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Now are you talking about farting dancers vs. non-farting dancers? If so, it would depend if you're talking about Texas clubs or non-Texas clubs. Naturally, Texas dancers eat more chili than those in other states thus have more beans in their systems.
A lot of dancers hate men... makes them lesbians.
But those who love men get rich
LOL You boys are so silly!
There aren't that many lesbian dancers. In seven years of dancing, I only know of myself and two other girls. But, I think not being straight lets me appreciate my customers a lot more than most straight girls - I always laugh when they talk about hating men in the dressing room. I don't hate men, I love them, I just love women more!
Lena
it seems that most girls at my club are bi, but closer to lesbian than straight. i know 3 other lesbians other than myself that work at my club, but i have yet to find a heterosexual stripper there.
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Originally Posted by Pumpkin Pie link=board=1;threadid=8161;start=msg94993#msg94993 date=1081656817
I don't know many straight out lesbian dancers. Most ladies are hetro or bi...
Thanx Lena!!
I can think of no lesbian dancers at my club, but I can say that 90% are bi. Myself I am more to the lesbian side of things. If it wasn't for my fiance showing me that there is at least one good man out there I would still be with only women.
I have only known one dancer that was dating a woman. but technicly she was bi because she likes guys as well she just happend to be dating a female at the time and my boss kept making fun of her and calling her a lesbian, he wasnt being mean he was just jokeing because he found it amuseing to have someone like her there..........
and I am like raven, mostly les but found a good guy.....
I think i have only known one very very hetero dancer ever, she used to go to the male dance review down the street all the time, i never understood why someone would want to pay some strage man to rub on them.....
i find a womans body beautiful, but i don't consider myself bi or lesbian.
uuummm...a few things:
* "A lot of dancers hate men... makes them lesbians" Really, is that how lebians are made? I thought they were born with a sexual orientation, but apparently it's just that they all had some bad experiences. Golly, if only all them lesbians can get fucked by the right guy they could be saved. And remember, men become gay when they are "recruited" by other gay men, it's just like Amway. That's why we must never talk to them or associate with them.
* If the point is (as I think it was?) that sometimes a woman (or man) has things happen that put them through a phase where they think they're lesbian/gay (but later realize they're simply bi) , sure we've all seen that, but that doesn't "make" them gay. Don't confuse sexual "behavior" with sexual "orientation."
* I so wanted to make fun of "Lesbean" but Pumpikin Pie beat me to it and did a damn fine job. Is Lesbean from the same dictionary as "furrners", "darkie", "kweer", and "readers" (as in "Well, sissie-boy has a book! He must be one of them "readers.") (thank you Bill Hicks)
* It's not as simple as gay/straight/bi. The Kinsey scale ranks sexual orientation on a scale of 0 to 6 (0 being completely straight, 6 completely homosexual) - but I'm a believer in the idea of there being six billion sexual orientations on this planet, six billion patterns of desire.
Topaz, I'm curious - if you don't mind my asking why do you say you aren't a feminist? My understanding (and the dictionary's) of the basic term is that it simply means "one who believes in the equality of the sexes." Granted, its meaning has been hijacked by all sides of the political spectrum, but do you mean you have a problem with the base premise of equality? I'm not asking to be accusatory, I'm sincerely curious about your views, if you are willing to share. If it's something you don't want to get into here I completely understand.
* And when in doubt I, like all men, follow a simple rule: If she's not attracted to me, she must be gay.
***update: IN case it seems out of context, JUST want to point out that this post was in response to a post that has been deleted by the original writer***
Topaz, I understand and feel the same way - I open doors for everyone, not because I'm "putting them in their place" but because it's nice. I'm secure enough to say that I like being nice and i have enough confidence in my own self-worth that I don't need to treat others badly to build myself up (which is, i think, why many men treat women like shit.)
In an ideal relationship I treat her like a goddess and she treats me like a god - neither asks for it or expects it, it simply is. (that's not to say there aren't plenty of times in the bedroom where one of us treats the other like a dog/whore, but that's all in good fun...)
All I ask is to please remember that there are plenty of men who don't have that "serve me bitch" attitude - I don't judge all women based on the flighty, self-centered, shallow ones I've encountered and whenever it seems like that's all I'm meeting then I know it's my fault for not looking harder for the amazing ones.
Aw come on man, you're raising the intelligence quotient on this board with these thought out succinct contemplations. :O
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Originally Posted by Weluckyfew link=board=1;threadid=8161;start=msg95141#msg95141 date=1081698828
hmmm where i work... i only know of 1 actual lesbian dancer... a bunch of bi/curious girls... a handful of straight (non-bi/curious girls) and one reallly homophobic straight girl...
for the record... i myself... am bi/curious...
xoxo
heidi