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Talkin' Dirty to get more Dances
Has anybody ever tried this...? Sometimes towards the end of a song, if I feel like a guy may not get another dance, I'll run my fingers through his hair or start talking a little dirty in his ear to get him to go for at least one more. It has worked all but once. Now I don't know if these guys had already planned on going another round, or if the dirty talk influenced them to stick around, but either way things worked out for the best! The only problem is that I run out of things to say during the next song, LoL!
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One of my guy friends told me something that this stripper said that set him off. it went like this:
her: do you think I'm sexy?
him: yes!
her: what do you like the most on my body (said with her mouth right in front of his face)
him: your lips
her: mmmmm....I'd love for you to come all over my lips....would you like another dance?
I tried this but I just sound silly doing it, but the couple times I did it, it worked!
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It can help, but don't go overboard.
Even if you're not into high contact laps, a great tactic to get even a jaded PL like me to get extra laps is to play with the hair and also to unbutton my shirt and rake those long fingernails of yours (I'm hypothesizing here) on my chest. That kind of intimate contact is more rare for me than playing with the gameboy or feeding, so I enjoy the unexpected touch, and it is innocent enough so that you won't chase a newbie away and may make him a new regular.
Just don't do that f'ing fake purrrrrrrrrrrr thing in my ear. Makes me want to retch all over those nice stripper heels.
CP
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some of my customers like this...some don't. it can range from seductive little whispers to very shocking phone sex talk. it's important to know what the guys like before going all out. some are shocked in a pleasant way. others may look at you like ???
i like letting a little dirty phrase out during a stage set...whispering something into a customer's ear. i often get dances from this. or at least a few extra dollars on stage. it can be fun on a long set when no one's at the stage but a few.
good luck and have fun, just make sure you feel a bit comfortable saying it so you don't appear awkward
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I had a little hottie tell me a sexy story and then say that I should stay around for the second and third parts. It sort of worked, of course she was about the best high contact lap dance going. She loved to have her butt cheeks squeezed. I did get three dances from her.
I asked her what she made a night after experiencing her hustle up close and personal and she replied that she never left without at least $1000.00.
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hell yes it works!!!! l do it.
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I always talk dirty to get more dances, but I space it out, so I dont run out of things to say! When I do run out, I feel really stupid!
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what do you guys say? I have never tried this tactic??
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Personally I hate it, and the majority of guys I have interviewed about this do also. It depends on how it is done, and yet there is that fine line between seductive/sexy and slutty. When dancers talk like this to me, the first impression I have is a very negative one as it portrays low class. I'm confident that there are some guys who will go for this tactic, and many will not. So why cater to the minority of customers instead of using skills that will appeal to the masses instead?
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Sometimes if the guy is talking to me a little naughty during the dance I'll lean into his ear and say something like "so... what is your ultimate favorite sexual position... mine is _________"... then it starts a "naughty" conversation, but not so much "i'll fuck your brains out"... i don't know but it has gotten me a few extra dances from time to time. i'm really shy but that's not too over the top for me, and the guy's answer always gives me a lil something extra to go on, like "oooh, that's one of my personal favorites as well, i just LOOOOVE being on top"... etc... i don't know.
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at the end of every dance, i always smile seductively and say "do i need to stop?"
if they say "no, id better get back" or "i need a breather!" they usually always feel bad about it and it gives them something to think about so they usually say yes wen i ask them for another dance later in the evening
also, if they say u must stop, then as ure walking out of the booth, say "maybe we can pick up where we left of a bit later?" with a smile of course.
seriously, this has all come from picking the brains of seasoned dancers!
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Wow 21rstcenturyfox!!! That'sa great line to use at the end of a lap dance!!! I will definately have to try that on some customers next time at work!!! Thanks for the fab tip!!! ;D
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Originally Posted by DancerWealth link=board=9;threadid=8127;start=msg105381#msg1053 81 date=1083737719
Personally I hate it, and the majority of guys I have interviewed about this do also. It depends on how it is done, and yet there is that fine line between seductive/sexy and slutty. When dancers talk like this to me, the first impression I have is a very negative one as it portrays low class. I'm confident that there are some guys who will go for this tactic, and many will not. So why cater to the minority of customers instead of using skills that will appeal to the masses instead?
Exactly... It has to be done right. Done wrong and dirty talk can make a girl sound like she will sleep with anyone, and will leave the guy feeling bad if he doesn't get with her. But there are ways to make him feel like he is being let in on a deep sexual fantasy that she wouldn't normally share, but this dance is just getting her so hot, and she is so comfortable with the customer that she is sharing this fantasy, etc. I actually had a customer coach me on this as I was the only dancer at my club even open to the idea of dirty talk. He paid me very well, and he comes to see me every time I work in that city. I have sucessfully used this technique on other guys as well. I will use a "test" line to see if the customer is into it, and more often than not, he is.
Really naughty 900 number type talk works pretty well on young club goers, but they are usually on a limited budget. I have gotten $100 out of a guy waiting around for the 2-4-1 specials. ;)
The key to really pleasing the customers is finding out what they like then giving them that (within the law, of course).
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When you use this tactic (talking dirty) do any of the customers ever get the wrong idea and expect to recieve more than naughty whispers in their ears? That's the only thing I think I would worry about....
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Talking dirty makes me melt... if I were wavering about another dance, I think I will always shell out more cash with a seductive whisper in my ear. Not because I expect "extra", but rather I am a sucker for the sweet talk. Most guys would be lying if they said otherwise!
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Originally Posted by ladysummer link=board=9;threadid=8127;start=msg115369#msg1153 69 date=1085843019
When you use this tactic (talking dirty) do any of the customers ever get the wrong idea and expect to recieve more than naughty whispers in their ears? That's the only thing I think I would worry about....
Some expect more dances ;) :-*
Just don't phrase your dirty talk in the "you and I" context and you should be fine. Ex: "it get's me so hot when a guy nibbles on my neck." or "my nipples are so senisitive, I can almost come just from having them played with" etc.
If you phrase such dirty talk with "It gets me so hot when you nibble on my neck" or "My nipples are so senistive, I can almost come when you play with them" - these phrases will send the wrong message, like permission to play with the dancer's nipples, when this is not permitted in most clubs.
This takes practice. Try it on a regular first, and see what he thinks. If it is a flop, you two can have a good laugh, and move on to what he usually enjoys. Who knows, he may have some great ideas to help you out :).
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I disagree with dancer wealth. If you stay on top of a guy and whisper something dirty... actually persuasive in a guys ear.... chances are he will stay. It's called the power of persuasion, and because you just did something to spice it up a little bit, they will usually stay at least for one more unless they are broke. Most guys can't say no to a naked chick who is talking dirty.... at least that's what I've learned in my experience dancing.
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Yup - talking dirty is good....and avoiding comments that imply that the dancer wants to do something "dirty" with that particular client is very sound advice. If you're running out of things to say, talk about the last time you used a vibrator or something like that. Ask the guy if he masturbates. Any time a dancer has done that to me, I've practically broken my bank account sticking around. Seems like a GREAT idea...at the time :) And I've never sued...but then again, I've never run up $128,000 club bill. A little air in the ear doesn't hurt, either.
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I agree with StripperTips, and especially with ParisLove. Jaded stripclubber I am, I know that I don't have the dancer exclusively (if anything I hope that when she's done with me she has some new tricks to use on the next guy), so I'm sorta immune to that whole "I'd love to make you come" sort of talk. But I do enjoy the verbal and nonverbal jockeying during a dance - that at least shows you're paying attention to me and not just doing a rehearsed series of moves.
You may want to make sure that your guy is verbal though - it's taken me years before I had the devil-may-care attitude to start dirty-talking during a dance. And wow does it work now :)
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I love having a dancer talk about her sex life....its hot, even if she's talking about how her boyfriend/husband fucked her so good last night she wasn't sure she could get to work that day...or me and one of the other girls went out after work and...well fill in the blanks. I hate however when a dancer talks about fucking me or whatever...thay usually just sounds like a sales pitch and although its hard to think straight when a girl has her hand on your cock and telling you she wishes she pull it out and really have some fun...lets be serious!
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It all depends on the guy... if i come ascross one that into me and spends a whole wad of cash ill be whippin out the noises to empty his wallet quicker..
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I find that even a simple "do you want some more of me " at the end of the song is suggestive enough to get another dance
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It's great that we are talking about the dirty talk, but WHERE does it start? What's a good all around line to find out where his head is at? NO PUN!!! lol
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Talk about getting some hot sex. from a guy, girl or horse. Thats what we want. We want the fantasy that you are special sexual beings.