Made the sale... now what.....
So I get the sale do the dance....... then I always feel bad trying to get them to extend for another song/10 mins. I guess I feel bad taking all their money so maybe I just don't push hard enough... I am getting better but was wondering if you guys could offer anymore advice? :D
I know they are obviously there to spend, and if its not on me it will most likely be on some other dancer but...
Re:Made the sale... now what.....
I used to feel the same way. A word on how to overcome that feeling: Confidence. You're worth it. Let's face it, if anybody could do this job, everybody would. Besides that, these are grown-ups, if they don't want another dance, they are quite capable of telling you no.
Last thing, I figure most guys come to the club planning on spending a certain amount of money. It might as well be on you. So go ahead, ask him if he wants another dance and keep asking at the end of every song until he says no.
Re:Made the sale... now what.....
Don't feel bad asking for the next dance. He wants it! It's your job to make him want it! I usually end a song sitting in the customers lap or kneeling between his legs with my chest against his groin. Then I lean forward, look into his eyes and say "can we do another one?" Most of the time they say yes.
Remember, your a damn good dancer and you don't deserve to spend time talking a customer into a dance, dragging him all the way over to the dance area, etc., and then only get one dance from him.
Lena
Re:Made the sale... now what.....
The only time that I feel guilty for taking every penny from someone is if they are a regular and a decent one at that (which means they treat me well in the dance).
Otherwise, you are a salesperson and your job is to sell as many dances as you damn well can ;D Just remember that the job of the strip club patron/punter is to ultimately spend money on a dancer (whether via stage tips or lap dances or both...) not to "take up space"... hence take their money ;D !
You actually have more of a chance to make more money after the initial dance than if they go back out "on the floor".
Re:Made the sale... now what.....
Those are some very noble standpoints, krys.. all the more reason why you are deserving of more dances!
From a customer's standpoint, don't consider asking for more dances as being the slightest bit greedy- it's a courtesy! I'd feel hurt if not asked for another dance... then I'd rush to the men's room to do a breath check, BO check and whatnot. LOL.
You should end EVERY dance asking the customer if he'd like another, and if the answer is no, then smile and tell him to come find you if he changes his mind because you'd love to dance for him again. It's a simple courtesy, good level of service, and very friendly to your customers!
Re:Made the sale... now what.....
just say in a soft voice...."you dont want me to stop do you? " at the end of each song...
because they dont want you to stop, so know your worth it and be sure to ask.....
Re:Made the sale... now what.....
One of the simple pleasures of a dance is when at the end of the song the gal entertaining me, rubs my shoulders, brings my attention back to her face, puts on her come hither eyes and asks if I'd like to continue as if to say "you're really enjoying this, aren't you?". A lot of gals around here are a tad aloof and forget to ask. So don't be bashful.
Re:Made the sale... now what.....
LIke Doc. said, ask if he wants to go another round with you! You might be surprised. Either he will continue, ask you to come back again soon, or leave. It's a gamble. While the door is open, jump on it either way!
Nothing to lose, and more to gain.
Pamela