Horse ??? please tell me that's a joke
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Horse ??? please tell me that's a joke
:rotfl: I sure hope so!Quote:
Originally Posted by SpinKitty link=board=9;threadid=8127;start=msg124237#msg1242 37 date=1087548694
I didn't say have sex with a horse! You are providing a fantasy, just talking, not doing. Remember you probably have some kinky customers. Here's a line a dancer tried on me, "I love to swallow hot cum...you have any for me?" I found out later from another dancer that this girl doesn't like to have anything to do with dick.
I talk very explicitly about what I like, and use the customer as a prop for demonstration.
For example: "I always come like crazy if I lean my clit in to the guys pelvis and move just so. . ." (Moves just so). Then I describe the orgasm tremors I have. It always comes very naturally to me, talking dirty.
I discovered this little secret the other day. The customer initiated the talk, and I would add things and tell him to tell me more. He bought $100 worth of dances from me. To me, it was fun, and it was a hell of a lot better than having him try to grab me or touch me or expect me to grind him.
Thought it was related... tailor it to dancing.
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Personally, I don't talk dirty. That's a specialty item and I would have to charge extra on top of the dance.
Don't sell yourself short.
If its unnatural for you, don't do it. But you can use it as a tool to sell up. I don't think its like "giving something away" to talk dirty if it comes naturally and you are good at it. But it is certainly not for everyone.
I will do it for special CR/VIP customers every once in a while as long as its interactive and they don't start talking about anything violent. Trust me, it can be done in a VERY classy dignified way. Remember, the guys are there to feel S-E-X. Better to talk about fantasies then be jerking him off under the table. If he wanted P-R-U-D-E, well then I'll point him to his wife or to you Marie ;)
Depends.........if he's younger and one of those 'thinks he's cool' types, just blow up his ego and tell him how wonderful he is, how big his dick feels and how much you want to do him. Moaning can help too.
It's all about what you're comfy with tho. Personally, I don't do it all the time, just 'cause it's hard for me not to laugh. I had one guy catch me off guard and I didn't know what to say back and I felt really stupid so.........dunno-it's all you-how you move the pressure of your body, where your body pressure hits, how you smell, and like everyone has told me-the eye contact thing helps tons!!
The ATF used to like to tell me a lot of details about her sex life when we were just in dance together and not outside the club. Even though it wasn't during the dances and usually when we were just sitting having a drink together. So it wasn't specifically to get another dance, but it probably was another thing that kept me coming back.
Oh yeah, she once told me that if we had real sex she could make me cum in 2.3 seconds because of her strong muscles. The 2.3 made it hilarious.
Another dancer talked just a little dirty during dances and had such a sweet girlish voice when she was whispering in my ear during dance and she had a tendancy to sort of "coo" while she was doing it. I really liked it.
A third was just right out with it, looking at me straight in the eye while straddling me and making hard contact while moving straight up and down, and I was laughing inside while she did it. ::) And so I started to throw s*&t back over the fence and it was fun. And got a few more dances.
I guess it always works on some level :O . And it's a great ice-breaker.
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I like to talk dirty with some guys and others I don't. My dirty talk can range from suggestive comments to very explicit depending on the guy.
I try to see what the guy is into not what I want him to be into.
After all, HE's the one paying for the dance and so he should be the one to pick the kind of dance that he wants-IMO.
Anyway, It's all about what you're comfortable with doing.
If I'm not in the mood to talk dirty then I don't do it because if I try to do it without actually feeling it , I sound so fake and phony and guys don't like that.
If you're in the mood to and feel comfortable with talking dirty by all means go for it but if you are not comfortable then don't is my advice.
just my thoughts on it....
Haha--funny, Katrine.:D I used to think, "Talking dirty, oooh, I can't do that." But now, I find nothing wrong or extra about it. It's just a fantasy that enhances the table dancing experience. At this point, it comes naturally for me, given that it is the customer's wish to be talked to in that way. Almost anything goes.
I'm usually glad if a guy talks dirty to me. That means he's getting into it, which means I can probably sell more dances. I'm like the other people who don't really know what to say, but I just keep him talking, the way I would on any other subject. "Really? Ooohh. Wow." And maybe a little moan.
The other day this rather older guy (I'm guessing 60+) was telling me how much he loved going down on women. I thought it was, um, sort of sweet ::) .
Personally I think it is great when a girl does this, however, it has to be done right. A girl cant just just start doing that right as she starts a dance. Work your way into it. Also, dont just start telling me you like to give blow jobs after one song. I believe in building a repore. These are your customers. Get to know them. Keep them coming back and asking for YOU! I had one girl hisper in my ear she liked to be touched softly all down her back and then lightly placed my hand on her arched back. NICE! Another said I like to suck c*@k 30 seconds into the song. Hmmm? Not so nice. Also dont go too far with the purrrr thing. one dancer I know has a very sexy purr but then follows it with the most annoying little meow. Sounds like a cartoon. grrrr. Knock it off girl. :) As a guy. Have fun with it I say!
I have tried some other more "tounge in cheek" type of dirty talk to get a group of guys spending. Sometimes it works, sometimes not, but seeing the responses and facial expressions is always worth it!
I will approach a group of men (usually younger ones respond better) and will ask for "fashion advice". I will say something like "Do you think I would look good with come all over my face?" using a very matter-of-fact tone of voice.
Now keep in mind that you have to be a very bold and outgoing person to pull this off. If the girl is a more subtle and shy kind of girl, this will fail miserablely. But I guess I was just wondering if anyone else uses this kind of approach with guys? I haven't notice it at my clubs, but maybe I'm just not paying attention.
Yup, that's me!}:DQuote:
Now keep in mind that you have to be a very bold and outgoing person to pull this off.
Wait...are you saying that if you think we're going to get another dance, that you DON'T give us the benefit of the dirty talk???Quote:
Sometimes towards the end of a song, if I feel like a guy may not get another dance, I'll run my fingers through his hair or start talking a little dirty in his ear to get him to go for at least one more.
Girls, if you're not comfortable talking dirty a simple "ohh myy... where does it end?" or "where can I get one of those for my own personal use?" will put a smile on his face and do the job.
Always works here!
P.S. Of course if the guy is like 4 inches is probably not a good idea lol