs. They had told her to knock it off, she'd back down, and START AGAIN! Of course, my husband being the "big manly" idiot that he is, won't wince or give in. Finally they cut the dance short and say enough's enough. Another dancer felt so bad for him, she bought him a drink! Later that night, and especially the next day, he had red, blistering welts all over his stomach, side, and back. Absolutely awful looking. C'mon woman, get a clue and learn how to dance!
Otherwise, yeah, I even buy LD's for him when we hit the clubs.
I don't see why the hell not. Though I think Kittie has a great idea. I know the best dancers in the area, so it sounds logical that I clue him in to the prettiest girls who offer the most fun.
I saw that reality show on MTV where Carmen Elektra and Dave Navarro were getting married, and they had their bachelor/ette party TOGETHER in Vegas....now that would be cool!
The strippers they had were really gorgeous although obviously they did not show their acts....
I saw that too Katrine..The girls were sexy as hell..
I have no problem with my SO having strippers at his bachelor party..
There will diffently be some at mine..lol
I would let my husband..if he wasn't so shy about getting a lap dance. To this day he hasn't had one..poor thing...lol
If I was ever getting married, then yes I would let him, but I would want to choose which dancer it is so he gets the best.
I would insist my guy have a completely debauched bachelor party! Though I know that a lot of his friends are pretty mild, there are a few who I'd hope would hire some great strippers and show him a good time. Heck, I might even make them hire a hooker ;).
For my mans batchlor party, I told him to do everything and anything he wanted to. After all, it was his last night as a free man! I thought I was pretty open minded about it. That is untill I found out he got dances from his ex-girlfriend all night (grrrr). I never said anything about it to him though. I'm glad I didn't, a few months later I ran into her and she was pissed that all he did was talk about me all night! Yay!
Him and his buddies hit up about 5 strip clubs that night. He came home with two pairs of shredded boxer shorts! I don't even want to know what happened to them.
Whilst I'm not getting married, I have thought about this. I would do a mixed yet separate Buck and Hens Party....
We would start the parties out in separate locations then met up at a strip club and then go our own ways... he can hit as many strip clubs as he likes and even purchase lap dances.
For me.. I see the Bucks Party as a rite of passage... from being "footloose and fancy free" to being committed. Why the hell not let him "cut loose" ?
Tho' I don't want him inserting his dick into any orifices (sp?) expect mine. If he "fingers" any girls.. at least wash his hands ;)
Now that I am engaged, I can answer this because the question came up yesterday.
I have no problem with him and his boys having dancers or even escorts at the bachelor party.
Its a (hopefully) once in a lifetime thing.
I hope they have the time of their lives.
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Posted: 03-15-2004, 10:03 AM
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That was the last post. How'd it top out?
My husband and I each had our own bachelor/ette parties. We both worked at the same club and his was pretty much an excuse for the other guys to get rowdy. He was the only sober one at the party since he doesn't drink. Mine ws thrown by the girls at the club, it was just an excuse for them to get male dancers, which I'm not a fan off. I had a great time though but would rather have been at my husbands.
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Exactly, AG. It's a bit of a pain too, when I have to keep going over it, even though there are no new replies.
My fiance comes to my club on occasion. We've agreed that he only gets dances from one or 2 girls. Mainly, they are the good looking ones, that I can trust, that don't do the "dirty" dances in the VIP.
my man stays out of the club - he gets it in our own vip zone ;)
I don't mind him looking at other girls, never had and I think I wouldnt mind one dancing for him, if I know about it and know who she is.
He does some Photography at times and it is the same with model - I just want to now them;)
If /when I ever get engaged I would let my fiance have an all out bachelor party. I dont care if girls did "extras" or not, its his last night of freedom!! Hell, I wouldnt mind joining in for the ride! :)
I'm not really sure about this one. Maybe a table dance, nothing with a lot of contact and where I could watch and make sure nothing more than dancing is going on.
Don't let him get so tired and jaded that he can't stay inside you all night long on your wedding night.
Funny how strippers get all hung up or jealous of their guys getting dances from other strippers. Like, how do they get when their stripper girlfriends/fiancees lap dance other guys?
I wouldn't have too much of a problem with it if extras weren't so rampant like they are these days. I wouldn't mind him getting a dance but not in an area where I can not see what is going on. If I can see that its just dancing, then I'm ok.
My hubby and I didn't do the bachlor/bachlorette parties, but for his birthday I picked the girl for his lapdance. I have no problem with it. He is the type strangely enough that strippers just don't do it for him, so I don't worry about him frequenting the club for something he feels he doesn't get at home. He dated a dancer for two years and said he just can't understand someone paying for something that isn't theirs to really enjoy. He loves the beauty of women and I wanted him to know I was secure enough with myself to let him be near a attractive women that was concentrating soley on him for a bit of time.