The Stage, The Pole, Where The Hell Do I Fit In
I know that the stage is not where you are supposed to make your money... but at our club guys tip as much on stage, as they would for a lapdance. Where the hell are my transitions???....How do you guys get up and down on stage, also how do you guys use the pole, with out doing pole work? Plus we have a stage that is like surrounded by like a step down area...all of the girls do the same thing...stand above the guys head, wiggle their "spot" in their face...then squat down, sit on the stage, and rub their face against the guys.
Well, turns out most of the customers are bored with that.
Man, I need so much advice...lol ;D
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i'm not sure what you need advice on but if its the pole ...i think you need to practice ...like try to go to work early so that you can practice when there no one there or maybe you could ask one of the girls there to show you ...i think with doing the poles you have to have allot of upper body strength ...the stronger you arms the better ;)
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You should check out the S-Factor Workout by Sheila Kelley. It'll give you a lot of information on transitions, etc. I think that it will really answer a lot of your dancing questions.
Good luck!
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Even if tips are just okay on stage, that's your advertisement for guys to go...woooooowwww, look at HER!!! I always would get most my dances right after I got off stage, I would walk around and say, okay, okay after him, okay there are two other guys already waiting... :) I'm not that great on the pole either. I pick slow music (think:duran duran's come undone) and spin around it a bit, stick out my butt, slide to the floor... You don't really need a bunch of tricks, guys just want to see sexy, beautiful, naked women :). It's basic cave-man stuff that a woman with her back arched, butt in the air, and chest out says... "I'm ready to rock!" And, like Venus said, S-factor would be a great book. I've never read it but I've never heard anything bad about it. I believe it tells you about moving slow and sexily?
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sorry but the way you comment about me l refuse to give you any advice!you can stick with your .50-1.00$ a night :-*
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Darkness I am not sure what your talking about, but you should prove her wrong by giving her some good advice! If people on this site hold grudges I am in trouble. Sometimes pms makes us type rotten things.
Kitten, it sounds like you don't need advice because you already know that the men are bored with what the other girls do. You should get creative up on stage when it comes to the men. Ithink it is lazy to just stick coochie in a guys face and do the same thing over and over. Its ok to make a few clumsy mistakes cause that will just make guys feel less intimidated, it will lighten the mood and everyone will like you more. Just have fun up there!!
I will use the pole to steady myself or slide up and down. I took this off another girl on this site - I sometimes look a guy in the eye and stroke the pole up and down sexually. Its really funny to see their reaction.
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::rolls:: damn no advice from darkness, oh now my world will never be complete!!! ::) :weeping: :loco: Whatever will I do without this man's advice......
ANYWAYS
I asked around the club to see what I could do to improve my stage performance, the general consensus is that Im doing fine, I just may want to slow it down a bit. TOO MUCH ENERGY....Also Motherdaisy, I think you and lexi posted on my last post about skits and stuff, well I have been able to increase my stage performance with those ideas as well. I really am truly having fun, now if I could learn a few pole tricks.
But hey everything takes time right, thanks for everyone's advice. ;D
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Pick whatever music makes you feel sexiest, think of the hottest guy you've ever touched. Move like you want to let him know he's the sexiest man you ever touched. Try to pick a few guys to look at individually as your stand-in for the hottie in your mind. You'll have 'em howling for more. ;D I met a guy a few years back and started dating him. The day after we had sex I had to work and honey--- I was rocking and rolling on the floor, swinging onto and flipping off the pole. I was cheery and chatty. I had been totally bored at work and I hadn't had sex for a year so the customers weren't used to seeing me that way. They were wide eyed and slack jawed. So just let go and hump, squeeze (between your thighs or breasts) the pole to your heart's delight and they will share your--'enthusiasm'. ;)
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Great advice Optimist! I will take that to heart and I know you have inspired others with your words!!! Best ideas I've heard in a long time!
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Optimist, that is an excellent idea...oh man I already have ideas running thru my head for next week....
Thanx girl you rock!!! ;D
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hi! i'm 35 years of age (female) and ive been in the entertainment business for almost 2 years,, i never knew what it was about until i sarted,, but you asked where you fit in? well in my opinion,,, when it comes to doing pole work an pole tricks,, dont do it unless your comfortable with it,, (like i did) took me almost 1 year,, as far as the stage goes,u have to be comfortable with yourself to even be on stage,you dont nec,have to do what other dancers do to "try to fit in" theyre either gonna like u or hate you,,i know and have seen that all dancers ARE NOT alike,, like me,,and the club that i work at,, i dont do any floor work at all,,, the others do,, and i still make my $$,, if not on stage then on the floor,with table dances or in ladies drinks,,and,, and just remember,, sometimes its not nec, WHAT u have,, its HOW you work what u have,,,dancing is an art,an needs to be appreicated by all !!
hope this works for you,,Dixie:)
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Just be confident and sexy. Don't try too hard or try "moves" you arent familiar with. That's what you do when you're practising at home or when there are no customers. Most girls that look silly on stage do so because they're trying too hard to impress everyone, so they dance fast and try new things every few seconds. It comes across as cheesey and insecure. Just be yourself and the guys will love you for it.
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Dates people !! LOOK AT THE DAMN DATES!! Yet another ancient thread resurrected. Answer posts from this year please. *annoyed sigh*