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How Do You Like Your Lapdances?
Hey all, I'm Veruca, and I was trying to figure out a way to spice up my lapdances and make for more repeat customers. What has a dancer done to you during a lapdance that totally turned you on and still sticks in your head today. Of course, I'm talking about tricks besides bump & grind or really dirty "extras". Any help will be greatly appreciated, not only by myself but by my future customers. Thanks!
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Teasing is the secret. The best private dancer I know is very slow, gentle, suggestive and erotic, like she's making love to someone who she's crazy about. She acts like she really is enjoying herself and is totally turned on. I can never stop with just one dance.
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I had a dancer lay across me at a 45 degree angle and then point her foot closest to my face at the ceiling. It was a great view and sexy as hell.
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Nibble on my ear, please.
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Originally Posted by gugle link=board=8;threadid=8807;start=msg108931#msg1089 31 date=1084487420
Nibble on my ear, please.
Oh baby mmm MMM mmmMM!! Love that earwax! ::)
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If I was on the receiving end... SENSUAL ! ;D
When giving them: sensual.
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make it as close as possible, it really feels good when she presses her entire body againd mine.... also teasing my ear or the side of my neck is garentied to make my lap a bumpy place to sit every time.... I know it is SS but a faverable coment on size and stiffness is always welcome..... ;)
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The best lap dances I have received were the ones that acted like I was the most important person in the world, if only for the lengh of the song. Yes I danced, but I have also injoyed my share of dances.
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I'd say the best thing to for *for me* is eye-play. I love that mental shit. Flirt with the eyes.
It's a little too intimate for some people, though.
Really, all things considered, everyone's different. You won't float everyone's boat. No-one does.
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:)the hell with a lap dance lets do a room! lap dances embarrass me as much as it does if i were to go on stage. i have not been on stage in 3 years. ::) :o :( >:( :D ;)
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Full body press is good, necking very good, if the ear gets nibbled then great (I do have Q-tips, you know...), eye contact is necessary unless I'm too drunk to focus...and if I get my shirt off to shower when I go home and can still smell you on my chest, I'm going to want to go back ASAP. Mainly I think it's a matter of really feeling the music. There are girls who do the same dance no matter what the song, and it may have all the bells and whistles but it lacks the sensuality which can really scramble my brain.
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Another key component of a great lapdance is EYE CONTACT!!! I see so many girls I work with simply go through the motions and look around the room to see what else is going on. Eye contact shows you are completely focused on the customer and making sure he is enjoying himself. Smiling doesn't hurt either!!! ;)
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I just recently had my first lap dance and I will never forget it. I was in Vegas not willing to put down more than $10 on a hand of black jack, however I found I was more than willing to spend over $1000 at the club (most of it on one girl and one night)! The key things that made me happily fork over my hard earned money:
1) Her smell: the lingering smell on my clothes triggered memories for days afterwards. Whenever I smell that perfume, whether it be at the mall, with some friends, etc., I know a big smile will come across my face.
2) Her Skin: Not sure what lotion she used, but whatever it was, she was silky smooth. This was definitely key for me. It is what made me come back a second time the next night, and what ultimately convinced me to go to the VIP room.
3) Be Genuine: I know most of the lap dance is an act, and ultimately it’s all about money, however I loved the strip club because it was my ultimate fantasy. Hearing a beautiful girl say flattering and sexy things to me put icing on the cake (and made my wallet a little lighter ;)).
4) And finally, the full body press: the best move that she did was sit on my lap, lean back and let her hair drop against my neck and back.... WOW! I got a view of her gorgeous body pressed up against mine, felt her lovely skin, smelled her neck all the while she was whispering in my ear. Sensory overload!!
With all that said, I can't believe this was my first time. For me, I spent a lot of money, but I have absolutely no regrets and would do it again in a heart beat. Next time I'm in Vegas, I'll be sure to have enough money set aside just for this fantasy.
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Used to hate ld's, now i do my share at private parties. I will give as much grind as the customer wants! Light and teasing, or hard enough for hin to feel my lips.
I am a pretty hardcore lap dancer now, and figure i will go out with a boom. As my dancing days are coming to a halt...Much more to do.
I breath on his neck, always have sweet breath, and love a leg up! Come down slowly and bring my other leg down too, straddle, and ride gently, or harder if he wants.
I give nude ld's, so i must be careful with a man.
Oh gosh jeans hurt!!!!!
Pamela
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Originally Posted by A_Guy link=board=8;threadid=8807;start=msg113778#msg1137 78 date=1085503193
I just recently had my first lap dance and I will never forget it. I was in Vegas not willing to put down more than $10 on a hand of black jack, however I found I was more than willing to spend over $1000 at the club (most of it on one girl and one night)! The key things that made me happily fork over my hard earned money:
1) Her smell: the lingering smell on my clothes triggered memories for days afterwards. Whenever I smell that perfume, whether it be at the mall, with some friends, etc., I know a big smile will come across my face.
2) Her Skin: Not sure what lotion she used, but whatever it was, she was silky smooth. This was definitely key for me. It is what made me come back a second time the next night, and what ultimately convinced me to go to the VIP room.
3) Be Genuine: I know most of the lap dance is an act, and ultimately it’s all about money, however I loved the strip club because it was my ultimate fantasy. Hearing a beautiful girl say flattering and sexy things to me put icing on the cake (and made my wallet a little lighter ;)).
4) And finally, the full body press: the best move that she did was sit on my lap, lean back and let her hair drop against my neck and back.... WOW! I got a view of her gorgeous body pressed up against mine, felt her lovely skin, smelled her neck all the while she was whispering in my ear. Sensory overload!!
With all that said, I can't believe this was my first time. For me, I spent a lot of money, but I have absolutely no regrets and would do it again in a heart beat. Next time I'm in Vegas, I'll be sure to have enough money set aside just for this fantasy.
What guy said.....the more sensual the better. More sexual isn't necessarily better to me. I prefer the sensuality, that's why topless clubs are better than nude clubs IMHO. :D
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OK someone has to say it...........I like my lap dances FREE!!!!!!!!! ;)
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Slow and seductive is first and foremost. I hate when a girl is like shaking it and moving like a million miles an hour. A little kiss on the neck or ear never hurt and blowing in the ear always is a turn on. And of course some minor contact that seems innocent and non intentional is a great tease, if contact isn't really allowed. If contact is allowed, then just go for it.
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Oh yes, and if you get a couple dances for a guy, just say this one is free because I like dancing for you. That will always keep them coming back. Everyone likes a freebie every so often as long as they are taking care of you.
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Originally Posted by Pamela link=board=8;threadid=8807;start=msg113822#msg1138 22 date=1085509012
I am a pretty hardcore lap dancer now, and figure i will go out with a boom. As my dancing days are coming to a halt...Much more to do.
I hear ya there, sister! ;D
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Hmmmm....my thoughts as a not so frequent customer...im probably not the normal customer tho...
Well lets start with what not to do(from my experiences):
1-Dont overload on perfume...please dont wear that same nasty $5 perfume it seems most Dancers and my 60 year old aunt wear.
2-Dont say weird dirty shit to me...i dont like that, seems very fake
3-Dont bite my wang-yes this has happened
4-Dont kick me in the face-yes that happened too, those stripper shoes are huge and they hurt
5-Dont worry if I'm not "excited", that doesnt mean i dont like the dance....i just dont usually get that "excited" from a LD....im not there to get off anyway...so dont try and grind a hole through my pants
6-Dont tell me im sooo sexy, sooo hot, have such a big cock, blah blah blah...theres no need to lie ;D
7-Dont knock me in the face with your ass/boobs/whatever....thats not sexy...be gentle
The Do's
1-Do smell good...(see #1 in the what not to do list) something not too strong, but girly....those body sprays are better than most perfumes...or a perfume like clinique's "happy" its cheap and light.
2-Do compliment me, but dont take it over the top(see #2 and #6 above)...."great eyes" or "nice lips", stuff thats believable and makes it seem like you are paying attention to me
3-Do grind if you want, but not too hard
4-Do breathe on me(neck/ear)...thats hot...you dont need to lick or anything like that
5-Do remember its a lapDANCE...there is music playing...try and stay a little in rythm with the music...dont just do random moves
thats all i can think of right now
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When it comes to the lapdance, speed kills. Take your time, be deliberate and try to emphasize the combination of your physical geometry and rhythm with copious amounts of eye contact. The eyes convey the allure of a woman's sexuality; the rest is merely good packaging. Perhaps a dying style in this day of high contact, but a lapdance also doesn't need to be on my lap, literally, because more often than not, a lady slamming up and down on my lap is pretty damn uncomfortable when there's nowhere for me to grow.
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I'm not sure exactly how guys like us to do dances but I know how I like to do them, start off sklow and sexy light and sentual then a little nibble on the ear a few light soft moans here and then gradually getting deeper and running my nails down their chest, damn I getting excited. Maybe it's just that I like doing dances more than the guys is why they like the dances I give, lol who knew?
Kitana
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let me re-phrase a few word from that post
not sklow i meant slow
sentual i mean sensual
and finally it's not damn i getting
I mean damn I'm getting...
Good God if my husband saw this he would ban me from the computer till I learned how to spell properly, thank god he's in bed!
Kitana
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Kitana...you can hit the modify button and fix the errors before anyone sees ;)
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Originally Posted by kitana link=board=8;threadid=8807;start=msg122097#msg1220 97 date=1087224356
I'm not sure exactly how guys like us to do dances but I know how I like to do them, start off sklow and sexy light and sentual then a little nibble on the ear a few light soft moans here and then gradually getting deeper and running my nails down their chest, damn I getting excited. Maybe it's just that I like doing dances more than the guys is why they like the dances I give, lol who knew?
Kitana
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